ONTD

9:53 pm - 01/30/2013

To some extent, we've all done it.

Catfish Lite: Don’t Pretend You’ve Never Lied Online



Lately, the concept of "catfishing" — luring someone into an online relationship by pretending to be someone that you're not — has been surrounded by its fair share of controversy, but how controversial is it in actuality? Believe it or not, a little controlled catfishing is something that plenty of the Instant Message generation has experimented with, even if we're unwilling to admit it. Really, who hasn't tried to escape their reality by pretending to be a 17-year-old varsity baseball player in an N*SYNC chat room every now and then?

This morning's Today Show featured a segment from Dr. Phil McGraw's upcoming interview with Ronaiah Tuiasosopo. Tuiasosopo, for those of you at home, is the 22-year-old man who became a household name after being exposed by Deadspin as the man behind Lennay Kekua, the fake dead girlfriend of Notre Dame football player Manti Te'o. Tuiasosopo, who used photos of a stranger to woo Te'o online, confessed to Dr. Phil that, while Lennay Kekua was a lie, all of "her" (his) feelings were very real.

McGraw tells Today:

Here we have a young man that fell deeply, romantically in love. I asked him straight up, "Was this a romantic relationship with you?" And he says yes. I said, "Are you then therefore gay?" And he said, "When you put it that way, yes." And then he caught himself and said, "I am confused."

I still don't believe he was the voice on the voicemailCollapse )

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johnjie 31st-Jan-2013 05:08 am (UTC)
I just used to click 'yes' on sites where it asked you if you were over 14/16/18/whatever age

Mostly fanfic websites and a few lj communities/posts
baboona 31st-Jan-2013 05:08 am (UTC)
remember when msn had to warn you not to disclose your credit card number
hope_remains 31st-Jan-2013 05:09 am (UTC)
when I got catfished, I met the person in an AOL harry potter chatroom where they were RPing as Draco. it was this ~gorgeous and mysterious~ gay man and his whole group of gorgeous gay friends, but it turned out to all be one girl. she had different screen names for each one and used DeadAIM so she could be signed into multiple accounts at once. we would literally have group chats where she would be multiple people. she had a bunch of different fake voices on the phone and I bought it all because I was like 14 or 15 but after a while I started to suspect. after like a year, she got outed and we never really spoke again.
sarahfer 31st-Jan-2013 05:26 am (UTC)
LOL in the days before I realised there was such a thing as IP logging I pretended to be 4 or 5 different people on this lame music forum. If I posted something and no one replied in a timely manner I'd use another account to have a convo w/ myself, haha.

I remember being banned and not knowing why.
fwee_prower 31st-Jan-2013 05:43 am (UTC)
Omg dead aim
saintssin 31st-Jan-2013 05:10 am (UTC)
A Brazilian woman has been accused of trying to kill her husband by putting poison in her vagina and asking him to have oral sex with her.

The intended victim — identified only as a 43-year-old man from Sao de Jose Rio Preto – knew something was going on when he noticed an unfamiliar odor coming from his wife’s freshly poisoned nether region.

But here’s the thing about vaginas, as this woman soon learned: They are very porous.

Realizing that his wife was probably absorbing a majority of the poison she had intended to kill him with, he brought her to the hospital and saved her life.

This guy! He is totally down to perform oral sex 24/7 and will generously rush you to the emergency room after you try to kill him. And they say chivalry is dead!

But he is nobody’s fool: Sources reveal the man intends to sue his wife for attempted murder.
yurasama_love 31st-Jan-2013 05:29 am (UTC)
You can get drunk faster by putting the alcohol up your bum than by drinking it.
saintssin 31st-Jan-2013 05:35 am (UTC)
I'm not ready for that kind of commitment.
citiesburning 31st-Jan-2013 06:20 am (UTC)
wait ...is this real?
awkwardmumbles 31st-Jan-2013 05:11 am (UTC)
the harry potter message boards on warner bros.com are still as awkward as i left them when i was 13

"i walk into the common room. i sit down. i pull out my potions book and study. ron walks in and kisses me. 'oh hi darling' "
hershelwalker 31st-Jan-2013 05:15 am (UTC)
lol irl
markthatcoin 1st-Feb-2013 04:36 pm (UTC)
lol i didn't even know those existed. i'm so old i left the hp fandom when it was still on msn communities O.O
mana_runigha 31st-Jan-2013 05:13 am (UTC)
I'm curious ONTD. Have any of you responded to a "personal" ad on craigslist?

I'll admit, there was a time after shortly getting my heartbroken I perused the personals and just seeing what was out there. But then I saw some of the crazy stuff like one guy just wanting to get you pregnant, but he didn't want any responsibility for the kid afterwards (He had a picture and it was eww). There's also the "let's start out as fuck buddies and then begin a relationship" guys....And the "just platonic" cuddlers, oh man, one of them uploaded his picture and I was like NOPE YOU WANT MORE THAN CUDDLING!!!
raised_eyebrows 31st-Jan-2013 05:16 am (UTC)
I've never responded, but I read them pretty regularly. It's like people watching to me; kind of voyeuristic.

