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10:04 am - 02/07/2013

megan phelps has left the westboro batshit "church"



“There's no fresh start in today's world. Any twelve-year-old with a cell phone could find out what you did. Everything we do is collated and quantified. Everything sticks.”

Don’t act surprised that I’m quoting Batman. At WBC, reciting lines from pop culture is par for the course. And why not? The sentiments they express are readily identifiable by the masses – and shifting their meaning is as easy as giving them new context. So put Selina Kyle’s words in a different framework:

In a city in a state in the center of a country lives a group of people who believe they are the center of the universe; they know Right and Wrong, and they are Right. They work hard and go to school and get married and have kids who they take to church and teach that continually protesting the lives, deaths, and daily activities of The World is the only genuine statement of compassion that a God-loving human can sincerely make. As parents, they are attentive and engaged, and the children learn their lessons well.

This is my framework.

Until very recently, this is what I lived, breathed, studied, believed, preached – loudly, daily, and for nearly 27 years.

I never thought it would change. I never wanted it to.

Then suddenly: it did.

And I left.

Where do you go from there?

I don't know, exactly. My sister Grace is with me, though. We’re trying to figure it out together.

There are some things we do know.

We know that we’ve done and said things that hurt people. Inflicting pain on others wasn’t the goal, but it was one of the outcomes. We wish it weren’t so, and regret that hurt.

We know that we dearly love our family. They now consider us betrayers, and we are cut off from their lives, but we know they are well-intentioned. We will never not love them.

We know that we can’t undo our whole lives. We can’t even say we’d want to if we could; we are who we are because of all the experiences that brought us to this point. What we can do is try to find a better way to live from here on. That’s our focus.

Up until now, our names have been synonymous with “God Hates Fags.” Any twelve-year-old with a cell phone could find out what we did. We hope Ms. Kyle was right about the other part, too, though – that everything sticks – and that the changes we make in our lives will speak for themselves.

Megan and Grace

source: https://medium.com/turning-points/83d2ef8ba4f5

good for her, hopefully this is a sign of the end.
lestat 6th-Feb-2013 11:50 pm (UTC)
...really.
brucelynn 6th-Feb-2013 11:51 pm (UTC)
I don't know who this person is
lestat 6th-Feb-2013 11:51 pm (UTC)
is that that hard to google or read a few sentences?
brucelynn 6th-Feb-2013 11:52 pm (UTC)
I am sorry that I don't keep up with WBC bullshit because they disguist me

I have never heard of a Megan Phelps
lestat 6th-Feb-2013 11:54 pm (UTC)
neither do i but come the fuck on
brucelynn 6th-Feb-2013 11:55 pm (UTC)
Come on for not knowing who this person is ?

homicidalslayer 6th-Feb-2013 11:58 pm (UTC)
If she's associated with the WBC and her last name is "Phelps," is it really that difficult to figure out she's a member of the church's world-famous founding family?
brucelynn 7th-Feb-2013 12:00 am (UTC)
I didn't even know that there was a " founding family " by that name tbh

I don't look that deep into the church , all I know is that they picket things
emofordino 7th-Feb-2013 02:14 am (UTC)
WBC is basically ALL the phelps family. i think there's only like, 20-30 of them.
interrobamf 6th-Feb-2013 11:58 pm (UTC)
There isn't really any context needed that isn't obvious. Somebody left the WBC; it doesn't really matter who.
brucelynn 7th-Feb-2013 12:01 am (UTC)
Okay but people are acting like I stabbed a puppy just because I don't know who the fuck this person is

hollis1975 7th-Feb-2013 12:07 am (UTC)
actually what i think set some people off was that you couldnt take 90 seconds out of your life and read that article and then come in and want to be spoon fed the article
brucelynn 7th-Feb-2013 12:10 am (UTC)
They can't talk

because like I said people on ONTD don't read shit and they are often guilty of those things

also I did read the article ( which was an eyesore ) but I had no idea who this person was until like 2 minutes ago so I had no idea what was going on

I never heard of this asshole
lestat 7th-Feb-2013 12:15 am (UTC)
thank you
grammaire 7th-Feb-2013 12:08 am (UTC)
People are just annoyed that you bothered to comment in the first place when you didn't even try to understand what was going on.
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