5:58 pm - 01/30/2013

On Lena Dunham and the backlash against "Girls": "I absolutely love Lena Dunham. I don’t know her personally, but I’m completely obsessed with the show.
I cannot believe what she has accomplished at 26. I think she is like our new Woody Allen. That’s how highly I think of her. I have to say I was not the least bit surprised by the backlash that she has encountered. Because any time you’re a woman who dares to be unconventional, outspoken, sexual -- I mean, she’s taking her shirt off every week, God bless her -- of course people are gonna bitch about it.
People cannot process the fact that a woman could be sexual and funny and brilliant and sensitive and flawed and beautiful and all of those things. Women are used to being put in boxes and compartmentalized.
People are more comfortable when we stay in our box. And Lena Dunham is jumping from box to box all the time. I hope that she’s enjoying herself. I find myself feeling very protective when I read about her because I went through an experience like that in my 20s. I went through exactly what she’s going through, except I wasn’t a huge TV star -- that’s gotta add to it.
But I think to myself, 'God, I hope she’s enjoying this time and appreciating it and not just sitting at home grinding her teeth about the criticism.'"
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Diablo Cody Thinks Lena Dunham Is 'Our New Woody Allen'

On Lena Dunham and the backlash against "Girls": "I absolutely love Lena Dunham. I don’t know her personally, but I’m completely obsessed with the show.
I cannot believe what she has accomplished at 26. I think she is like our new Woody Allen. That’s how highly I think of her. I have to say I was not the least bit surprised by the backlash that she has encountered. Because any time you’re a woman who dares to be unconventional, outspoken, sexual -- I mean, she’s taking her shirt off every week, God bless her -- of course people are gonna bitch about it.
People cannot process the fact that a woman could be sexual and funny and brilliant and sensitive and flawed and beautiful and all of those things. Women are used to being put in boxes and compartmentalized.
People are more comfortable when we stay in our box. And Lena Dunham is jumping from box to box all the time. I hope that she’s enjoying herself. I find myself feeling very protective when I read about her because I went through an experience like that in my 20s. I went through exactly what she’s going through, except I wasn’t a huge TV star -- that’s gotta add to it.
But I think to myself, 'God, I hope she’s enjoying this time and appreciating it and not just sitting at home grinding her teeth about the criticism.'"
Source (with the rest of the interview)
And really, if you think that it's just a matter of ~lol don't get pregnant~, ie ~just don't have sex haha~ ie ~here's a double standard that has been a source of oppression for women for centuries that I'm upholding lololol~ I don't see why you're defending feminist victories of any period outside the 19th century. You don't like the feminism of now or yesterday. You think it is okay for people to be structurally unequal because of biological characteristics. Good for you.
Any thoughts on binding nondisclosure? It's a damn big business, and it refutes plenty of myths about how anyone who touches a woman wrong gets their ass hauled to court.
Edited at 2013-01-31 04:32 am (UTC)
Not what I was saying at all. Hospital expenses for your unnecessary and willfully chose actions should not be provided by the state or anyone else besides you. Pregnancy is unnecessary and chosen. Women can terminate a pregnancy if she wishes.
"Whether women are denied those positions based on sex is beside the point"
No it isn't. If the reason why women are not in those positions is not due to their sex (but instead due to women not pursuing them or pursuing a dif career) it is not sexist and, ergo, is irrelevant in a convo about women's rights.
"There has been no point in the history of the United States where women have held majority structural power over men, so to argue that a structural inequity that has been in place since The Beginning is unrelated to sex is absurd. "
Not absurd. No structural sexism has been upheld since the Beginning of what I assume you mean human culture. A reason (not every reason; this is an example) for why women were not in formal power is b/c formal power holds more risks while informal power as the supporter of the man and not the supported provides a safety that many women (and men) would prefer.
And no, pregnancy termination is not so easy in many states, unless the woman has money or wants to go back alley.
No it isn't. If the reason why women are not in those positions is not due to their sex (but instead due to women not pursuing them or pursuing a dif career) it is not sexist and, ergo, is irrelevant in a convo about women's rights.
As I've already laid out for you, the issue is not as black and white as that. What's on paper and what's going on in practice are often two different things. I can provide examples of this if you want, as history and the modern era have given women and other minorities many from which to choose, but you also might say that that's just common sense, naive one.
A reason (not every reason; this is an example) for why women were not in formal power is b/c formal power holds more risks while informal power as the supporter of the man and not the supported provides a safety that many women (and men) would prefer.
Is this more common sense? I believe it was Thomas Jefferson who wrote that women lack political rights because they're just too smart to want to get involved. That was some nice common sense. As soon as big business stops doing everything in their considerable legal power to obfuscate their workplace practices and policies I might find such an argument persuasive. Until then, I'm content to err on the side of power hungry boys club mentality didn't just fizzle out over night.
You mean that agreement that can and does affect both sexes? I see no issue with it in certain situations, but see issue with it in others.