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Me and this guy started out as friends with benefits, or at least thats what I was calling it because I am terrified of commitment and hate relationship stuff, but he wanted more. Anyways I kept telling him that I hate relationship stuff but we continue to go on dates. I really like him now, and realized that maybe I do want to date him, but every time I call or text to get together he never replies. I really hope I didn't fuck it up with my cynical little black heart.
what scares you about commitment? just trying to get an understanding of why people freak out about it. as i'm trying to decide whether or not to move on from my "fwb" for the last 3 years because i want a relationship and he acts like we're in one but won't cop to it. sorry i didn't give advice
I'm not a people person, as social interaction besides sex or something that benefits me tends to get boring. I also like the ability to come and go as I please and to see other people if the off chance something better comes along, something that I can't do in a committed relationship. In simpler terms, I dislike commitment because I am a selfish bitch.
Whatever else may happen, guys will never stop wanting to have sex with you. He'll talk to you again eventually. I have to say though, if you're finally offering him what he always wanted and now he's not interested, he might not have been into dating to begin with. He might have pushed it just because he knew you'd say no. So now he's going around acting rejecting and building his "nice guy" persona. It's a thing that happens.
milkradioRe: Who else is snowed in? — 9th-Feb-2013 02:41 am (UTC)
Me, basically. Our street is a mess, but once you get out onto the main roads, it's not so bad. It just kinda sucks that I spent an hour shoveling the driveway alone today only to walk back to my front door and see it's covered again. h8 canadian weather rn.
I've applied for over 16 jobs in the past couple of weeks. I heard back from one company but I'm not going to take it. It's an hour out of my way, they're only paying me $10 an hour, a majority of my job would be dropping off and picking up equipment (computers, cameras, speakers, etc.,) I'd work for 8 hours, M-F (which I'm fine with) but they want a 12 month commitment from me. I don't think so.
I was so fed up that I went on Yelp! and searched for all of the video/film production companies in my area and emailed them if they had any openings. One got back and said no but that I could drop off my resume. I really hope something works out soon.
Doing that can actually yield better results. Or even find someone and ask to take them out for coffee to pick their brains about the biz. That kind of connection can lead to a job.
Me and this guy started out as friends with benefits, or at least thats what I was calling it because I am terrified of commitment and hate relationship stuff, but he wanted more. Anyways I kept telling him that I hate relationship stuff but we continue to go on dates. I really like him now, and realized that maybe I do want to date him, but every time I call or text to get together he never replies.
I really hope I didn't fuck it up with my cynical little black heart.
But now that you figured it out. you need to tell him. fuck that shit and find him and tell him in some romantic gesture.
I was so fed up that I went on Yelp! and searched for all of the video/film production companies in my area and emailed them if they had any openings. One got back and said no but that I could drop off my resume. I really hope something works out soon.
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Edited at 2013-02-09 12:09 am (UTC)