The saddest one I saw was an ad that a 70+ year old man's neighbor lady put up for him saying that he was really nice and sweet, but was lonely after his wife passed or something like that. Broke my heart.
mana_runigha 31st-Jan-2013 05:18 am (UTC)
Awww, that was like my grandpa after my grandma passed away ;_;
kurtvonnegut 31st-Jan-2013 05:19 am (UTC)
i do the same thing but i do it to read the nice guys' manifestos about how women are awful and then at the end they want you to message him
kurtvonnegut 31st-Jan-2013 05:18 am (UTC)
lol i've definitely trolled craigslist before and posted ads to call out and make up fun of some guys' particularly awful ads but i've never replied to one.
x_brittacular 31st-Jan-2013 05:20 am (UTC)
Yeah, there's a guy who literally posts every day. I replied and told him to stop being so thirsty. I used to posts troll ads just to see who'd respond and recognized one of the guy's from elementary school.
ashtraysoul 31st-Jan-2013 05:44 am (UTC)
omg this comment has made me go through the ads and I'm soo torn between crying and trolling
volcompunk58 31st-Jan-2013 06:23 am (UTC)
I did twice. One of the guys ended up being one of my friends down the road. We would randomly see each other at concerts and bars but we never ever hooked up. The only thing we ever did remotely together was drink beers and watch borat at his house. The other guy we dated for 3 months but he couldn't get it up and he had issues with that so he ended up disappearing. I liked him but it wasn't obviously working out haha.
shoutingasong 31st-Jan-2013 07:06 am (UTC)
Whenever I'm bored I browse the personals for the crazy people... But there's one guy that posts two-three times a week looking for "Alisha from Forever 21 at the Great Mall"
and they're always super creepy! Like "hey girl, you look so fine. I wanna talk to you/Kiss you/feel you. But how?"

... And I conveniently found one just now.
awkwardmumbles 31st-Jan-2013 05:14 am (UTC)
chimbleysweep 31st-Jan-2013 05:17 am (UTC)
I feel like I'm dying.

I need the support of my kayaking buddies right now.
zness 31st-Jan-2013 07:22 pm (UTC)
LOL
rainaweather 31st-Jan-2013 05:29 am (UTC)
I feel like I'm a person who has never used the internet and I've just discovered a new world is possible.
arrowtoes 31st-Jan-2013 05:43 am (UTC)
why did all the ads in the 90's feel like a precursor to softcore porn
drunkagron 31st-Jan-2013 06:12 am (UTC)
dial-up tho lol
moustacherider 31st-Jan-2013 05:15 am (UTC)
I feel like I'm missing out with all of you talking about AOL Chatrooms and shit

I never used it (maybe because I was in Australia?) - all I did was look up pictures of the backstreet boys. So many shitty geocities fansites omg
partys_crashing 31st-Jan-2013 06:20 am (UTC)
angelfire as well yo
fancycarousel 31st-Jan-2013 05:16 am (UTC)
i spent a lot of time in omegle chatting with horny creatures.

21/f/ny
awkwardmumbles i need to leave this post now 31st-Jan-2013 05:18 am (UTC)
sometimes i get sad because i haven't fed my blumaroo in years :[ i forgot the login and password
superpchan 31st-Jan-2013 05:20 am (UTC)
When someone says ASL, I always think of "age/sex/location" first.
partys_crashing 31st-Jan-2013 06:20 am (UTC)
what else does it mean tho?
superpchan 31st-Jan-2013 06:21 am (UTC)
American Sign Language?
superhyphy 31st-Jan-2013 05:22 am (UTC)
i lied about so much bullshit when i was a kid it's incredible
superhyphy 31st-Jan-2013 05:24 am (UTC)
i pretended to like limp bizkit to fit in in one of the kids aol chatrooms

i also pretended to like *nsync and some girl was like "so whos your favorite member who do you think sings best???" i frantically searched for their names and i just picked one at random. "uuuuhhh JC!!!"
josh_the_k 31st-Jan-2013 05:24 am (UTC)
OK. No more lying. Here's what I really look like:

hope_remains 31st-Jan-2013 05:43 am (UTC)
JESUS CHRIST

YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF






WHY IS YOUR COMPUTER SO OUTDATED?!
ellecain 31st-Jan-2013 05:46 am (UTC)
lmao
fwee_prower 31st-Jan-2013 05:48 am (UTC)
My heart is broken.
calderone9 31st-Jan-2013 11:13 pm (UTC)
I wonder how this guy gets through that bathroom door...
mistyraven 31st-Jan-2013 05:28 am (UTC)
My dad explicitly forbade us from revealing any real information about ourselves, even our names. This was back in the late 90s and I was 9 or 10.

I remember I ended up in one chatroom posing as an 18-year-old... at the time I thought I was really mature but looking back it was more likely that the other people in those chatrooms were either really immature or also lying-ass preteens.
devon_carrots 31st-Jan-2013 05:28 am (UTC)
is there anyone with a public twitter account and likes pokemon here?
partys_crashing 31st-Jan-2013 06:21 am (UTC)
lucario is my fave
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