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4:58 pm - 02/18/2013

How My Mad Fat Diary Reduced Mental Health Stigma

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When I first saw the adverts for My Mad Fat Diary and Derek I was extremely dubious about the pair of them. My Mad Fat Diary was advertised as a programme much like Skins but with a 'mad fat' girl as the main character. Derek was advertised as Ricky Gervais almost dribbling his chin reached out so far and Karl Pilkington in a wig. Both of these programmes could have gone either way when it came to the tough issue of mental health and I was worried they would be another clueless shot at trying to make this topic light hearted.

I was all ready to make a disapproving post about the both of them, telling the world that they shouldn't look at mental health disorders in that light. Imagine my surprise when I found myself enjoying both of the programmes and relating to parts from each.

Firstly, My Mad Fat Diary, of which the final episode airs on Monday 18 February . We have followed Rae Earl (Sharon Rooney) from her leaving the psychiatric ward she had spent three months in and trying to get on with her life as a 16 year old in the 90s. I'll quickly touch on the soundtrack as anyone that lived through the 90s will enjoy the upbeat hits from Prodigy and the way Radiohead sneaks in when Rae is going through tougher moments in her life. The music just helps to set the scene for this rollercoaster of emotions which is partly due to her mental health disorder, partly due to her being overweight and partly just because she is a 16 year old girl trying to get on with her life. One of the most spectacular characters is Kester (Ian Hart), her counsellor, who cleverly touches on Rae's instability away from her friends and family. You also have her best friend from the hospital Tix (Sophie Wright), who clearly suffers from an eating disorder of some kind and whose story was beautifully covered in the last episode, to tie in nicely with Eating Disorders Awareness Week. What makes this programme even more special is that Rae Earl is a real person (she is, I've spoken to her on Twitter) and these are her stories that she felt brave enough to tell the world. The team behind the show such as the wonderful Tom Bidwell and E4 itself should be extremely proud that they have managed to bring this woman's teenage years to life on screen.

Next we move onto Derek which even my boyfriend eyed at with suspicion when we saw the advertisements. The way Ricky Gervais carried himself, stuck his chin out in an unbearable gurn and even Karl Pilkington's hair made us both wonder if this was going to be some long drawn out joke on mental health sufferers. Although only two episodes in so far (all could go wrong) I have to say that I am pleasantly surprised with the way Ricky, Karl and the team have handled such a difficult subject. Instead of focusing on Derek's possible disorder in the programme it is looked over as if there is no problem at all; he is just a normal, nice bloke. In fact, when Derek was questioned by a suited council official as to whether he had been tested for autism his answer bought a tear to my eye. "Will it [autism] kill me? Will it change me at all? (No) Well don't worry about it then". Add Derek's pure soul with Karl Pilkington being Karl Pilkington and a stunning performance from Kerry Godliman for a television treat that will soften even the hardest of hearts.

Both of these television programmes have managed to talk about mental health in such a brilliant way that I feel there should be more like it. The younger generation that watch shows such as My Mad Fat Diary could find themselves relating to things Rae goes through or perhaps even Tix. Knowing that these issues can lead onto bigger problems can be a great preventative measure for young people with eating disorders or other mental health problems. Rae is just a 16 year old girl like any other who wants to be normal and enjoy her teenage years. I'm sure a lot of women (and men) could relate to that in their younger years or even now. Then you have Derek which touches upon the subject differently but still helps to eradicate that stigma. Nobody treats Derek any differently and Derek doesn't see himself as any different. A lot can be learnt from the way that Ricky Gervais has broached this subject and so he should be extremely 'chuffed' with himself. Hopefully these programmes will help those who don't understand see that mental health disorders can manifest themselves in anybody, sometimes without any reason whatsoever. It can also help those suffering realise that they are not alone and should not be ashamed to talk about what they deal with. Look at the real Rae Earl, writing a book of her experiences and then having it turned into a television programme. Now that is brave.

SOURCE

Finale live steam: http://www.stream2watch.me/live-tv/e4-live-stream
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catelyn_tully 18th-Feb-2013 10:02 pm (UTC)
Skins was so horrible about glamourising mental illness :(
untxi 18th-Feb-2013 10:05 pm (UTC)
Glamourising? How exactly? Because the protagonist looked pretty?
catelyn_tully 18th-Feb-2013 10:07 pm (UTC)
IMO Cassie and Effy are always shown to be very ~lightly~ ill and it makes it seem fun!!! and carefree!!!
hera_bearrra 18th-Feb-2013 10:12 pm (UTC)
Tumblr definitely romanticizes it
winniechili 18th-Feb-2013 10:13 pm (UTC)
I don't think the show did that, I think the fans of the show did that.
hershelwalker 19th-Feb-2013 12:15 am (UTC)
idk, I thought they portrayed depression pretty accurately with effie. though I can see why it would seem glamorized due to the fact that her character had already been established as an obnoxious manic pixie dream girl
tundrabeast 19th-Feb-2013 12:48 am (UTC)
Cassie glamorised anorexia in a big way imo and it was one of the things that turned me off the show so much.
soavantgarde 18th-Feb-2013 10:03 pm (UTC)
discussion post? discussion post!
tankmachine 18th-Feb-2013 10:04 pm (UTC)
i need to start watching this
misoras 18th-Feb-2013 10:15 pm (UTC)
anglophile
tankmachine 18th-Feb-2013 10:16 pm (UTC)
ew don't call me that
fabouluz 18th-Feb-2013 10:06 pm (UTC)
Couldnt get past episode 2
steph_monster 18th-Feb-2013 10:11 pm (UTC)
Oh :(

