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6:00 pm - 02/22/2013

FFAF: February 22



Get ready for the Oscars on Sunday! Of course we'll have a discussion post for the big event.




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gerrysmyman 23rd-Feb-2013 01:53 am (UTC)
Do you know anyone that came from less than wealthy means, and became successful? What did they do to become successful?
hearxmexrawr 23rd-Feb-2013 01:56 am (UTC)
yes.

they went to college and majored in something that they liked and ended up having a v. high salary, worked really hard at maintaining good grades, worked full time to pay their bills and got good internships.
anus 23rd-Feb-2013 01:58 am (UTC)
Pretty much everything hearxmexrawr said. My mom grew up in a trailer park and my dad grew up a little wealthier than that. They both worked hard as fuck. My dad makes me feel so lazy because he went to work, then straight to class, then back to work. He paid his way through college and managed to get straight As. You need dedication.

Edited at 2013-02-23 02:00 am (UTC)
foureyedgirl 23rd-Feb-2013 02:00 am (UTC)
my dad. he was poor as fucking hell as a kid in mexico. He came to the US, started working and eventually became the owner of a business that he started out as an employee making minimum wage. He's also bought up real estate over the years so that really helps too. I have to mention that he is also a jack of all trades so he knows how to do damn near everything, fix cars, build houses etc. But he's also not the nicest man either..so like most capitalist success stories it seems that the most successful aren't always the nicest either.

ETA. He has no formal education from here or MX. He did get a certification from a community college on A/C repair but that's it.

Edited at 2013-02-23 02:01 am (UTC)
telurica 23rd-Feb-2013 02:03 am (UTC)
Yes my mom was poor she lived in a 2 bedroom house with her parents and 6 other brothers, she went to public school, end up in first place and then majored in mining engineering. Shes doing pretty well right now and runs her own mines (she has four). She worked super hard and never rested and she always tells me the key is to keep studying and learning stuff about your field.
disko_tron 23rd-Feb-2013 02:05 am (UTC)
yeah my parents. dad grew up wealthy in vietnam and had everything taken away. Came to the US with nothing in his pocket. He loved to learn so he knew a little english coming here and got odd jobs to support his brothers. eventually went to a community college, then went to state college. He almost graduated but he needed money for the family more.

Worked hard. Saved everything. And now he has his own business, drives a nice car and enjoys life. My mom's the same too.
rhapsodeeinblue 23rd-Feb-2013 02:06 am (UTC)
My parents! Especially my dad, who grew up in the projects in Hong Kong. I'd say school was the main factor--they both got into HK's top university. After immigrating to the US my dad went to b-school, followed the American Dream~, now they're living pretty decent lives in the 'burbs, etc.
voyevoda 23rd-Feb-2013 02:12 am (UTC)
My brother-in-law's dad wasn't anything more than middle class in his youth (far as I know anyway, doesn't sound like he was) and he played the stock market and now owns a gated community house with a private beach in the backyard and shit like that. 8|
sadisticsidhe 23rd-Feb-2013 02:12 am (UTC)
My mom went from less than wealthy means to being upper middle class but I'm not sure how she did it. She worked through college (did the smart thing and got her pre-reqs done at a community college before transferring to a 4 year) and as soon as she graduated she joined the Navy Nurse Corp and worked her way up through the ranks. Retired, went back and got her MSN and is now a nurse practitioner, which is a lucrative job.

Mostly she was just very smart and sometimes thrifty with money. My grandparents were very (very, very) poor managers of money and she was determined to never be like them.
williammiller 23rd-Feb-2013 06:22 am (UTC)
My mom was really poor growing up. She was in an abuse relationship, got pregnant at 22, moved away and moved to this area and worked her ass off to afford a better life for my sister. She had many jobs but eventually got a good one and worked there for 30+ years. My dad grew up middle class but still didn't have much. He's had a job since he was 15 and had two when I was growing up.
johnjie 24th-Feb-2013 01:49 am (UTC)
My dad grew up poor in a rough part of a rough town (3 bedroom home for his parents and their ten kids, lots of crime etc) and he became successful by getting a scholarship to a nice school, getting really good grades at school and then getting another schloarship to do medicine at university, and today we are all firmly middle class and live in a really nice part of a big city.
hypnology 23rd-Feb-2013 01:54 am (UTC)
life_after_luv 23rd-Feb-2013 01:58 am (UTC)
Use to skate to this song all the time. lol
twowaymirrrors 23rd-Feb-2013 01:54 am (UTC)
My sister wanted to watch a movie...and then disappeared. Okay...
dotty 23rd-Feb-2013 01:54 am (UTC)
I got the last 2 of the 3 necklaces I ordered earlier this week today, they are so pretty! Taking an interest in fashion/my appearance again for the first time in years, feels a bit pointless since I never go out but also fun. Forgot how much I used to love this stuff.

