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8:20 pm - 03/16/2014

Aaron Paul: My Wife and I Have Never Fought

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Aaron Paul fell head over heels in love on his first date with future wife Lauren Parsekian.

So head over heels that they almost ended up getting married in Vegas that night.


We "jumped into a cab and said, 'Take us to the nearest chapel. We're getting married,' " the Need for Speed star reveals in an interview in the April issue of ELLE.

"The Little White Chapel ended up being closed," he continues. "We probably would have gone through with it. It would have been a pretty funny story. But I'm happy we got married when we did – a year later."

The couple, who met at the Coachella music festival, tied the knot in a Parisian-themed wedding last May.

As their first anniversary approaches, the honeymoon continues. "I'm a hopeless romantic," the Breaking Bad star, 34, admits, adding that he and Parsekian have never had a fight.

"People get in fights because they don't communicate, because you don't want to hurt the other person. If you do want to hurt the other person, then shame on you – you're an a––hole," he says. "My wife and I do not argue. We communicate. We talk. But we've never fought in our entire relationship."

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beatlesluv 16th-Mar-2014 07:25 pm (UTC)
Whelp! ONTD is about to go ballistic on him now. Expiration date...imminent.
skyler_white_yo 16th-Mar-2014 07:28 pm (UTC)
IKR :(

Honestly thou, never ever having a fight isn't very healthy. Not that every day has to be a screaming match, but relationships are not sunshine and kittens 24/7.
beatlesluv 16th-Mar-2014 07:58 pm (UTC)
It's not very healthy. I don't believe in shouting matches/berating or other abusive tactics, but people can disagree and hash it out. That's an argument. It's healthy to disagree an talk things out (or walk away if you're too pissed to discuss lol)
aquaecolore 16th-Mar-2014 08:22 pm (UTC)
i don't see what he's saying here about communication too worrying tbh
h0tfuss 16th-Mar-2014 08:27 pm (UTC)
I think people are confused by what it means to "fight." I never FIGHT either. I have conversations that never get angry or heated, but they're not always easy. But do I fight? Never.
devilsadvocate 16th-Mar-2014 09:05 pm (UTC)
I've had good relationships where I never fought with the person. And I've broken off ones where we continually fight because there's no point.

You can have a really healthy relationship and never fight. That doesn't mean you don't disagree, but you do it in more of a debate kind of way where you communicate it healthily. And that is what he's saying.
annie_oakley 16th-Mar-2014 07:35 pm (UTC)
lol yeah he's done, fate is sealed
superhetoric 16th-Mar-2014 07:37 pm (UTC)
i've always found him overrated tbh. he's not attractive and the fact that he refers to his wife as "pretty bird" - and the fact that we know this - creeps me the fuck out.
_______awshucks 16th-Mar-2014 07:40 pm (UTC)
yep, and so starts me being labeled one of his stans who will always stand up for him. I don't agree with him about some of the things he says (the never fighting thing definitely makes me question things), but overall I think he's a good guy with good intentions and just talks too much sometimes.

Edited at 2014-03-16 07:40 pm (UTC)
ctfobro 16th-Mar-2014 07:43 pm (UTC)
ikr I thought OP liked him like.... lmao
ekrelly 16th-Mar-2014 07:45 pm (UTC)
ikr
jammyjam 16th-Mar-2014 07:47 pm (UTC)
i mean, at least the guy isn't saying rude stuff. he's a nice, happy guy. ontd can stay mad tbh
paarycia 16th-Mar-2014 07:53 pm (UTC)
lol yup
he's kinda asking for it though, bb.
hotel 16th-Mar-2014 08:02 pm (UTC)
I still find him a very likable guy, but his relationship with his wife is really weird. I actually kinda feel bad for her, tbh.
anna_drenxavier 16th-Mar-2014 08:14 pm (UTC)
ONTD is fickle as fuq. What exactly did this guy do? My WORD.
squishinator 16th-Mar-2014 08:40 pm (UTC)
Why?? God, ONTD will turn on people for the most fucking petty things. As if everyone here is perfect.
hollywoodlawn 22nd-Mar-2014 03:02 am (UTC)
This post was a week ago, which is like a decade in ONTD time, but if anyone comes back to read this thread, I just thought it would be interesting to post his comments in the context of the interview.

It's in the UK Elle on stands now --

Elle: What did you learn -- good or bad -- about marriage from your parents?

