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‘People really teased me': Zooey Deschanel opens up about her childhood struggles as she reveals mission to become a role model

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She may now have a successful career partly due to her loveable quirkiness. But it seems it hasn’t always been so easy for Zooey Deschanel to fit in and be accepted. Speaking to Cosmopolitan magazine the New Girl actress opened up about being teased as a child and why she now wants to inspire young women. Remembering the hell she often experienced when she was younger, she revealed: ‘People really teased me. It was really bad.

‘Nothing could be as hard as middle school. There were insecurities that I think I would have worked through a lot faster if I’d had certain tools and could have connected with certain people earlier.’ Her own struggles are what have inspired the pretty brunette to become a role model herself.

‘We [Molly McAleer, Sophia Rossi and Zooey] started Hello Giggles [hellogiggles.com] for fun, but now I feel like I’m on a mission to make it a thing that helps other women,’ the 33-year-old said. ‘If there had been a place like that for me when I was 13, I would have felt so much less alone.’ Speaking more about her website, she’s admitted that she’s hugely passionate about protecting other girls from negativity: ‘I was so tired of every site having these comment sections that were pure, pure toxic energy.

I put myself out there; it’s part of my job, and I get it: people will attack me. At first I was thrown off, but now I have a pretty thick skin about it. But if someone were to do that to one of our 13-year-old bloggers, I would kill them!As well as talking about her pet project the star, who has recently launched her own production company to add to her impressive acting and singing career, shed some light on recording songs. ‘When we’re recording [with She & Him bandmate, Matthew Ward], we’ll almost always like the first or second take. I’d rather have something that’s imperfect but emotionally true than try to sing it perfectly,’ Zooey mused.

In between her busy career, Zooey is still open to romance and still believes in true love despite her divorce from Ben Gibbard being finalised at the end of last year. She confessed: ‘[True love] that lasts forever… yes, I do believe in it. My parents have been married for 40 years and my grandparents were married for 70 years. I come from a long line of true loves.’ And talking about her ideal guy, she revealed: ‘I’d be more likely to go for somebody who is like me. Well, I like creative people, so whatever that means… Yeah, authentic and creative.’ The full interview appears in the April issue of British Cosmopolitan, on sale 5th March.


‘[True love] that lasts forever… yes, I do believe in it.



