this girl seems to be pretty level-headed and non-rape apologist about the whole thing.

I don't think xojane explicitly said he was raping underage girls, just that he's always been into young girls. anyway yes I am a bit conflicted about the whole thing, because his music made me feel so less alone when I was a teenager but I also was raped last year and had the whole all our mutual friends denying it, so I really want to support this girl because I understand the backlash coming out with her story would cause.