AP: My parents are madly in love. People get in fights because they don't communicate, because you don't want to hurt the other person. If you do want to hurt the other person, then shame on you -- you're an asshole. My wife and I do not argue. We communicate. We talk. But we've never fought in our entire relationship.

Elle: Really? Don't you ever want to just have a blowout fight? Sometimes it feels so good!

AP: I used to be addicted to those types of relationships. And it did feel good, because you're releasing your frustrations. But with her, there is no frustration.

Elle: Now that Breaking Bad has ended, is your wife annoyed to have you around the house all the time?

AP: I actually haven't been home. I'm doing more films. It's good to stay busy.


Oh, ONTD, don't ever change. Keep making those snap judgements from sound bytes without bothering to hear the full story.

Edited at 2014-03-22 03:05 am (UTC)
sabby3433 16th-Mar-2014 07:26 pm (UTC)
L I E S
winninghearts 16th-Mar-2014 07:26 pm (UTC)
he is just so into her

he reminds me of people who post to their SO's facebook timelines just to write a paragraph about how much they love them, even though they live in the same house.

i'm happy he's in love and I don't want him to be sad, but he just seems so over-the-top into her and feels the need to be so public about it.

Edited at 2014-03-16 07:27 pm (UTC)
squirrelsarerad 16th-Mar-2014 07:29 pm (UTC)
lol that's so weird to me. I know a person who is always writing things like that to her husband on public on Facebook, when he doesn't even HAVE a Facebook.

It's even more interesting when you know, like I do, that she's really unhappy with him and considering divorcing him for the ***THIRD*** time.
moon_river_315 16th-Mar-2014 07:46 pm (UTC)
lol I have a few who do that on my timeline, its so odd. And yet sometimes I find myself feeling sad and inadequate based on other peoples posts and have to remind myself its probably exaggerated
alienjive 16th-Mar-2014 08:25 pm (UTC)
Flawfree icon.

HAIL SAGAN.
squishinator 16th-Mar-2014 08:43 pm (UTC)
Those sorts of fb people drive me nuts. The ones who mention it the most are the most unhappy, most of the time.
kwikimart 16th-Mar-2014 08:56 pm (UTC)
Y I K E S
tadashee 16th-Mar-2014 07:30 pm (UTC)
yeah that's how i feel. i think its great that he loves her, and tbh i want that- but he talks about it A LOT. idk. maybe I'm just more private, so i don't get it.
bienenkiste 16th-Mar-2014 07:40 pm (UTC)
i like him a lot but mte tbh
lauren7653 16th-Mar-2014 07:45 pm (UTC)
I hate these people hahaha
insaynejayne 16th-Mar-2014 07:53 pm (UTC)
That's my sis in law.

My brother responds with "thanks love u too" and then I bug him via text.
joy_scenic 16th-Mar-2014 08:28 pm (UTC)
lol that doesn't annoy me as much as people who write paragraphs about how charmed their life is in their facebook status. Like, when do you even have time to HAVE a relationship when you spend half of your time trying to convince others how great it is? Like damn, enjoy your private moments, none of us need to hear about how your ~hubby is the best hubby in da whole world!!!1!!1~ every 5 minutes.

Edited at 2014-03-16 08:28 pm (UTC)
devilsadvocate 16th-Mar-2014 09:08 pm (UTC)
I've done that with ex-relationships and they've done that with me. Who cares? Its their life. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with their situation.

