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Jana Duggar, 30, admits she worries she is still single



Jana Duggar is the oldest single Duggar kid and she continues to live at home.

The unmarried 30-year-old talks about her single status on tonight's episode of Counting On

She admits she often gets questions about why she hasn't found the one.

She doesn't think she's picky, but people think there must be something 'wrong' with her — and she sometimes wonders if it's true:

"Most of my siblings have gotten married really young," she says. "Some people are like, 'Are you picky?' I'm like, 'I don't think so.'"

Her friend chimes in and says, "Or they're like, 'What's wrong with you? Why are you still single?'" Jana continues jokingly, "'Yes! And then I think wait... 'Oh my, is there?'"

Jana admitted in July that she 'longs' to be married
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Being single in your 30s is not the be all end all. Her family has fucked her up.
Right? Most people are!
People seem to think there's a race and if you are 30+ and unmarried you are a failure. Nah. I just value myself enough not to settle to be married by a certain age. It will happen if it happens. I refuse to force it. That never works!

spoil

10 months ago

hangonego

10 months ago

shayme

10 months ago

schmankerl

10 months ago

It's really sad how these types of families fuck up their daughters. I watched this doc called the Virgin Tales about one of these marriage obsessed Christian families and the one daughter was 23 and unmarried and she had no life. She was pretty and smart and just lived with her parents and prayed for a husband. Like she never considered any other option for her life.

shayme

10 months ago

32 and single. I think I will just stay that way, with idk, probably 8 dogs and 8 aquariums, and console games.

shayme

10 months ago

kansascshuffle

10 months ago

shayme

10 months ago

goldenhera

10 months ago

Joining this club. I'm 31 lol.

I could definitely try a lot harder to meet someone but I don't care if I never get married tbh. Doesn't mean I want to be single forever, but marriage is whatever.
Uhhh this family still has a show? Have any of the kids gone rogue?
jill apparently has, she left the show a few years ago (I just found this out, lol) and she drinks coffee and alcohol now
Omg wow. I feel like it takes a lot of strength to break away from this type of devout family and community.

dumpweeds

10 months ago

eatmydustbinns

10 months ago

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dumpweeds

10 months ago

distant_lines

10 months ago

I'm shocked she does, tbh. She was the goody-goody of the family. I remember in an old episode, her siblings talked about what a tattletale she was and she was always ratting out her siblings that did "bad" things. I think I saw somewhere online that's she's been hanging out with cousin Amy a lot and that she's been "shunned" from the family. Well, not shunned but she has to be ~supervised when she's visiting with the Duggar children.
Didn't TLC fire them cause her husband made stupid comments about Jazz? I mean good for her for getting away but she married a mysoginist, racist asshole. So there's that.

dumpweeds

10 months ago

vixenesque93

10 months ago

dumpweeds

10 months ago

distant_lines

10 months ago

I think joy Anna is breaking away too

summerswings

10 months ago

spellgabbana

September 15 2020, 21:27:43 UTC 10 months ago Edited:  September 15 2020, 21:29:01 UTC

the one married to the transphobe? no wonder she needs to drink.

a transphobe that truly looks like a rat btw. ugliness inside really does reflect on the outside sometimes.
Jill has gone somewhat rogue in that she left the show, her husband called out Jim Bob publicly, and they are sending their kids to public school.

drblind

10 months ago

yami_no_hoshi

10 months ago

arilicious

10 months ago

Jill has stepped away from her upbringing quite a bit. Jinger & her husband seem to be annoying AF and super desperate to be famous influencers based on the episode recaps I read.
they do but they changed the name to Counting On.

I honestly didn't realize it was them.in the promo until they showed the mom clearly.
Girl, I know nothing about you, but based on this you *might* be the only normal one in your fucked up family. Own it
I don't know her either, but my immediate reaction was "good for you." She managed to avoid what must have been intense pressure to get married young and start having children.
Nothing wrong with being picky girl. I've settled for literal scumbags because I thought that's why I deserved. I'm over it. Everyone should want the best for themselves and someone who treats them with love and respect. The selection is specficially abysmal as a straight woman in her mid 20's.
I love being single

I need my space, if I ever get into a relationship again I might only want it on a LAT basis when it gets serious
maybe she's a super repressed lesbian. imagine the absolute hell a gay kid would endure in that household
Statistically speaking, at least one of them has to be gay, right?

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He makes me so sad. His wife is also just incredibly depressing, she was so desperate to have that baby

caramelaffair

10 months ago

She went to Journey to the Heart, too. Came back and had to act contrite, thankful, etc. for it on a Christian radio show :(
No sweetheart, escape.
I've never cared about being single, I actually quite like it because I'm quite selfish and stubborn, but lockdown has made me sort of assess if I want to change that.
30 and unmarried . . . eh. 30 & living at home, I side-eye that, but it's not necessarily totally weird. 30 & living at home & sharing a room with all the other girl children . . . yikes.

Also, people of NWA, please don't vote for the Duggar brother that's running for state senator.
"30 & living at home, I side-eye that"

Why? It's hella expensive to live alone.
I side-eye it because I cherish having my own space, I'm not even sure I could deal with having a roommate.

But I do know there are a lot of reasons for a 30 yr old to be living at home, so it's not something I'd actually ever hold against someone. Unless the person is just a bum, like the movie "failure to launch".

shayme

10 months ago

sassalicious

10 months ago

elevatorshaker

10 months ago

sassalicious

10 months ago

donaestrangera

10 months ago

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shayme

10 months ago

kansascshuffle

10 months ago

helyanwe89

10 months ago

nomoneyfun

September 15 2020, 20:08:24 UTC 10 months ago Edited:  September 15 2020, 23:21:07 UTC

IDK, I actually think multi-generational households are a good thing as long as the adult children are actively contributing to the household with things like cooking and cleaning. The cost of living in most places is super high and people from working-class backgrounds especially benefit from pooling resources so they can save money and make future plans.
We're in the middle of a pandemic and economic recession. It's not that weird.
Do they let them move out if they're unwed?

sassalicious

10 months ago

vixenesque93

10 months ago

I don’t think it’s that weird to still be living at home, seeing the world we’re living in. Rent is extremely high in most cities and forget about buying a house if you’re single and don’t want roommates. I’d rather live with my parents than with random roommates. I’d also rather live with my parents than in a shady neighborhood in a tiny overpriced apartment.
I've gotten sucked into r/duggarssnark. I hope more of them can get out or jim bob dies or something. their lives are so sad omg
I’m bout to be 32 in early November and am still single as fuck. So I’m chill mindin my dam biz lol
I mean same but it’s whatever
It's better than spending the last 2 years begging a guy to act like he gives a crap about you and constantly crying because he treats you like shit while you're in love with him.

Totally wouldn't know what that's like at all though 😐
girl u didn't have to call me out like this lmao
SIS

we both know we deserve better!!!
Just @ me next time, jeez.

Yeah you're totally right, better alone than in shitty company
Damn. Getting personal. I see how it is.
Me at 22! Honestly thank god he didn't give a shit about me.
Ummm are you me? Being f-ck buddies for almost 2 years with no relationship in sight really sucks. I'm not in love, but I'm deeply infatuated.
We've all been there, hon. I am definitely enjoying my singletom atm. Peace of mind is worth it.
So she is the only normal one in the family?
Didn't Jana become like the default mom to all the little kids? So sad.

I hear her on the 30s and not even attached thing.
I think all the older kids were. They were responsible for taking care of the little kids.
Didn't Jana become like the default mom to all the little kids?

That's been the theory on why her parents never encouraged her ot get married.
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