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induced_panic

May 22 2020, 23:23:55 UTC 1 week ago

How do people afford to become homeowners? I can’t imagine ever having 60k for a down payment.

kitten84

May 22 2020, 23:25:12 UTC 1 week ago

VA loans help but you have to be a war vet. It’s ridiculous how hard it is to become a homeowner these days

mystickiwi

May 23 2020, 05:15:05 UTC 1 week ago

Pretty sure that even with first time homebuyer programs it all comes down to parental help. I don't know any of my homeowner friends who weren't given part of the downpayment by a parent.

kitten84

1 week ago

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dior_chic

May 22 2020, 23:25:45 UTC 1 week ago

Easier when it’s a couple. My brother is looking buy a small, not as expensive house now with his gf/soon to be fiancé. He wouldn’t be able to with his income alone.

artvandellay

May 22 2020, 23:26:23 UTC 1 week ago

that's a big down payment!

crazylike_afox

May 22 2020, 23:26:55 UTC 1 week ago

ikr? I'm pretty sure I have to be married 'cause I sure as shit can't afford that by myself.

But then I'd have to live with someone else which is not optimal.

longlonglong12

1 week ago

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induced_panic

1 week ago

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roisin_farrell

May 22 2020, 23:26:56 UTC 1 week ago

Luck.

They inherited it.

They live in an area with reasonable housing costs.

imabadkid

May 22 2020, 23:27:19 UTC 1 week ago

If you have good credit there's a ton of programs where you only have to put like 5% down

induced_panic

1 week ago

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rhcp

May 22 2020, 23:27:59 UTC 1 week ago

some places have a lot of incentives for first time home buyers, with smaller down payments.

induced_panic

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xpirate_queenx

May 22 2020, 23:28:51 UTC 1 week ago

idk it's a mystery. I've been looking at houses (not seriously...I'm nowhere near in a position to be able to buy one, probably ever but this is just for some kind of twisted sense of 'fun') and it's both shocking and disheartening seeing basic little ranch houses built in the 70's that are 1100sq or less going for nearly a million- if not more. Like what the fuck how are my generation ever supposed to become homeowners.

What's worse is being able to look at the sales history of said houses and seeing them being bought in the 90's/00's for like 80-100K. Now of course I know inflation is a thing, but it's nowhere near proportional to what they're selling for now. Shit's insane.

induced_panic

1 week ago

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yurasama_love

May 22 2020, 23:30:05 UTC 1 week ago

marriage and parental help

scriptedending

May 22 2020, 23:30:21 UTC 1 week ago

When we bought our first house, we had an FHA loan, and only put 5% down on a $230k house (like $15kish with closing costs and whatnot). I wouldn't recommend going that route, bc then you have to pay mortgage insurance, but it's doable depending on where you live/what you qualify for/all that jazz.

bellwetherr

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scriptedending

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bellwetherr

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induced_panic

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originaru

May 22 2020, 23:30:32 UTC 1 week ago

honestly, ppl who get lucky and had help. before i lost my job my sis and i were looking at buying a place and we could only afford the down payment because it was both of us. my parents offered to chip in as well, which would have helped.

bellwetherr

May 22 2020, 23:47:02 UTC 1 week ago

there are a lot of programs for first time homebuyers, if you can come up with even 5% of a downpayment

it's always important to talk to a broker and see what you would actually qualify for

induced_panic

1 week ago

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bellwetherr

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likeanunmadebed

May 22 2020, 23:47:36 UTC 1 week ago

rich parents

trynabme

May 22 2020, 23:53:22 UTC 1 week ago

FHA loan? 3.5% downpayment.

jackieee94

May 23 2020, 00:18:47 UTC 1 week ago

I bought my home last year with the help of my parents. It was a HASSLE 😩 I never want to go through that shit again.

martymcfly85

May 23 2020, 00:23:44 UTC 1 week ago

USDA loans. I'm searching currently and that's what I'm hoping to get. They are a 0 or low down payment loan.

anabelx

May 23 2020, 01:05:49 UTC 1 week ago

my shitty abusing ex fiance gave me a fat diamond ring that i kept. sold it and used that as part of my down payment for a home. i regret everything about that relationship but at least i came out with something of value

reach_the_end

May 23 2020, 01:42:42 UTC 1 week ago

I guess it depends where you live, but I was able to buy only putting 10k down.