The real issue is: Why do you care about what OTHER people you supposedly can't stand, are doing with their OWN lives? It obviously bothers you on some level or you would just be neutral about it.
megalixer 16th-Mar-2014 09:39 pm (UTC)
lol ia. I find the behaviour cheesy and annoying, but in and of itself it's harmless
pinkjaffa 17th-Mar-2014 12:40 am (UTC)
Ugh both of my cousins and their wives do this. They'll type almost the same thing back and forth on each others' timelines and it kind of makes me want to roll my eyes.
ikewl62 16th-Mar-2014 07:26 pm (UTC)
ilu but pls stop, bitch
polynucleotide 16th-Mar-2014 07:26 pm (UTC)
here come all the lonely bitter people calling him creepy.
espressotorte 16th-Mar-2014 07:28 pm (UTC)
Pretty much.
revertigo 16th-Mar-2014 07:29 pm (UTC)
lol his wanting to watch his daughters be little clones of his wife so he can watch them grow up is adorably creepy.
zeldazonked 16th-Mar-2014 07:31 pm (UTC)
Adorably creepy. That's a good description. Like, I think he's a good guy, but if he wasn't attractive and famous... I don't think it would be so cute.
perznpoprietess 16th-Mar-2014 07:32 pm (UTC)
if my dogs could have puppies, i would love it because i never got to see them as puppies. am i adorably creepy too? is it so wrong?
la_petite_singe 16th-Mar-2014 07:29 pm (UTC)
I'm lonely and bitter and I think he's adorbs...!
zeldazonked 16th-Mar-2014 07:29 pm (UTC)
lol. I don't think that this is too bad, but the Little Bird providing food for herself stuff is a little too much for me that it does border on creepy.
eaglefan2011 16th-Mar-2014 07:33 pm (UTC)
yep
thebloomroom 16th-Mar-2014 07:38 pm (UTC)
pls lmao. i think this article is cute but the "little bird" etc in PUBLIC is a bit much. not creepy, but just gives you the same feeling as when you see PDA
superhetoric 16th-Mar-2014 07:38 pm (UTC)
one doesn't need to be lonely or bitter to find him creepy, sorry. he is creepy.
francesbcobain 16th-Mar-2014 07:39 pm (UTC)
lol ONTD hates when people are happy tbh.
iprevail 16th-Mar-2014 08:00 pm (UTC)
tbh if a guy was like "LET'S GET MARRIED TONIGHT" i dont think it would be too much of a stretch to be weirded out by that.
msr4ever 16th-Mar-2014 08:29 pm (UTC)
YES
I'm not even willing to read all these comments, they just make me angry.
x_brittacular 16th-Mar-2014 08:42 pm (UTC)
as they desperately download Tinder and make an okcupid profile
carolpd 16th-Mar-2014 08:43 pm (UTC)
mte
devilsadvocate 16th-Mar-2014 09:09 pm (UTC)
LOL mte. ONTD is always bitter about happy, successful people.
concreteway 16th-Mar-2014 09:51 pm (UTC)
i haven't been in an Aaron Paul post since the finale and it's nuts how many people have turned on him since then.
rockstarsex 16th-Mar-2014 10:23 pm (UTC)
IA it's really transparent too
actxappalledx 16th-Mar-2014 11:54 pm (UTC)
lol well i don't think he's creepy, but I do think he's really annoying. He's like those couples on facebook who write on each other's walls about how much they love each other and how there's no one else in the world like them, etc. etc. like.. you live with each other, you can say it to their face. those type of people just annoy me because it's obvious they're doing all of that so everyone else can see how happy and in love they are, and it just reeks of them having something to prove. like, i think it's wonderful that you're in love and you love each other (everyone deserves to have that), but there's no need to be so public and ott about it either, imo
grandmascorner 16th-Mar-2014 07:26 pm (UTC)
I find his love for his wife endearing yet i want him to stawp
bienenkiste 16th-Mar-2014 07:41 pm (UTC)
lol my feelings exactly
it's cute but sometimes it's just TOO MUCH
theupperdrive 16th-Mar-2014 07:51 pm (UTC)
mte
blue_birds 16th-Mar-2014 08:01 pm (UTC)
lol this
flawedinsomniac 16th-Mar-2014 08:30 pm (UTC)
LOL yeah
fukd_by_sugar 16th-Mar-2014 07:26 pm (UTC)
then they're not being truthful with one another. even the best couples are going to have disagreements and hurt feelings.
winninghearts 16th-Mar-2014 07:29 pm (UTC)
you don't have to FIGHT, though. I think there's a difference between having disagreements and fighting.
donnanoble 16th-Mar-2014 07:33 pm (UTC)
yeah and i think that's what he's saying, they disagree but they still communicate so they work it out without a fight
beatlesluv 16th-Mar-2014 08:03 pm (UTC)
AGREED.
hotel 16th-Mar-2014 08:04 pm (UTC)
IA.
theactualworst 16th-Mar-2014 08:28 pm (UTC)
Yeah people are overreacting to what he's saying.
la_nostalgia 16th-Mar-2014 09:12 pm (UTC)
MTE!
rhapsodeeinblue 16th-Mar-2014 07:29 pm (UTC)
mte. It's normal, and I feel like the closer you are with someone the more inevitable arguments are going to be--like not even romantic relationships but family, bffs, etc.
writing 16th-Mar-2014 07:33 pm (UTC)
not always the case. my parents rarely fight with each other. they might get a little frustrated, but they seem to talk things out. they've been married 25 years now.
lauren7653 16th-Mar-2014 07:47 pm (UTC)
exactly. thats a part PASSION.
They've never had makeup sex.... They are missing out
mrcumberbatch 16th-Mar-2014 08:19 pm (UTC)
eh, i can see how a couple never gets to the point of shouting at one another, like it isnt that weird that they dont fight. BUT i have found that most couples that claim never to fight are actually SUPER passive aggressive instead and just stay mad for fucking ages without bringing up the problem and therefore dont actually fight. i doubt that aaron + lauren are like that tho
alecktroshock 16th-Mar-2014 08:27 pm (UTC)
yes AND they have only been together a year.... sorry but you still hardly know someone very well after a year. just wait, they will have a fight. new couples always sound like that
squishinator 16th-Mar-2014 08:47 pm (UTC)
he never said they don't have disagreements. he said they talk about it instead of fight about it.
devilsadvocate 16th-Mar-2014 09:09 pm (UTC)
I've had good relationships where we literally never fought. Fighting doesn't mean the occasional disagreement.
funhouse 16th-Mar-2014 07:27 pm (UTC)
liar
melanie_mishap 16th-Mar-2014 07:27 pm (UTC)
aaron ily but ontd is bout to turn on you
freemywilly 16th-Mar-2014 07:27 pm (UTC)
Here we go.
doughnutholes 16th-Mar-2014 07:28 pm (UTC)
I want to believe....


