Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Gerard Butler denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Gerard Butler needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Gerard Butler also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Gerard Butler has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Gerard sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Gerard Butler is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Gerard cannot hide his emotions.
Gerard Butler has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Butler would react more intensely. Gerard is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
In addition to Gerard's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Gerard Butler craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Butler rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Gerard Butler craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Gerard Butler to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Butler. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Butler likes it that way.
In love relationships, Gerard Butler desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Gerard "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Butler can be very demanding of his love partner. Gerard Butler tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Gerard Butler is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Gerard is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Butler places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Also, Gerard Butler feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Gerard Butler puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Gerard Butler and he is not happy without a love partner. Butler can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Gerard Butler and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Gerard allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Gerard Butler, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
Gerard Butler is extremely sensitive to his surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. Butler tends to avoid the truth about himself and his relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.
Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Mike Rowe inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Mike wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Rowe lavishes on those he cares about. Mike Rowe has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Mike Rowe hates emotional games and dishonesty.
Mike Rowe often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Rowe thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Mike is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Mike Rowe has good psychological insight into others.
Gregarious and fun loving, he is always out to have a good time. Mike Rowe tends to "play now, pay later" and is prone to overspend, overeat, drink too much, and in general overdo, and even more so when in the company of others. It is hard for Mike Rowe to say no, especially when Rowe's emotions or appetites are involved. Generous to a fault, he is likely to be very free both with money and with affection.
Mike has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Rowe craves excitement and emotional freedom and he likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Rowe and he has little patience for restrictive customs. Mike Rowe is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.
His emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Rowe may feel inhibited when he is with others. Mike Rowe is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Mike Rowe enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Mike wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Mike Rowe very happy. Mike wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Mike Rowe may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Rowe is a natural host or diplomat.
In love relationships and romance, it is important for Mike Rowe to be able to deeply respect his partner. Mike looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for him. Mike Rowe is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.
He is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Mike Rowe to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Rowe may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Mike Rowe will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of his character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
He is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Mike Rowe is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, he may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely let others know that he needs help and support. Brad Pitt denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and will tell himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Brad Pitt needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Brad Pitt also needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play sometimes.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Brad Pitt a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Brad's past are especially dear to him.
Brad Pitt may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
No matter how he appears on the surface, Brad Pitt has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Brad's sympathetic, affectionate side. He especially cares about the needs of children, mothers, and families, and he wants a love partner who values marriage, home, and family as much as he does. Unkindness or harshness offends Pitt very much.
Brad Pitt has a strong sense of duty, is serious and tends to see everything on the dark side. Brad should guard against emotional inhibition and depression. He prefers to lead a secluded, modest and simple life.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Brad Pitt cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone, but one would never know it from Pitt's reserved and seemingly detached appearance. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Brad at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Brad Pitt is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Brad Pitt may be attracted to persons older than him, someone who is emotionally mature and reliable and who can provide the security Brad desires.
For Brad Pitt, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. Brad values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something Brad Pitt needs to beware of.
Brad Pitt tends to suppress his feelings and he approaches other people with great reserve. He may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between him and others. But once Brad Pitt enters a relationship, he will be faithful and steady in his feelings for his partner.