sandstorm

May 22 2020, 23:24:30 UTC 1 week ago

kitten84

May 22 2020, 23:26:17 UTC 1 week ago

40% ?!?!

shittysoup

May 22 2020, 23:46:41 UTC 1 week ago

mte...wtf....

crazylike_afox

May 22 2020, 23:27:53 UTC 1 week ago

And I guarantee all of them have phones that can easily be tracked...

yurasama_love

1 week ago

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ms_mmelissa

May 22 2020, 23:32:46 UTC 1 week ago

My mom's friend thinks this. Oy vey.🍁

xtinkerbellax

May 22 2020, 23:45:22 UTC 1 week ago

WHY does he want to microchip us? I never hear a why.

insaynejayne

May 23 2020, 00:54:57 UTC 1 week ago

Do the 40% not use smart phones?

jigglemypuff

May 22 2020, 23:25:27 UTC 1 week ago

What the hell does the pencil mean in the post reactions? Why would I react to someone’s post with a pencil?

artvandellay

May 22 2020, 23:27:44 UTC 1 week ago

"keep writing" it says

xpirate_queenx

May 22 2020, 23:25:54 UTC 1 week ago

Also I found this absolutely adorable and perfect house for sale in Austin (that wasn't a gorillion dollars) and I've been photoshopping the yard to make it a little more how I'd have it look if I lived there. It's not perfect, but whatever



kitten84

May 22 2020, 23:26:47 UTC 1 week ago

It’s cute!

pi_lady

May 22 2020, 23:29:45 UTC 1 week ago

Are houses without fences common in the US? I always wondered about the suburb houses I see on TV without any fence, I would feel so unsafe knowing anybody could get up to my door/windows.

originaru

May 22 2020, 23:31:41 UTC 1 week ago

idk about the us, but i'm in canada and front yards here aren't usually fenced in, just the backyard. i've never felt unsafe about it, but the only time i've been in houses with a yard/gate around the whole place was in south east asia tbh.

pi_lady

1 week ago

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cuteej4

May 22 2020, 23:32:56 UTC 1 week ago

They are common. There's only 2 houses with fences on our street and our house is one of them. Lol

pi_lady

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xpirate_queenx

May 22 2020, 23:37:12 UTC 1 week ago

It depends on the neighborhood, but it's really not very common. I just like the look plus it's safer and easier to keep your kid corralled when there's clear boundary of the yard (don't have kids myself yet or maybe ever lbr, but I kind of had that in mind when designing the photo).

rubie_dubidoux

May 22 2020, 23:44:12 UTC 1 week ago

on the east coast I think it's a lot less common to have fences. my backyard as a kid was fenced in in back and on either side but nothing on either side of the house facing the street because my dad didn't like the ~California trend of fencing in every side of the yard. of course when they sold the house, the first thing the new owners did was fence that shit in lol

rubie_dubidoux

May 22 2020, 23:45:18 UTC 1 week ago

although I guess I should clarify that the actual house wasn't fenced in like in the picture, just the yard around it (excluding the front). the *entire* property being fenced in is still pretty uncommon
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readeliza

May 22 2020, 23:31:05 UTC 1 week ago

At first I thought you put grass on the house and I was slightly baffled.

xpirate_queenx

1 week ago

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su_metal

May 22 2020, 23:38:25 UTC 1 week ago

i would change that entrance inmediately, with a bunch of flowers everywhere

xpirate_queenx

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su_metal

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trynabme

May 22 2020, 23:55:35 UTC 1 week ago

how much does this cost?

xpirate_queenx

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yousaidlog

May 22 2020, 23:26:07 UTC 1 week ago

I'm reading The Turn of the Key by Ruth Ware and I could never be a nanny lmao

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kitten84

May 22 2020, 23:27:11 UTC 1 week ago

Yes

likeanunmadebed

May 22 2020, 23:51:11 UTC 1 week ago

yes! what will you get?

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rewatching tonight

flowerssleeping

May 22 2020, 23:26:35 UTC 1 week ago

Re: rewatching tonight

xpirate_queenx

May 22 2020, 23:30:26 UTC 1 week ago

I really want to watch this.

Re: rewatching tonight

ms_mmelissa

May 22 2020, 23:34:11 UTC 1 week ago

It's so beautiful.

