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(in Europe) I went on a walk with the guy I'm dating for the first time in 2 months and I'm so happy and it was nice to be able to physically see someone I'm excited and care about. It was weird wearing masks for a walking date but walking, sunshine, fondness

Here for the Tokyo Mew Mew gif! Also cute date
spongebob-reading.gif

asked yesterday and got one recommendation, so I'm hoping for more! I'm looking for book recs where a character always assumed they were straight and they meet someone of the same sex and fall in love? no YA please since I can’t really get into those.

(the one I was recc'd was Fingersmith by Sarah Waters!)

cherrynorth

May 23 2020, 00:04:55 UTC 1 week ago Edited:  May 23 2020, 00:05:25 UTC

I truly can only think of The Price of Salt and Rubyfruit Jungle I think?? I can't remember if she thinks she's straight in RJ or if she knows lol

ofc those are both classics so you probably have read them already
Have you read "Tipping the Velvet"? That was the first book of Sarah WAters that I read and then I saw the movie adaptation of it and Fingersmith.
red, white and royal blue had this if I remember correctly! though I think he'd fooled around with guys in high school? but still he just thought that was something guys do and kept dating women after so...
I watched Voice From The Stone and it was laughably bad. Emilia Clark truly can’t act for shit lol
I CAUGHT MY LITTLE LIZARD!

I am so happy I did before I left for the weekend. Oh man.
Thank goodness! I hope you put in him some sunshine!
I sure did!
this comment could be about Pokemon, hunting obscure animals or losing a pet lmao. glad you found them <3

cuteej4

1 week ago

justice4harambe

1 week ago

So it’s been over 2 weeks since I’ve heard from a friend, and it sucks because I see her comment here and other places and talking to people. So she’s specifically ignoring me, not just avoiding communication bc she’s going through a rough time or something. Our last convo was chatting about ACNH and I offered her some of my pears, so I’m super ???? about why she’s ghosting me. I truly don’t know what I could’ve possibly done to warrant this.

It just really fucking sucks, and I’m pretty anxious about it. Like if you’re mad at me, tell me why!! Don’t just fucking ignore me and make me worry about you for days until I see you active on the internet. For fucks sake.
could you shoot her another message? "just checking in, want to make sure you're okay!" maybe she just doesnt have the energy for one on one conversation right now
I’ve texted her, sent her an LJ message, and messaged her on discord over the past 2 weeks. Most of those were just asking if she’s okay bc she’s been MIA. All she had to do is say “I’m alive, just not up to talking” and I would’ve been totally fine. I was trying not to take it personally but after 2 weeks and her socializing publicly on forums I’m also on, how am I not supposed to?

meow_tan

1 week ago

eveofrevolution

1 week ago

She totally could just be stressing out a few of my friends have been pretty Mia but kinda active on social media so got paranoid I annoyed them but no one else has really talked to them
And they did eventually rent up saying they’ve been getting stress headaches and parents laid off so just not feeling up to socializing (virtually) so you never know. It’s hard cus I want to occasionally check on them but also give space
Even if she's dealing with mental health stuff, it doesn't make her behaviour not selfish. Especially if you've made it clear that you just want to make sure she's okay.

Sometimes people are shitty 😟 I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

eveofrevolution

1 week ago

hi rebecca, did you forget i had a livejournal?

(sorry. i'm surprised nobody else did that yet. for real though, that sucks and you're doing the best you can as a friend and, honestly, a lot more than many friends would (at least in my experience). you're truly worried about her. i'm so sorry and i hope she reaches out.)

eveofrevolution

1 week ago

mubbies

1 week ago

loveology101

1 week ago

should i

make brownies for dinner?
Fudgy or cakey brownies? I'm a fudgy brownies with nuts girl.
fudgy but nut free!
Yes
yes
yes and then post pics so I can live vicariously
yeah but not to eat like a meal, just a treat

zlatanwhy

1 week ago

obviously
Answer is always yes
I started a new temporary job and kind of hate it but the money is rullll nice!
So my administrator said to in a informational meeting that in the next few weeks we are getting covid19 testing done weekly, for residents and staff, he said it’s been taking him months to get it, or a long time since this pandemic started. I’m all for this but also cautious taking it because what if I test positive/ my activity coworkers due then we have to isolate for 14 days and be home.
Better to test and know than to be passing it around to your residents. Although I get why you wouldn't be eager to quarantine.

dior_chic

May 22 2020, 23:05:42 UTC 1 week ago Edited:  May 22 2020, 23:07:17 UTC

The remake for FF7 is making me appreciate or like Cloud so much more as a character

...that’s why I really need a FF8 remake, please guys (as in Square Enix) you gotta make Squall more tolerable
Translation issues really affected 6, 7, and 8

dior_chic

May 22 2020, 23:12:10 UTC 1 week ago Edited:  May 22 2020, 23:22:57 UTC

That is true. That’s why I’m hoping they can ‘save’ Squall, now that the company is at different place than it was back then, different translators, etc (unless someone here is a Squall fan, then don’t mind me lol just his character clearly isn’t a favorite of mine)
the remake did a really good job of making me love all the characters tbh.

dior_chic

1 week ago

and squall with a better translation will help a lot with his bad reputation, the english translation was atrocious
I really hope for a FF8/FF9 remake. They are one of my favorite games.