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sweet_honesty 4th-Mar-2013 01:14 am (UTC)
I really don't understand why people hate her so much. I remember someone said they didn't like Mindy Kahling just because she associates with Zooey Dechannel. People act like she's the worst person on the planet.
bgwqlc 4th-Mar-2013 01:23 am (UTC)
I don't get it either. I always wonder if I missed the day she did or said something horrible but that does not seem to be the case.
sweet_honesty 4th-Mar-2013 01:26 am (UTC)
She's so incredibly harmless. It's so ridiculous how people hate her so much.
morgan90 4th-Mar-2013 01:34 am (UTC)
Because her entire existence is predicated on being an immature/kooky/~random~ special snowflake. It's all very "don't ask me, I'm just a girl!"
loaded___gun 4th-Mar-2013 01:36 am (UTC)
i don't hate on her really, but i think the whole ~i'm so quirky and different~ bit is annoying. because it comes off to me as a bit and something she is trying hard to actively maintain.
publicfrenemy 4th-Mar-2013 01:38 am (UTC)
because she asked Siri if it was raining when she was standing next to a window.
goofusgallant 4th-Mar-2013 01:47 am (UTC)
Idgi either. She can be annoying but she's harmless imo.
wicky_wicky 4th-Mar-2013 01:48 am (UTC)
people are really critical of girly-girls and that's part of her schtick. just about every famous personality has an image they try to maintain, but some people have a really bad reaction to hers.
expromqueen 4th-Mar-2013 01:56 am (UTC)
if someone's going to dislike mindy kaling i would hope it's cause she writes rape jokes
tragickingdomxo 4th-Mar-2013 01:56 am (UTC)
The damn iPhone commercial she did and then the quirky thing going into overdrive when she got this show didn't help. Pretty minor, but a bit grating TBH.
howlcosmiclove 4th-Mar-2013 01:57 am (UTC)
yeah she can be annoying but the vitriol she gets is ott.
squishinator 4th-Mar-2013 01:57 am (UTC)
no idea. i love her tbh. I can see why some might find her annoying but i dont get the HATE. and she's gorgeous and i wanna look like her.
ronnie_luvs_u 4th-Mar-2013 02:06 am (UTC)
because they didn't understand 500 Days of Summer lbr.
redlipped 4th-Mar-2013 02:13 am (UTC)
Because she has 13-year-old mannerisms but is more than double that age. Its awkward and annoying for a 30-something to act like that.
rewrittentime 4th-Mar-2013 02:37 am (UTC)
because she's unanashemedly a ~girly girl~ whilst simultaneously being intelligent and nice
so basically people are stupid
enamored 4th-Mar-2013 04:22 am (UTC)
i used to find her annoying but new girl plus watching her in Our Idiot Brother (where she plays an ENTIRELY different character) have made me 100% in love with her.
toilandblood 4th-Mar-2013 04:25 am (UTC)
idg the hate either. I like her.
letsallchant 4th-Mar-2013 04:37 am (UTC)
IDGI either. She's never done anything offensive. It's mostly jezebel-types who hate her and her 'girlishness', like they believe it's some ploy to appeal to men. Yet Zooey actually out-right calls herself a feminist. I think the Zooey-hate actually says more about them than it does her.
cerseilannister 4th-Mar-2013 04:44 am (UTC)
her shtick can seem very off putting to ppl.
but i won't hate her for trying to get that mpdg money.
ladyofmachinery 4th-Mar-2013 05:08 am (UTC)
Mte. I love her <3
hannahgrace456 4th-Mar-2013 05:13 am (UTC)
MTE
my_moloko 4th-Mar-2013 05:24 am (UTC)
Because they think wearing dresses and having amazing hair means you can't possibly be a feminist.
mystickiwi 4th-Mar-2013 05:29 am (UTC)
I hate New Girl/her Character on New Girl with a fiery passion, and sometimes that translates over into hating her, but when I think about it I really don't. I like a lot of the movies she's been in, I think she's a decent singer, and I really respect what she's saying about Hello Giggles.
freeze_i_say 4th-Mar-2013 12:30 pm (UTC)
New Girl is awful, I hate everyone on it
pikapika217 4th-Mar-2013 02:54 pm (UTC)
I used to adore her but then the 'New Girl' promotion was TOO MUCH and it made me hate her. Add to that what morgan90 & publicfrenemy said as well. But I've realized that she's more annoying for me than hate inspiring.
mjspice 4th-Mar-2013 03:31 pm (UTC)
Eh she's so-so & not even that good of an actress imo.

champagnexdream 4th-Mar-2013 03:50 pm (UTC)
Jealousy, IMO.
isntdaveone 4th-Mar-2013 01:16 am (UTC)
sunredskyblue 4th-Mar-2013 01:26 am (UTC)
nene looks pretty in that gif
jackpeyton 4th-Mar-2013 09:09 am (UTC)
is this pre-surgery nene?
schexyschteve 4th-Mar-2013 01:16 am (UTC)
Is HG a website for women, or for teens? It's a very...cutesy site.