If you ever feel like watching again, it definitely improves.
deja_vu822 18th-Feb-2013 10:06 pm (UTC)
hold up, Karl Pilkington is in this???
whossoulsister 18th-Feb-2013 10:10 pm (UTC)
no, he's in derek.
drewy88 18th-Feb-2013 10:10 pm (UTC)
I love this show sfm ;_; I can't @ only 6 epis this season
soavantgarde 18th-Feb-2013 10:11 pm (UTC)
the music on this show is so good
eerilybeloved 18th-Feb-2013 10:11 pm (UTC)
Man, ONTD is going hard for this show.

I keep forgetting to find a stream for the first ep.
steph_monster 18th-Feb-2013 10:12 pm (UTC)
YOUTUBE.
eerilybeloved 18th-Feb-2013 10:22 pm (UTC)
Aw, thanks. I usually never think to look there anymore since youtube is such a spoil sport these days about deleting vids.
kanyesus 18th-Feb-2013 10:15 pm (UTC)
youtube has the first five eps in full and hd (:
georgie_georgie 18th-Feb-2013 11:37 pm (UTC)
I didn't even realize this was a real show till now.
misoras 18th-Feb-2013 10:14 pm (UTC)
can this show just get OFF my lawn
biene 18th-Feb-2013 10:15 pm (UTC)
geuinely want to knock Chloe out rn
soavantgarde 18th-Feb-2013 10:17 pm (UTC)
yeah I usually try to see her as not that bad of a person but she's really got no right to be angry when she snooped through someone else's diary

and she has no right to tell rae who and who she should 'stay away from' >:(
biene 18th-Feb-2013 10:20 pm (UTC)
that really annoyed me when she said that!
she has no right to tell her to back off from finn!
leviicorpus 18th-Feb-2013 10:20 pm (UTC)
Seriously, I can't fucking stand her. In the beginning she annoyed me, but I didn't hate her. After last week's episode, however...
eaglefan2011 18th-Feb-2013 10:23 pm (UTC)
same
hera_bearrra 18th-Feb-2013 11:02 pm (UTC)
I kind of like her
tobesurrounded 18th-Feb-2013 11:12 pm (UTC)
eh, i like her. i think she's very insecure and realistic. typical teenage girl.
knockelles 18th-Feb-2013 11:17 pm (UTC)
I like her lol :( Reminds me how catty and immature girls at 16 can be (I definitely was guilty of some of it..)
biene 18th-Feb-2013 10:19 pm (UTC)
WHAT THE FUCK
sunktheglow 18th-Feb-2013 10:24 pm (UTC)
Just started watching Diary today per the ONTD raves. It's actually really divine.
luvthatdrtywata 18th-Feb-2013 10:30 pm (UTC)
it's one of the few brit shows that genuinely not overhyped. the obsession is completely warranted.
sunktheglow 18th-Feb-2013 10:41 pm (UTC)
I really thought it would be when I started to watch it, but I'm an episode in and I'm addicted.
bollyhood 18th-Feb-2013 10:30 pm (UTC)
WATCH UTOPIA WATCH UTOPIA
bollyhood 18th-Feb-2013 10:30 pm (UTC)
Its made me worse, its brought everything back. However thats just me and it is a great show and Sharon deserves all the awards.
biene 18th-Feb-2013 10:31 pm (UTC)
it's great but i agree it's bringing back stuff for me
bollyhood 18th-Feb-2013 11:02 pm (UTC)
MTE. I'll still watch so i take responsibility for that but truth be told i'm glad it was only 6 eps.
whataboutdasha 18th-Feb-2013 11:40 pm (UTC)
Same. Last week was shit and watching this just made me feel so shitty. But yeah it's my fault for watching it.
myhipusername 19th-Feb-2013 12:44 am (UTC)
same

i watched the first episode on friday and felt really shitty afterwards because i could relate to the self-hating
pretend_to_care 19th-Feb-2013 02:36 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry you had that reaction, but I am really glad you posted this comment because I am glad I am not alone. Everyone seems to have a hard-on for this show, but I basically was Rae when I was 15/16, so this show was making me feel and relive some really bad shit. I am going to try to keep watching because I believe there is something beautiful about the show, but I really don't want to relapse and go back to feeling the way I used to because of a show.
crookedrain 18th-Feb-2013 10:31 pm (UTC)
Who else is watching the finale now?
biene 18th-Feb-2013 10:31 pm (UTC)
me and i feel i will cry at some point
kanyesus 18th-Feb-2013 10:32 pm (UTC)
me
eaglefan2011 18th-Feb-2013 10:34 pm (UTC)
me
gendrys 18th-Feb-2013 10:32 pm (UTC)
i wanted to see finn by rae's bedside GDI TIX
crookedrain 18th-Feb-2013 10:36 pm (UTC)
ikr, I got so excited
myhipusername 19th-Feb-2013 12:49 am (UTC)
your icon is GORGEOUS omw
gendrys 19th-Feb-2013 12:53 am (UTC)
tysm
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