Re: rewatching tonight

annielumiere

May 23 2020, 00:56:17 UTC 1 week ago

so fun

rubie_dubidoux

May 22 2020, 23:26:48 UTC 1 week ago

has anyone else been noticing wayyyyyy more people out and about than usual? the grocery store parking lot today was the most crowded I've *ever* seen it. my neighborhood has had heavier traffic than even a pre-pandemic weekday typically has. my county is still under shelter-in-place (the only change is that more stores can do curbside pickup) and the weather isn't any warmer than usual so what gives? are the other states' reopenings having the psychological effect of making people feel more comfortable going outside/driving around/going to the store? have more people en masse gotten sick of being outside?

my dad thinks Memorial Day has a big impact but idk. it was like this on Wednesday too. and I'm not sure a holiday weekend means all that much when we still technically aren't allowed to travel

artvandellay

May 22 2020, 23:29:04 UTC 1 week ago

Yes I have! I think some restrictions have been lifted here, but I also think it's the weather.

rubie_dubidoux

May 22 2020, 23:47:10 UTC 1 week ago

here though that wouldn't even be much of a factor since it's the same temperature it's been for the last month! we don't really have seasons in SF except fog in the summer and smoke in the fall

rhcp

May 22 2020, 23:29:15 UTC 1 week ago

yes i feel like there's more people out everywhere, even before this weekend

jigglemypuff

May 22 2020, 23:29:40 UTC 1 week ago

A lot of people are tired of the lockdowns and not just conservatives. I’m seeing liberals and moderates I know going out more.

roisin_farrell

May 22 2020, 23:30:49 UTC 1 week ago

Yes.

I had to pick up prescriptions today and it was the first time there were other people on the bus. They were more people in the grocery store and more people on the sidewalk and way more cars.

daijouboo

May 22 2020, 23:32:12 UTC 1 week ago Edited:  May 22 2020, 23:32:54 UTC

I have been trying to run my errands early in the morning when there are less people and it's less hot outside-the high today was 90. Then today I made the mistake of going to the post office in the afternoon, and waited in line for half an hour.

likeanunmadebed

May 22 2020, 23:53:03 UTC 1 week ago

I've seen groups of 5-7 people out on an "isolation walk" and I'm like... you're taking up the whole roadway AND I am pretty sure you don't all live together

cuteej4

May 22 2020, 23:26:53 UTC 1 week ago

I was formally offered my job for the next school year! I've graduated from Librarian Assistant to Librarian Specialist!

I'm so glad. I literally am the only one here so the Assistant part was silly

kitten84

May 22 2020, 23:27:38 UTC 1 week ago

Congrats!

crazylike_afox

May 22 2020, 23:28:27 UTC 1 week ago

Congrats!

ellie_andrews

May 22 2020, 23:28:39 UTC 1 week ago

yay! congrats!

zlatanwhy

May 22 2020, 23:29:11 UTC 1 week ago

yay congrats!

meow_tan

May 22 2020, 23:30:29 UTC 1 week ago

congrats bb!!

pretensetious

May 22 2020, 23:31:11 UTC 1 week ago

Congrats 🎉

roisin_farrell

May 22 2020, 23:31:45 UTC 1 week ago

Congrats!

yurasama_love

May 22 2020, 23:31:54 UTC 1 week ago

Congrats!

partyfrock

May 22 2020, 23:38:21 UTC 1 week ago

Good job! I dropped out of library school lol

rhcp

May 22 2020, 23:39:25 UTC 1 week ago

congratulations!!

inkstainedlips

May 22 2020, 23:45:49 UTC 1 week ago

Congrats!

saintclaire87

May 22 2020, 23:49:45 UTC 1 week ago

Congrats! :)

bellwetherr

May 22 2020, 23:49:57 UTC 1 week ago

congrats bb!

loglady

May 22 2020, 23:53:37 UTC 1 week ago

Congrats!!

vibeology_e

May 23 2020, 00:22:43 UTC 1 week ago

Congrats!

tucker

May 23 2020, 00:37:35 UTC 1 week ago

Nice! Sounds like nice gig

annielumiere

May 23 2020, 00:56:53 UTC 1 week ago

congrats!!

kansassatin

May 23 2020, 01:43:03 UTC 1 week ago

Yay!! Congrats!!! Be sure to celebrate with some Runts!

lesrouges

May 22 2020, 23:27:22 UTC 1 week ago

I'm finally moving into a place where I can have a pet. I really want to adopt a cat! Does anyone have any recommendations about how to find a cat that is a good fit? I've only ever lived with other people's cats, never had my own before.

