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10:20 am - 02/21/2013

Is Taylor Swift the Worst Ex-Girlfriend Ever?



To the next famous guy who decides to date Taylor Swift: Be prepared to get some unwanted shoutouts well after you and the songstress have broken up.

Swift made plenty of headlines after her Grammy performance of her tune “We Are Never, Ever Getting Back Together” during which Swift stopped mid-song with the line: "So he calls me up and he's like, 'I still love you,' the 23-year-old chirped, putting on a bit of a British accent, in what many believed was an imitation of her most recent ex-boyfriend, pop star Harry Styles. “And I'm like, 'I'm sorry, I'm busy opening up the Grammys. And we're never getting back together, like, ever.'”

Her mission may not have been accomplished though, as Styles took the high road when asked about Swift and her performance on a British radio show this week.

"She's a great performer and she always performs great," he praised. "She's always good on the stage. She's been doing it a long time. She knows what she's doing on stage. It was just another good Taylor Swift performance."


He also wasn’t concerned about running into her at the Brit Awards, where they were both scheduled to perform on Wednesday night.

"I'm not worried about seeing her at all," he recently told Grazia magazine. "She's a sweet girl, you know, I don't have a bad word to say about her."

Despite Styles' good-guy vibe, it seems that Swift may have been trying to send more messages the One Direction singer’s way when she took the stage at the Brit Awards where Styles happened to be sitting in the audience. The blonde pranced around in a white poofy dress that looked a whole lot like a wedding gown before ripping it off to reveal a skimpy black-hot-pants outfit paired with laceup boots. Translation: I didn’t want to marry you anyway, Harry?

For his part, Harry told Us Weekly he thought Taylor's performance was "great," adding, "She always puts on a good show."

We may never know what Taylor meant by the performance choices for sure, but given Swift’s history, chances are the move was indeed another dig at an ex. In the past, most of her swipes, however, come via her song lyrics and media interviews, where she hasn’t been afraid to shame the dudes who left her behind.

John Mayer
There was, of course, her ballad “Dear John,” which she wrote after her breakup with ladies’ man John Mayer after their short-lived 2009 relationship. The song was released on her 2010 Speak Now album.

"Dear John, I see it all now that you're gone/Don't think I was too young to be messed with?/The girl in the dress cried the whole way home/I should've known," is the tune’s chorus. Another verse goes: "Well, maybe it's just me and my blind optimism to blame/Or maybe it's you and your sick need to give love then take it away."

The message was received loud and clear, according to Mayer himself … and not appreciated. “It made me feel terrible. Because I didn't deserve it. I'm pretty good at taking accountability now, and I never did anything to deserve that. It was a really lousy thing for her to do,” Mayer said in Rolling Stone last year.

Joe Jonas
But before that song, there was the 2008 tune “Forever and Always,” which Swift has publicly stated was about one of her first boyfriends, Joe Jonas, with whom she had a few-months relationship in 2008 before he famously broke up with her in what she later claimed on “The Ellen DeGeneres Show” was a 27-second phone call.

“Was I out of line?/Did I say something way too honest/That made you run and hide like a scared little boy?/I looked into your eyes, thought I knew you for a minute/Now I'm not so sure,” the lyrics go.

"I've written about [the split with Jonas], and I like to write about my life ... that's just how I deal with things," she said on Ryan Seacrest’s radio show that year.

Jake Gyllenhaal
Though many think that her tune “The Last Time” is about ex Jake Gyllenhaal, whom she dated at the end of 2011, the most cutting words had for the actor came not through song, but through media interviews. "The idea was based on this experience I had with someone who was kind of this unreliable guy,” she told NPR last November. “You never know when he's going to leave, you never know when he's going to come back, but he always does come back.”

Taylor Lautner
But it was a fellow Taylor, “Twilight” actor Taylor Lautner, Swift’s boyfriend for a few months in late 2009, who got off easy and became the first and only guy that Swift has actually apologized to via song. Apparently the two, who met on the set of “Valentine’s Day,” departed amicably and her 2010 tune “Back to December” is directed at him. "It addresses a first for me," Swift told E! News in 2010. "I've never apologized to someone in a song before ... The person I wrote this song for deserves this. This is about a person who was incredible to me – just perfect to me in a relationship – and I was really careless with him."

"So this is me swallowing my pride/ Standing in front of you saying 'I'm sorry' for that night/ And I go back to December all the time/ It turns out freedom ain't nothing/,” go the lyrics. “Missing you, wishing I'd realized what I had when you were mine/ I'd go back to December, turn around and make it all right/ I go back to December all the time."