This one's my favorite:
mistress_f 23rd-Feb-2013 01:57 am (UTC)
so pretty
telurica 23rd-Feb-2013 02:04 am (UTC)
this is gorgeous!
deltabean 23rd-Feb-2013 02:04 am (UTC)
Ooh, I like that
notoriousreign 23rd-Feb-2013 02:11 am (UTC)
Oh man, I want that. O_O
glowing_dragon 23rd-Feb-2013 02:42 am (UTC)
PRETTY!
williammiller 23rd-Feb-2013 06:14 am (UTC)
The second one isn't showing up for me but I like the first one.
nymphadoratonks 23rd-Feb-2013 05:44 pm (UTC)
where are you buying it? that's gorgeous.
xia83 yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 01:55 am (UTC)
last look bbs

chuk_is_dazzled Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 01:55 am (UTC)
yay
hypnology Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 01:55 am (UTC)
yay
_______awshucks Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 01:56 am (UTC)
yay, I feel like I would wear this to a music festival
twowaymirrrors Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 01:56 am (UTC)
no
cerseilannister Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 01:56 am (UTC)
nay
dotty Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 01:56 am (UTC)
Yay but no to the earrings?
evett Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 01:59 am (UTC)
nay
devourlove Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 02:00 am (UTC)
nay

but i don't really like pink, so...
weekendwars Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 02:01 am (UTC)
yay except for the earring and maybe like black shoes instead
disko_tron Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 02:06 am (UTC)
nay

pink vans look juvenile to me.
openpick Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 02:13 am (UTC)
this would be super cute for a 12-year-old!
sadisticsidhe Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 02:14 am (UTC)
nope
expromqueen Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 02:24 am (UTC)
not my style, so nay
glowing_dragon Re: yea or nay23rd-Feb-2013 02:44 am (UTC)
No.
williammiller 23rd-Feb-2013 06:14 am (UTC)
No
hjohnson 23rd-Feb-2013 01:55 am (UTC)
WHy do some people on tumblr feel the need to liveblog. No one gives a shit what you think about the show while its on. No one who cares about the show will BE on tumblr while its airing and afterwards, it's just annoying to scroll through 20 posts that are one sentence long that make zero sense
die2nitelive4ev 23rd-Feb-2013 01:55 am (UTC)
mte. Leave it to Twitter
chuk_is_dazzled 23rd-Feb-2013 01:56 am (UTC)
so glad i dont follow anyone who does that
hjohnson 23rd-Feb-2013 01:57 am (UTC)
It's a tumblr for a show and she never used to but started last night and I was just like WHHHHHHHHHY.

Then she had to go all "IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT I DO, DONT FOLLOW ME" on everyone
mistress_f 23rd-Feb-2013 01:59 am (UTC)
i generally hate people who talk about anything on tumblr. just post pics or videos or relevant info. no1currs about your crush or if you're hungry or liveblogging some d-list tvshow. i never unfollow anyone but chatty people just GO
evett 23rd-Feb-2013 02:00 am (UTC)
that is what twitter or live tv watching posts are for.
guccipostagurl 23rd-Feb-2013 02:00 am (UTC)
Liveblogging is only ok on twitter.
devourlove 23rd-Feb-2013 02:02 am (UTC)
omg thank you. it's hard enough checking my tumblr as is without fifteen supernatural fans liveblogging every other minute of the show. Literally half a page is liveblogging and one or two posts from other people. It drives me insane and I can't unfollow because I usually like whatever else they post.

eta that's what twitter is for. i will spam the crap out of my twitter because idc i don't need to check people's old tweets