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tigersnap 4th-Mar-2013 01:34 am (UTC)
I think it tries to appeal to a wide range. I was wondering if she ever writes anything on it. I looks like a bunch of contributing writers.
ava_adore0 4th-Mar-2013 02:05 am (UTC)
It is a bunch of contributors (a few famous people who have written guest articles as well). If you look through the authors listing, it seems they're mainly 20-something/early-30s with two or three young teens. It's not an incredibly wide range.
Zooey wrote some stuff when the site was first launched, I don't think she has since.
ava_adore0 4th-Mar-2013 02:00 am (UTC)
It definitely caters mainly to a 20-something/young-30s crowd, but some of its articles have a wide appeal.
There are young contributers (like she says here, some 13 year olds) but their articles are kind of... nothing tbh. Just 'in defense of taylor swift' and 'reasons why i'm not a duggar' and 'i am 11 and will never pay 30 dollars for a makeup brush' type stuff. All filled with comments from adults about how much more mature those girls are than other girls their age. I don't think they really look into the kids they get to write either, because one of them had some pretty ignorant and racist stuff on her tumblr.
It's a pretty bland/inoffensive website, but when it first started there were A LOT of really bad articles about how woman lack self respect when the wear short dresses, makeup to the gym, pajamas in public and a bunch of other garbage.
twowaymirrrors 4th-Mar-2013 02:05 am (UTC)
It's supposed to be for people in their 20s, but some of the articles definitely cater to the younger crowd.
bardotlashes 4th-Mar-2013 05:27 am (UTC)
The last article I read on there (this was within a few months of the launch) was about how to tell if a door was push or pull, and how to not break down in tears if you guess wrong. Clearly information that every 20-something lady direly needs.
tigtogiba34 4th-Mar-2013 01:17 am (UTC)
Ha I should have posted this with my Katy Perry icon just to be an ass.
ronnie_luvs_u 4th-Mar-2013 01:17 am (UTC)
LOVE HER HAIR OMG. Give it to me Zooey. Or give me your stylists, idc.
toilandblood 4th-Mar-2013 04:26 am (UTC)
i love her hair in this too. the pantene ads or whatever i don't really like.. it makes her hair look like a wig or something and it's too straight or something, her hair looks perfect like this though.
deltabean 4th-Mar-2013 02:48 pm (UTC)
mte! It's perfect
burn_a_miracle 4th-Mar-2013 01:18 am (UTC)
I wish I could pull off those bangs. My forehead is too small.
hisdreamgirl_dn 4th-Mar-2013 03:30 am (UTC)
I used to worry about that so much and I always wanted bangs like that, one day i just went to a good hair dresser and did it. It looks great tbh.
so_chic_doll 4th-Mar-2013 03:38 am (UTC)
Yeah, I can only really do a side swept type of bang
josh_the_k 4th-Mar-2013 01:22 am (UTC)
I want to get her pregnant.
sastra_fuss 4th-Mar-2013 01:50 am (UTC)
and raise the baby?
brucelynn 4th-Mar-2013 01:25 am (UTC)
I am only here for my beautiful OP



Edited at 2013-03-04 01:25 am (UTC)
tigtogiba34 4th-Mar-2013 01:41 am (UTC)
awww hey you :o)
bgwqlc 4th-Mar-2013 01:25 am (UTC)
I know it is cool to hate on her but I like her. I think she has a cute style and I like New Girl.
pop_squash 4th-Mar-2013 01:26 am (UTC)
On one hand, I'm annoyed by her cutesy, twee, girl-child thing. On the other hand, her hair is really pretty.
publicfrenemy 4th-Mar-2013 01:57 am (UTC)
that's fair
paranoiattaque 4th-Mar-2013 06:31 pm (UTC)
this is also my dilemma. she's stunning but then when she opens her mouth.. i just can't.
sugarcrawler 4th-Mar-2013 01:27 am (UTC)
i want bangs but my hair is too curly for that
illustratedd 4th-Mar-2013 01:29 am (UTC)
I used to hate her but I never knew why. Now I kinda like her? Idk, New Girl's funny.

Oh wait, I hate She & Him.
xolmw 4th-Mar-2013 01:43 am (UTC)
lol saaaaame i just can't get into she & him at all, plus i feel like every single movie she's in she has to sing in it SOMEWHERE and it just pisses me off

new girl is funny tho
bardotlashes 4th-Mar-2013 05:29 am (UTC)
Has she ever sung on New Girl? If not, I'm shocked and impressed.
inhibiting 4th-Mar-2013 01:36 am (UTC)
She is so freaking cute!
somefantastic 4th-Mar-2013 01:37 am (UTC)
I love her, idgaf.
guadalcanal 4th-Mar-2013 01:38 am (UTC)
I don't like her and the only time I ever have was her character in Failure to Launch because it was realistic
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