Conor Kennedy (to be determined)
But the guy who got off the easiest? Conor Kennedy, the teen Swift was spotted all summer with before the two broke up in the fall as he was starting his senior year of high school. Maybe she’s just waiting to give him a musical graduation present …

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lenee91 21st-Feb-2013 04:21 pm (UTC)
she's annoying
hawaii_bombay 21st-Feb-2013 04:35 pm (UTC)
I agree she's annoying, but people act like she commited crimes against humanity.
watch_mex0x0 21st-Feb-2013 04:23 pm (UTC)
until she cuts someone's dick off.. no
donnanoble 21st-Feb-2013 04:25 pm (UTC)
mte
honey_fuggle 21st-Feb-2013 04:30 pm (UTC)
lol mte
endingonfire 21st-Feb-2013 04:49 pm (UTC)
mte
iamglory 21st-Feb-2013 05:15 pm (UTC)
technically they were still together when that happened. It only was a break up after.
t3pps 21st-Feb-2013 05:16 pm (UTC)
Omg this! People act like she's some monster. Gtfoh.
saltonmycuts 21st-Feb-2013 05:25 pm (UTC)
mte.
kin_der 21st-Feb-2013 05:57 pm (UTC)
Yup.
drunkagron 21st-Feb-2013 06:27 pm (UTC)
lol yup. I'm sure there are worse exes
sweet_honesty 22nd-Feb-2013 01:41 am (UTC)
Right? It's like she's the first person to ever write songs about their exes.
toilandblood 22nd-Feb-2013 04:45 pm (UTC)
haha
distant_lines 21st-Feb-2013 04:24 pm (UTC)
Of course Conor Kennedy got off the easiest, he's a damn Kennedy. You don't fuck with that family.
aaameeting 21st-Feb-2013 04:25 pm (UTC)
The family is already fucked...why add to the misery?
distant_lines 21st-Feb-2013 04:31 pm (UTC)
I highly doubt Taylor cares about that. She cares about how she looks to the public, bashing a Kennedy doesn't help with that.
goldengal1193 21st-Feb-2013 04:30 pm (UTC)
That family has very strong genes. You could probably go back to the 1800s, and they'd still look the same.
sevenbeat 21st-Feb-2013 04:35 pm (UTC)
Yeah, that would look incredibly bad on her.
shinebrighter 21st-Feb-2013 07:25 pm (UTC)
I assumed her album was done before they broke up. I bet he gets some mean songs on the next one.
anchellada 21st-Feb-2013 04:24 pm (UTC)
no jodi arias is
hemsworth 21st-Feb-2013 06:11 pm (UTC)
oh man, that trial is crazy. i've been watching here and there on hln.
slaygalthessily 21st-Feb-2013 06:38 pm (UTC)
isn't that the truth.
spininaround 21st-Feb-2013 04:26 pm (UTC)
No she's not.
shamrocka01 21st-Feb-2013 04:26 pm (UTC)
oh good, we needed another recap of her dating/song history, it's been awhile
jackieblue92 21st-Feb-2013 04:26 pm (UTC)
She needs to fade into oblivion already.
soapboxrhetoric 21st-Feb-2013 04:26 pm (UTC)
i stopped reading after the 5th word in the title because the answer is yes
ghostsaddle 21st-Feb-2013 04:37 pm (UTC)
RIGHT?!
khloekardashian 21st-Feb-2013 05:00 pm (UTC)
hahaha yeah pretty much
judgmental 21st-Feb-2013 05:32 pm (UTC)
mte
annperkins 21st-Feb-2013 05:54 pm (UTC)
lmao accurate
champagnexdream 21st-Feb-2013 06:16 pm (UTC)
Yep.
preciate_ya 21st-Feb-2013 06:38 pm (UTC)
lmao
deltabean 21st-Feb-2013 07:53 pm (UTC)
Ugh
rosewood39 22nd-Feb-2013 12:03 am (UTC)
short answer: hell yes
sweet_honesty 22nd-Feb-2013 01:43 am (UTC)
Oh please. Getting a song written about you is not the worst thing that an ex can do. If your answer is yes, you haven't had bad exes.
soapboxrhetoric 22nd-Feb-2013 01:45 am (UTC)
stopping at the 5th word:
"is taylor swift the worst--"
and then i stopped because yes, she is the worst. period. not even talking about her relationshops she shills out for songwriting.
lanavis 21st-Feb-2013 04:27 pm (UTC)
Yes.
we_eat_coldcuts 21st-Feb-2013 04:27 pm (UTC)
Who really cares, though. All these songs won't make anyone not date these guys and I'm sure they don't really give a shit. It's not like she's made a song called "He's got a small dick" and released it after a breakup. I just wish everyone could just get over it, and maybe she would stop.
poopanna 21st-Feb-2013 04:37 pm (UTC)
LMAO
phillymademe 21st-Feb-2013 04:40 pm (UTC)
lol IA.
supernature_971 21st-Feb-2013 05:04 pm (UTC)
ROFL
chilli_cheese 21st-Feb-2013 05:08 pm (UTC)
lol idgi, people make it as she's bashing these guys when really they're just... breakup songs about breakup-y things. People make them out to be poor victims and shit.
t3pps 21st-Feb-2013 05:17 pm (UTC)
Exactly the. Her "diss" records are so mild. I don't get why people are pressed.
stupidsxyflndrs 21st-Feb-2013 06:00 pm (UTC)
LOL
xandy_candyx 21st-Feb-2013 07:01 pm (UTC)
when she gets over it, then people will too.
autumn1234 22nd-Feb-2013 01:06 am (UTC)
Right? She makes more than she looses with her attitude, so why would she stop?
