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8:59 am - 01/30/2013

Rihanna on Chris Brown: 'We Know Exactly What We Have Now'

'Even if it's a mistake, it's my mistake,' the pop star tells Rolling Stone



Rihanna has opened up like never before about getting back together with her ex-boyfriend, Chris Brown, and what it means for her public image. "I decided it was more important for me to be happy," she tells contributing editor Josh Eells in the new issue of Rolling Stone, out Friday, January 31st. "I wasn't going to let anybody's opinion get in the way of that. Even if it's a mistake, it's my mistake. After being tormented for so many years, being angry and dark, I'd rather just live my truth and take the backlash. I can handle it."

The couple's public reconciliation comes less than four years since Brown assaulted Rihanna the night before the 2009 Grammy Awards. Brown plead guilty to assault and performed community service, but he remains on probation. "When you add up the pieces from the outside, it's not the cutest puzzle in the world," Rihanna says. "You see us walking somewhere, driving somewhere, in the studio, in the club, and you think you know. But it's different now. We don't have those types of arguments anymore. We talk about shit. We value each other. We know exactly what we have now, and we don't want to lose that."

And Rihanna says that if Brown were ever to display a hint of his past behavior towards her, she is ready to walk. "He doesn't have the luxury of fucking up again," she says. "That's just not an option. I can't say that nothing else will ever go wrong. But I'm pretty solid in the knowing that he's disgusted by that. And I wouldn't have gone this far if I ever thought that was a possibility."

Rolling Stone
melns 30th-Jan-2013 02:45 pm (UTC)
you have a point
andres01234 30th-Jan-2013 02:47 pm (UTC)
I know my comment wasn't worded right and it came out harsh, so I understand why people started bashing me. But sometimes you're becoming an enabler if you justify everything they do because of the cycle of abuse
old_age 30th-Jan-2013 03:06 pm (UTC)
you are spot on. people play a really hard game here on ONTD and they are incredibly hypocritical and idealistic. what you are saying is the actual, real truth. people who have had addicts and severely emotionally damaged people around them (or are just hip to the actual effects) know this to be true. enabling is a hell of a drug; it sates both parties and firmly ties a blindfold around their eyes. you will eventually lose the person to whatever it is they've become accustomed to by enabling them and always playing the victim card.
warsawed 30th-Jan-2013 03:54 pm (UTC)
the cycle of abuse explanation isn't there to dismiss her behavior, just explain it. people want to shit on her for going back to him, but they need education on why she's doing it in the first place. attacking her isn't going to help anything. in fact its probably perpetuating her behavior further.
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