kitten84

May 22 2020, 23:28:42 UTC 1 week ago

You could adopt one from a shelter that knows their personality :)

artvandellay

May 22 2020, 23:30:38 UTC 1 week ago

Go to a shelter that has the cats in an open room (instead of enclosures) so you can observe them/interact with them and get to know their personality.

scriptedending

May 22 2020, 23:34:03 UTC 1 week ago

Yeah, I'd recommend talking to a shelter and seeing if they keep notes on their cats - shy or affectionate, playful or lazy, etc. A lot of cats are in foster homes rn, so it's a great time to get some feedback about how they do in a home setting.

rubie_dubidoux

May 22 2020, 23:50:10 UTC 1 week ago

in normal times I'd say fosters are the best bet because you get the best exposure to a cat's real personality since they're not under the stress of being in a shelter, but I imagine these days that's not always an option. I will say it can be REALLY hard to tell whether a cat is a good fit upon first meet, since many of them just do not do well with strangers and will seem super standoffish when really they're big sweethearts once they get comfortable with you. but also some cats just remain assholes forever. idk what to tell you lol

lesrouges

May 23 2020, 00:26:05 UTC 1 week ago

yeah, you've pretty much summarized all of my anxieties about adopting! I want to pick a bb that will be happiest with me but the bb needs to feel good where they are when we meet in order to be their best self. it's like dating, but worse lmao

Justice For Body Language

calichaos

May 22 2020, 23:27:32 UTC 1 week ago

Stream or buy May 28 (Kylie’s BDay) – May 30
Best Kylie™️ Album






millenials going through their 2nd "generational defining" economic collapse

ellie_andrews

May 22 2020, 23:27:58 UTC 1 week ago







*stolen from instagram which was probably stolen from twitter

war_machine_rox

May 22 2020, 23:28:08 UTC 1 week ago

I'm on episode 35 of The Untamed.

A lot has happened between like, episodes 15 to now and emotionally


Exhausted really. But I'm determined to finish because I haven't really finished anything new in so long I miss that feeling.

shittysoup

May 22 2020, 23:49:25 UTC 1 week ago

omg you're flying through it!!

war_machine_rox

May 23 2020, 00:02:41 UTC 1 week ago

Idk how I'm doing it lol some nights after work I'll watch an episode and a half then pass out other nights I squeeze in 5 or six before falling asleep so late.

This show got me 😭😭😭

rosevael

May 22 2020, 23:28:17 UTC 1 week ago

Whelp. I ate a burrito again.

meow_tan

May 22 2020, 23:28:45 UTC 1 week ago

im seeing a lot of discourse accusing women of "pandering to pedophiles" for liking the color pink/being into cutesy or girly fashion etc and its pissing me off.

pretensetious

May 22 2020, 23:33:23 UTC 1 week ago

these ppl need to maybe.......call out.......pedophiles... instead of the colour pink and women????????? I'm??

meow_tan

May 22 2020, 23:43:50 UTC 1 week ago

getting mad at women is so much easier though duh!! like when the ok boomer tiktok girl when viral a ton of people were accusing her of being a pedophile and pandering to pedos for....wearing blush on her nose??? wearing tennis skirts?? shes a grown woman who dresses pretty normally, sometimes in cosplay. she did a tiktok to that awful "mia khalifa" song and someone accused her of using "childrens songs" even though that is a song by an adult rapper thats a diss track about a PORN STAR.

pretensetious

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meow_tan

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pretensetious

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picturemegone

May 22 2020, 23:33:47 UTC 1 week ago

WTF???

jellycar

May 22 2020, 23:34:08 UTC 1 week ago

what the actual fu c k

wellalr1ght

May 22 2020, 23:38:41 UTC 1 week ago

WOW. i don't even know where to start with that, wtf

su_metal

May 22 2020, 23:41:20 UTC 1 week ago

i hate pink and i hate how many women prefer pink compared to men because of the way pink was their main colors since birth but this accusation it's fucking insane and i wish anyone doing this the worst.

meow_tan

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su_metal

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meow_tan

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meow_tan

May 22 2020, 23:48:24 UTC 1 week ago

to give context



theyre talking about this girl neekolul

shes just cute?? and cosplays sometimes??

flyfingers7

May 22 2020, 23:48:51 UTC 1 week ago

i think maybe people are going too far when trying to call out the Nymphet part of the internet. (aka women who cosplay as Lolita from the book Lolita)

meow_tan

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