Edited at 2013-02-23 02:03 am (UTC)
notoriousreign 23rd-Feb-2013 02:14 am (UTC)
UGH I KNOW, it pisses me off too. I mean it takes so much more time too, than livetweeting. Especially now with the changes on tumblr, why would you put all that effort? It's ridiculous, leave it to twitter.
mindchill 23rd-Feb-2013 03:35 am (UTC)
Ugh, I almost quit tumblr because of an annoying twerp who was confusing tumblr with facebook and posting stupid hoaxes all the time. I had enough whith the post with a photo of a battered child and a fake story which I found on snopes within two minutes. When I wrote to them (politely) to cut it out, they got snippy and told me to unfollow them...
williammiller 23rd-Feb-2013 06:14 am (UTC)
Liveblogging is so annoying when most of the posts are like OMG!! It's like, no one gives a shit.
chuk_is_dazzled 23rd-Feb-2013 01:55 am (UTC)
man, i wish i wasnt so lazy and apathetic
foureyedgirl 23rd-Feb-2013 01:55 am (UTC)
Has anyone ever signed up for Lobby Day with Planned Parenthood? They're going to drive up to austin to do it. I want to ask for a scholarship to go (because my poor ass is broke).
cerseilannister 23rd-Feb-2013 01:55 am (UTC)
when is jimmy kimmel live on?
dontreadmylj 23rd-Feb-2013 01:57 am (UTC)
11:35 pm
fancycarousel 23rd-Feb-2013 01:59 am (UTC)
i live over here on the west coast, what time will it be on for me?
cerseilannister 23rd-Feb-2013 02:11 am (UTC)
girl i'm in socal. that's what i'm tryna figure out lol. i don't watch talk shows so how does this work...
cerseilannister 23rd-Feb-2013 02:21 am (UTC)
i think it'll be at 8:35 for us if we can get an east coast feed!
lilyoda 23rd-Feb-2013 01:56 am (UTC)
Ugh fuck you Saurman. Damn this scene probably looks fun to shoot but not good for Gandalf flying up to the top of the tower
dontreadmylj 23rd-Feb-2013 01:57 am (UTC)
hypnology 23rd-Feb-2013 01:58 am (UTC)
that is creepy lol
ms_mmelissa 23rd-Feb-2013 01:58 am (UTC)
Demon toy.
chuk_is_dazzled 23rd-Feb-2013 01:57 am (UTC)
im still mad i have a meeting the same time my 2 fav shows are on, AND ONE IS PREMIERING! PSYCH! AND WORKAHOLICS!
roxtarrr 23rd-Feb-2013 01:57 am (UTC)
So I'm just gonna post more cat pics because I keep finding them as I'm looking for others.

This is Boss:



This is Boss yawning:


This is Finn


This is one of the cats on the other roof


But I liked this guy


Here they are together:


Bonus


Edited at 2013-02-23 02:01 am (UTC)
williammiller 23rd-Feb-2013 06:22 am (UTC)
I like your little back yard area
roxtarrr 23rd-Feb-2013 04:22 pm (UTC)
It was actually a pretty cool little space. I kind of hated it at the time but now that I don't live there anymore and looking at the pictures I can't help thinking that it was really neat.
groundcrown 23rd-Feb-2013 01:58 am (UTC)
i haven't heard this song in forever but it randomly popped into my head today

hypnology 23rd-Feb-2013 02:00 am (UTC)
I used to love them!
disko_tron 23rd-Feb-2013 02:09 am (UTC)
wow I totally remember this song. Blonde singer looks like sophie monk
deltabean 23rd-Feb-2013 02:09 am (UTC)
what ever happened to them?

I remember singing along to this song in my bedroom, haha
ellie_andrews 23rd-Feb-2013 02:47 am (UTC)
omg nostalgia bomb
williammiller 23rd-Feb-2013 06:23 am (UTC)
I totally forgot about them
dontreadmylj 23rd-Feb-2013 01:58 am (UTC)
hypnology 23rd-Feb-2013 02:00 am (UTC)
they both look so hot
rockyspine 23rd-Feb-2013 02:32 am (UTC)
obsessed!!!!!
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