Cheryl Cole has been refusing to take calls or listen to apologies from her husband Ashley, following reports that he cheated on her twice in 2007.
The Girls Aloud star is living with a close friend and is unable to face speaking to her partner because she is so upset and angry, say reports.
According to The Sun, Cheryl couldn't watch Ashley play football for England on Wednesday because she "can't even stand the sight" of him.
"Cheryl goes from one extreme emotion to another. One minute she’s hopelessly distraught and in floods of tears, the next she’s furious," said a source.
"She didn’t watch the match because she still can’t even stand the sight of her husband."
England and Chelsea football star Ashley is reportedly hopeful he can still win his wife back, but her friends and family are keen for the split to be made permanent.
The source added: "Ashley is desperate for Cheryl to come home because he knows the more time she is away with people who hate him, the more she will be turned against him.
"None of her family or friends want Cheryl to take him back. It’s abundantly clear to her now he can’t be trusted and the truth is she simply doesn’t know how many people he has slept with or paid off."