: p0uritup (p0uritup) wrote in ohnotheydidnt,
2020-09-15 21:23:00

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2020-09-15 21:23:00

Jana Duggar, 30, admits she worries she is still single

Jana Duggar on Being Single and Having Less Dating Requirements: 'I Used to Be More Strict' https://t.co/7cEhwNfLLv
— People (@people) September 15, 2020

Jana Duggar is the oldest single Duggar kid and she continues to live at home.

The unmarried 30-year-old talks about her single status on tonight's episode of Counting On

She admits she often gets questions about why she hasn't found the one.

She doesn't think she's picky, but people think there must be something 'wrong' with her — and she sometimes wonders if it's true:

"Most of my siblings have gotten married really young," she says. "Some people are like, 'Are you picky?' I'm like, 'I don't think so.'"

Her friend chimes in and says, "Or they're like, 'What's wrong with you? Why are you still single?'" Jana continues jokingly, "'Yes! And then I think wait... 'Oh my, is there?'"

Jana admitted in July that she 'longs' to be married
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shayme

September 15 2020, 19:36:34 UTC 10 months ago

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Being single in your 30s is not the be all end all. Her family has fucked her up.

spoil

September 15 2020, 19:39:32 UTC 10 months ago

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Right? Most people are!

shayme

September 15 2020, 19:42:00 UTC 10 months ago

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People seem to think there's a race and if you are 30+ and unmarried you are a failure. Nah. I just value myself enough not to settle to be married by a certain age. It will happen if it happens. I refuse to force it. That never works!

spoil

10 months ago

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hangonego

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shayme

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schmankerl

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emerald_soul

September 15 2020, 20:03:33 UTC 10 months ago

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It's really sad how these types of families fuck up their daughters. I watched this doc called the Virgin Tales about one of these marriage obsessed Christian families and the one daughter was 23 and unmarried and she had no life. She was pretty and smart and just lived with her parents and prayed for a husband. Like she never considered any other option for her life.

shayme

10 months ago

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kansascshuffle

September 15 2020, 20:16:34 UTC 10 months ago

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32 and single. I think I will just stay that way, with idk, probably 8 dogs and 8 aquariums, and console games.

shayme

10 months ago

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kansascshuffle

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shayme

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goldenhera

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justyourfaceha

September 15 2020, 23:48:56 UTC 10 months ago

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Joining this club. I'm 31 lol.

I could definitely try a lot harder to meet someone but I don't care if I never get married tbh. Doesn't mean I want to be single forever, but marriage is whatever.

lolzerz

September 15 2020, 19:37:05 UTC 10 months ago

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Uhhh this family still has a show? Have any of the kids gone rogue?

dumpweeds

September 15 2020, 19:40:15 UTC 10 months ago

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jill apparently has, she left the show a few years ago (I just found this out, lol) and she drinks coffee and alcohol now

eatmydustbinns

September 15 2020, 19:56:42 UTC 10 months ago

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Omg wow. I feel like it takes a lot of strength to break away from this type of devout family and community.

dumpweeds

10 months ago

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eatmydustbinns

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distant_lines

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williammiller

September 15 2020, 20:30:04 UTC 10 months ago

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I'm shocked she does, tbh. She was the goody-goody of the family. I remember in an old episode, her siblings talked about what a tattletale she was and she was always ratting out her siblings that did "bad" things. I think I saw somewhere online that's she's been hanging out with cousin Amy a lot and that she's been "shunned" from the family. Well, not shunned but she has to be ~supervised when she's visiting with the Duggar children.

psychsike

September 15 2020, 20:40:45 UTC 10 months ago

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Didn't TLC fire them cause her husband made stupid comments about Jazz? I mean good for her for getting away but she married a mysoginist, racist asshole. So there's that.

dumpweeds

10 months ago

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dumpweeds

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distant_lines

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black_swan87

September 15 2020, 20:46:39 UTC 10 months ago

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I think joy Anna is breaking away too

summerswings

10 months ago

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spellgabbana

September 15 2020, 21:27:43 UTC 10 months ago Edited: September 15 2020, 21:29:01 UTC

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the one married to the transphobe? no wonder she needs to drink.

a transphobe that truly looks like a rat btw. ugliness inside really does reflect on the outside sometimes.

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yami_no_hoshi

September 15 2020, 19:41:41 UTC 10 months ago

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Jill has gone somewhat rogue in that she left the show, her husband called out Jim Bob publicly, and they are sending their kids to public school.

drblind

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arilicious

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sassalicious

September 15 2020, 19:42:14 UTC 10 months ago

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Jill has stepped away from her upbringing quite a bit. Jinger & her husband seem to be annoying AF and super desperate to be famous influencers based on the episode recaps I read.

moonsenorita

September 15 2020, 19:49:21 UTC 10 months ago

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they do but they changed the name to Counting On.

