Tila Tequila is giving something up for a while! Bet you can't guess what it is!
Source: Tila Tequila's Myspace
Ok...of all the big announcements I have made this month...I have to say, this one is going to be the biggest one for me!
So I have decided that I am no longer going to have sex. I have decided to practice celibacy for at least 6 months up to 1 year or longer!!!! This is going to be a very hard thing to do for me, because...well...giving up sex isn't easy....however I am DETERMINED and I know I am strong enough to do this.
You're probably wondering, "WHAT MADE YOU DECIDE TO GIVE UP SEX???"
Well the answer is simple. I have been single for almost 4 years now. I have no complaints about it, as it was my own choice to stay single, however....I feel like it is really hard for me to meet a good guy who actually likes me for who I am and not just because I am "Tila Tequila" or because he just wants to have sex with me. I feel like, as much as I do enjoy sex, I would much rather give that up if it will help me find someone who is real and genuine....I am tired of all these dudes coming at me the way they are. Plus I know if I can go through with this...and accomplish this goal....I know that anything is possible...because giving up sex to me is like giving up breathing....but I am going to do it! This way the next time a "new" guy comes into my life....I will know right away if he really likes me for who I am and not just chasing after the "nookie" or have other motives. I am a busy girl these days anyway....so I'd much rather just stay focused on my life and not boys who want a 1 night stand.
With all of that said....I hope you guys will show me nothing but support for my decision to not have any sex for at least 6 months to a year....and maybe longer if I haven't met anyone special by then. These days I feel like so much is happening in my life that are amazing.....but yet I have no one special to share these amazing things with.....I am ready to fall in love for the first time again in 4 years! WOW! It's kinda exciting to me to know that maybe a year from now I will find the man of my dreams????? I hope so! AS OF THIS MOMENT....TILA TEQUILA IS OFFICIALLY CELIBATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Signing off.....and definitely not gonna be off having sex.....lol.....and Dream Man....I will be on the other side waiting for you.......
PS-I WILL TRY TO GIVE YOU GUYS A MONTHLY UPDATE OF HOW IT'S GOING SO FAR CUZ I AM SURE THE FIRST FEW MONTHS ARE GOING TO BE SO HARD!!! LOL.....I KNOW I HAVE STRENGTH TO DO THIS BUT WITH YOUR HELP AND SUPPORTIVE WORDS....I KNOW I CAN TOTALLY ACHIEVE THIS!