And yet I don't.
revertigo 16th-Mar-2014 07:28 pm (UTC)
rooting for you bbs <3
odontv 16th-Mar-2014 07:28 pm (UTC)
If she ever leaves him it's going to be a huge mess.
alaynestone 16th-Mar-2014 07:32 pm (UTC)
He seems genuinely in love with her. He may be OTT, but I hope they're both legit happy.
fancycarousel 16th-Mar-2014 07:33 pm (UTC)
I feel like he'd be dangerous
mrcumberbatch 16th-Mar-2014 08:20 pm (UTC)
he'd literally fall apart, that would actually be so sad :(
russ94 17th-Mar-2014 07:27 pm (UTC)
I don't think so. I think he's still in his honeymoon phase where everything is perfect about her. They've been together for not even 2 years, eventually he will see not everything is sunshine and rainbows and stop talking about her nonstop or fade so much into oblivion that we won't hear about it anyway
tadashee 16th-Mar-2014 07:28 pm (UTC)
he's interesting...
la_petite_singe 16th-Mar-2014 07:28 pm (UTC)
Well, as long as they have good communication...I mean, that sounds sort of like a red flag to me and like they're maybe still in the infatuation stage, but then again my spinster ass shouldn't be doling out relationship advice kind of ever. W/e, he's precious.
perznpoprietess 16th-Mar-2014 07:30 pm (UTC)
lol, you're cute
yolleh 16th-Mar-2014 07:36 pm (UTC)
Yeah I was about to say, they've only been married a year. They're probably still in the honeymoon phase which is completely fine!
courtneyshayne 16th-Mar-2014 07:38 pm (UTC)
yeah it sounds suspect to me too. as soon as i read that i was looking to see how long they've been together. and it's only been a year so it's really no surprise.
lauren7653 16th-Mar-2014 07:48 pm (UTC)
one pathetic year....

come back when you've been with your partner for six and have lived through car accidents, house fires, car explosions, and deaths...

YUP.
gonerilandregan 16th-Mar-2014 08:15 pm (UTC)
They've been together since 2010. They met at Coachella and had their first kiss on a Ferris wheel (why do I know this).
mrcumberbatch 16th-Mar-2014 08:21 pm (UTC)
yeah a one year marriage with no kids and no financial worries whatsoever...like, i can see why they havent had huge arguments lol. 99% of my parents arguments were about money..
anna_bea2 16th-Mar-2014 07:45 pm (UTC)
lol mte @ everything in this comment
moonbeam59 16th-Mar-2014 10:46 pm (UTC)
Yeahhh mte. People have bad days and stressors. People have things they feel passionate about. People have differences of opinion. When all of those things come together, disagreements happen, and they can be very emotional. As long as no one is verbally abusive, I don't think there's necessarily a problem.
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