sweet_honesty 22nd-Feb-2013 01:44 am (UTC)
People need to stop getting so mad about Taylor. Her haters are getting more annoying then her.
deceitful 21st-Feb-2013 04:27 pm (UTC)
Why people choose her to single out and pick on out of every other performer that does the same thing is pretty strange. John Mayer talks about how wild and crazy Jessica Simpson is in bed yet he feels like shit when he basically gets called an ass? Spare me.
liberateourtime 21st-Feb-2013 04:30 pm (UTC)
for men, it's bragging
for women, it's whining
distant_lines 21st-Feb-2013 04:32 pm (UTC)
But who actually likes John Mayer? No one seems to be applauding him for all the dirt he spills about his exes.
deceitful 21st-Feb-2013 04:36 pm (UTC)
Maybe so but I also don't see people making lists about his exes like this or many others like him either.
sastra_fuss 21st-Feb-2013 04:44 pm (UTC)
Katy Perry
drunkagron 21st-Feb-2013 06:29 pm (UTC)
I know guys who "applaud" him for all the women he slept with. Ugh:
honey_fuggle 21st-Feb-2013 04:39 pm (UTC)
i'm sorry but i'll never take john or taylor seriously for that one. she was 19, he was 30 something...and he's john mayer. what did she expect?
degele 21st-Feb-2013 04:43 pm (UTC)
well if it makes you feel any better, i hate john mayer (and adam levine) for talking about their exes. i hate it when people talk about their exes in general anyway, i think it's so tacky and says more about them than their ex.
croutonochrist 21st-Feb-2013 05:00 pm (UTC)
LOL, NOBODY likes John Mayer. And I don't remember anyone defending him when, or letting him have a pass, when he said all that about Jessica. It was the same when Wilmer Valdarama said all that disgusting, invasive shit about all of his famous ex-girlfriends.
hipsterplease 21st-Feb-2013 05:06 pm (UTC)
lol at everyone saying "nobody likes john mayer!!!" but i don't see 828900970 articles about him, not even people making ~jokes about him
snnat17 21st-Feb-2013 05:51 pm (UTC)
Sure other artists talk about their personal lives in their music, whether they wrote the songs (John Meyer, Adam Levine) or not (Rihanna) but they all don't make it a point to address it after the fact. She makes it obvious who she's talking about when she thinks its not obvious and that's why I hate Taylor Swift. Like what that whole skit in the middle of her performance necessary? No..just sing the song and don't add fuel to the fire. Maybe if she didn't date all these famous guys then we wouldn't be getting articles like this. I find her music very annoying too, it's the same shit over and over.
hahahey 21st-Feb-2013 06:03 pm (UTC)
I don't get this. Is John Mayer promoting something? The only reason Taylor's getting so many articles about her is because she's doing promo and performing, and so she's in the press right now. Plus she's repeating the same shtick that she always does with her ex boyfriends, of course it'll be a topic of discussion
pixiegerms 21st-Feb-2013 07:10 pm (UTC)
i don't get it either. and yet adele is praised like a damn god on ontd.
warsawed 21st-Feb-2013 04:28 pm (UTC)
boring topic tbh
liberateourtime 21st-Feb-2013 04:28 pm (UTC)
idk man she writes what she knows what's the big deal
jennyfinnly 21st-Feb-2013 04:28 pm (UTC)
nope, cuz i don't think she really "dated" any of her alleged suitors
feelgooderies 21st-Feb-2013 05:12 pm (UTC)
The only one I even come close to believing is Joe Jonas, and even that one is a stretch.
jennyfinnly 21st-Feb-2013 05:18 pm (UTC)
i think it's all an act and a smart one $$

she's keeping her real boo all to herself
limberwolf 21st-Feb-2013 05:49 pm (UTC)
really? that relationship seemed really beardy to me
rainbowren 21st-Feb-2013 04:28 pm (UTC)
Ugh, no she isn't. And honestly, I'm getting kind of tired of the slut-shaming and borderline sexist comments. I'm not exactly a fan, but this is getting real tired.
thecanuckian 21st-Feb-2013 04:33 pm (UTC)
mte taylor rly needs 2 stop w/ the slut shaming imo
judgmental 21st-Feb-2013 05:34 pm (UTC)
ia tbh
latexana 21st-Feb-2013 05:38 pm (UTC)
dude, how come you're one of the top commenters?
xandy_candyx 21st-Feb-2013 07:04 pm (UTC)
yeah
joy2you_me 21st-Feb-2013 04:37 pm (UTC)
I'm starting to feel this way as well. It's tiresome now.
anolinde 21st-Feb-2013 06:50 pm (UTC)
I agree. I'm so sick of articles like this. The "maybe you're the problem" jokes were funny the first time around, but now it's just like, y'all need to find another angle.
deltabean 21st-Feb-2013 07:59 pm (UTC)
ia
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