I honestly didn't realize it was them.in the promo until they showed the mom clearly.

cecilia_tallis

September 15 2020, 19:37:20 UTC 10 months ago

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Girl, I know nothing about you, but based on this you *might* be the only normal one in your fucked up family. Own it

bluedjinns

September 15 2020, 20:26:32 UTC 10 months ago

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I don't know her either, but my immediate reaction was "good for you." She managed to avoid what must have been intense pressure to get married young and start having children.

spoil

September 15 2020, 19:38:25 UTC 10 months ago

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Nothing wrong with being picky girl. I've settled for literal scumbags because I thought that's why I deserved. I'm over it. Everyone should want the best for themselves and someone who treats them with love and respect. The selection is specficially abysmal as a straight woman in her mid 20's.

drunkenclaudius

September 15 2020, 19:39:08 UTC 10 months ago

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I love being single

I need my space, if I ever get into a relationship again I might only want it on a LAT basis when it gets serious

bigbranch

September 15 2020, 19:39:16 UTC 10 months ago

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maybe she's a super repressed lesbian. imagine the absolute hell a gay kid would endure in that household

teacoat

September 15 2020, 19:48:09 UTC 10 months ago

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Statistically speaking, at least one of them has to be gay, right?

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saintlys

September 15 2020, 21:19:31 UTC 10 months ago

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He makes me so sad. His wife is also just incredibly depressing, she was so desperate to have that baby

caramelaffair

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andisprohi

September 16 2020, 21:07:00 UTC 10 months ago

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She went to Journey to the Heart, too. Came back and had to act contrite, thankful, etc. for it on a Christian radio show :(

therearewords

September 15 2020, 19:40:08 UTC 10 months ago

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No sweetheart, escape.

xdecadentx

September 15 2020, 19:40:16 UTC 10 months ago

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I've never cared about being single, I actually quite like it because I'm quite selfish and stubborn, but lockdown has made me sort of assess if I want to change that.

sassalicious

September 15 2020, 19:40:20 UTC 10 months ago

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30 and unmarried . . . eh. 30 & living at home, I side-eye that, but it's not necessarily totally weird. 30 & living at home & sharing a room with all the other girl children . . . yikes.

Also, people of NWA, please don't vote for the Duggar brother that's running for state senator.

shayme

September 15 2020, 19:51:57 UTC 10 months ago

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"30 & living at home, I side-eye that"

Why? It's hella expensive to live alone.

sassalicious

September 15 2020, 20:13:20 UTC 10 months ago

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I side-eye it because I cherish having my own space, I'm not even sure I could deal with having a roommate.

But I do know there are a lot of reasons for a 30 yr old to be living at home, so it's not something I'd actually ever hold against someone. Unless the person is just a bum, like the movie "failure to launch".

shayme

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nomoneyfun

September 15 2020, 20:08:24 UTC 10 months ago Edited: September 15 2020, 23:21:07 UTC

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IDK, I actually think multi-generational households are a good thing as long as the adult children are actively contributing to the household with things like cooking and cleaning. The cost of living in most places is super high and people from working-class backgrounds especially benefit from pooling resources so they can save money and make future plans.

dreamformula

September 15 2020, 20:09:23 UTC 10 months ago

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We're in the middle of a pandemic and economic recession. It's not that weird.

theactualworst

September 15 2020, 20:13:32 UTC 10 months ago

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Do they let them move out if they're unwed?

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avingnon

September 15 2020, 20:14:05 UTC 10 months ago

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I don’t think it’s that weird to still be living at home, seeing the world we’re living in. Rent is extremely high in most cities and forget about buying a house if you’re single and don’t want roommates. I’d rather live with my parents than with random roommates. I’d also rather live with my parents than in a shady neighborhood in a tiny overpriced apartment.

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dumpweeds

September 15 2020, 19:42:24 UTC 10 months ago

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I've gotten sucked into r/duggarssnark. I hope more of them can get out or jim bob dies or something. their lives are so sad omg

ohwutevernvm

September 15 2020, 19:42:51 UTC 10 months ago

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I’m bout to be 32 in early November and am still single as fuck. So I’m chill mindin my dam biz lol

hateistoodark

September 15 2020, 19:44:22 UTC 10 months ago

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I mean same but it’s whatever

statelines

September 15 2020, 19:46:30 UTC 10 months ago

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It's better than spending the last 2 years begging a guy to act like he gives a crap about you and constantly crying because he treats you like shit while you're in love with him.

Totally wouldn't know what that's like at all though 😐