Earlier today Tyrese stopped by Wendy Williams to promote his new book “How To Get Out Of Your Own Way” In the brief interview, Wendy asked him the burning question, “Why Do Men Cheat”. Tyrese responded:
“I don’t have all the answers, but I can say that most mothers raised their daughters to believe that if you cook, clean, thoroughly take care of your man and go all out for your man, that should keep him home. Unfortunately that’s not the truth, but I will say to my daughter when she gets old and starts dating is, if you end up being cheated on, don’t own the cheat. Don’t make the cheat yours. It’s something in that skirt and those legs and whatever the case may be, and [he] decided to dip off. Does he see the value in his woman at home? Yes, but if he ends up dipping off, that spaghetti couldn’t keep him at home.”
Wendy then asked him, “well, what if you get cheated on by your next wife. Does she get a pass?”.
“No way. See, it’s expected of men to cheat, even though all men don’t cheat. I can’t just generalize and say all men cheat, but it’s expected because it’s a part of our upbringing[...]no listen, if you're in high school or in college, if one dude has sex with ten different women he is a hero, he’s the champion of the campus. If one woman has sex with ten different guys, they’re all kind of things in the book right? […] It's just a part of what instilled in us growing up.”
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