If I can wait 40 million years for KH3 to come out, I can do it for these two games.
My friends and I are having a "Let's Eat Cheese and Get Drunk" Zoom party next Friday, and we're all going to dress up. I'm excited, I miss them so much

justice4harambe

May 22 2020, 23:19:57 UTC 1 week ago Edited:  May 23 2020, 00:43:56 UTC

Zoom parties are suprisingly fun. if you want to/have time, Kahoot has been a big success at ours!

Smh i forgot to say enjoy as well!! Hope its great!
I broke social distancing for the first time in 70 days took my dog to the vet and he has a crazy ear infection and needed to show
Me what to do and it did not work standing apart. I’m sure it’s fine we both had masks and the vet has strict rules but I’m
Sure I’ll be a bit more anxious the next week
The handle broke off my oven and I want it fixed, but I don't really want maintenance coming into my apartment. I wonder if I could buy the part and fix it myself. It looks like it just snaps in and has a screw.
under normal circumstances we just end up fixing minor things in our apartment ourselves. if it's inexpensive and easy to do i would say to fix it yourself too. there's a video for everything on YouTube, im sure you could find someone replacing a handle like yours!
It looks easy enough to replace. The problem is figuring out what the part is. This oven is old and when I try to look up the model number I can't find much. Maybe the apartment would be willing to provide me the part and let me attach it myself?
Ooh you can fix it yourself! It’ll be a fun project to do at home. Check the labels on your oven for the exact model, the part is on the internet, especially for a handle. Plus, will maintenance charge you for the part anyway? Might as well do it yourself.

anus

1 week ago

musicnkisses

1 week ago

anus

1 week ago

musicnkisses

1 week ago

I need to start cooking but i'm laaaaaaaazy
Lol my Saturday morning is going not too good. My white fave is a sell out. I ordered a human hair wig and it came not only in the color I didn’t ask for, but a color I hate. I need to go to the doctor about a really persistence issue I keep having. I don’t know if I’m having bladder problems or if I’m getting frequent UTIs or what, but it sucks. And now on top of me peeing a lot and my sides hurting, my wig ain’t cute and I gotta legit cabled John Krasinski smh.
My heart breaks for you sis, but you know better than to have a white fave.
You right
ugh I've had a "persistent UTI problem" p much my entire life - I thought it was normal to occasionally have that kind of pain and didn't bring it up to my parents until I was in my teens. the doctor was super alarmed when I described the symptoms so they did tests and it wasn't a UTI (good, because I was having them multiple times a week for over a decade lol). I did eventually figure out that I was only getting them when I was dehydrated, so if I stayed hydrated I could keep them at bay - but in recent years I feel like the dehydration threshold is getting lower and lower. Every single morning now I wake up, pee, and the symptoms come on. Apparently even if I drink a shit ton of water during the day, not hydrating myself while I sleep is causing problems and obviously there's nothing I can do about that! I've given urine samples for testing multiple times and they're just like welp idk, drink less soda? (which I've tried ofc)

anyway, good luck to you. not to be doom and gloom, but... solidarity. my guess is I have interstitial cystitis but that is ludicrously hard to treat and typically people have trigger foods and such but I truly have no clue what could be causing mine
Am I being unreasonable? my husband and I have been quarantined in the house since mid-march. we both work for the same company and get to work from home. We don't let anyone into the house and when I visit my parents, I stay at the front door and don't go inside. His parents live an hour and a half away and my husband went to visit them this week for the first time since lockdown. His parents now expect weekly visits, since this week's visit. This is fine, except they are asking their other kids to visit as well (one of my husband's siblings works for amazon so I haven't been ok with letting him visit my husband and I). I feel like his parents house is now a revolving door of germs and I'm very upset that my husband could risk going over there and bringing something back. He doesn't get it and unfortunately his parents are the biggest guilt trippers. I feel nauseous and anxious already.
i don't think you're being unreasonable tbh. i told my parents not to let my sister in the house because she's been living her life as normal after our governor loosened restrictions, and if she gets sick i don't want her passing germs to our (over-65) parents.
I feel like people have stopped giving an F about possibly being asymptomatic carriers. My mind is going to the darkest places, basically rationalizing that we're all bound to get it (now or later) and we just have to wait and see if we end up hospitalized or not. I've been so careful, not physically going into businesses, ordering from outside, sanitizing outside stuff as much as possible. And for what? For my overbearing in laws to potentially get me sick just because they can't wait it out a bit longer. I haven't seen some of my closest family in months just cause I don't want to risk it. Sorry to vent, I'm just so upset today. Feel so hopeless

corduroyskirt

1 week ago