Let the bride decide? Not if you're Amy Smart's fiancé, Carter Oosterhouse!
We're hearing the HGTV host is getting very into all the wedding planning for their upcoming nuptials on Sept. 10.
The actress said she's keeping the gown a closely guarded secret between herself and the designer.
Carter and Amy are set to tie the knot in Michigan, where the groom is from and the bride's parents currently live.
They were joking about one benefit to getting hitched at home: "When the wedding is on your own property, you can f--k up as much as you want!"
Makes sense to us!