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2:46 pm - 01/25/2013

Taylor Swift: "Once a relationship is done, it's done"



Taylor Swift and Harry Styles broke up during a Caribbean holiday in early January, with a source close to Swift telling Us Weekly that the split was "definitely going to be for good".

However, when Taylor Swift landed in London on Monday, rumors swirled that she was in town for make-or-break talks with Styles Swift's rep was quick to shoot down the rumors, telling E! News that Swift was staying in a Central London hotel to shoot a magazine cover. Swift herself later confirmed via twitter that she had visited London for a "quick photo shoot".

On Wednesday, Swift flew from London to Madrid. During an television appearance on “El Hormiguero, the singer seemed to allude to the new reunion rumors when discussing her single “We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together”. “I think once a relationship is done, it’s done. You can’t do that back and forth thing. It’s the most exhausting process. Maybe I wrote that song so I would never get back in that relationship! If you write that about it, there is no way you are getting back together!”

Swift, who recently ruled out marrying young, told the Spanish audience: “I think in our twenties, it’s like, ‘Oh, I guess I’ll try hanging out with him, or I’ll try hanging out with him, or I’ll try being single.’ think, for me, I try not to focus on whether there are cameras or what people are gonna say. I think you have to live a life rather than care too much what people think about it.”

However, Radar claims that Swift was "desperate" to meet Styles in London but was "ignored": "He told her he had too much going on, even though she purposely arranged to stay at a hotel that wasn't too far away from his home. Harry found Taylor a little too full-on and scary, and he was put off by how serious she was about him after such a short period of time. Then she had this crazy meltdown, accusing him of cheating, when he didn't. It freaked him out to say the least and he's kind of thinking she's more drama than she's worth. He really isn't looking to settle down with the love of his life, but suspects that Taylor is."
Sources:
http://uk.eonline.com/news/380499/taylor-swift-jets-to-london-no-word-on-any-meetup-with-harry-styles
http://omg.yahoo.com/blogs/celeb-news/taylor-swift-once-relationship-done-done-163741123.html
http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2013/01/taylor-swift-desperate-harry-styles-snubbed-dumped/
http://ohsoswiftly.tumblr.com/post/41392784471/there-a-video-for-this
makahakat 25th-Jan-2013 03:28 pm (UTC)
well if RADAR said so....
anagram42 25th-Jan-2013 03:29 pm (UTC)
You can’t do that back and forth thing. It’s the most exhausting process.

so true, taylor
pikapika217 25th-Jan-2013 09:04 pm (UTC)
isn't she still with AzMarie? or whatever her name is? oh - allegedly
donnanoble 25th-Jan-2013 03:31 pm (UTC)
Well if a TABLOID says she's crazy it must be true!!!!
lestat 25th-Jan-2013 03:32 pm (UTC)
working too hard, op
loving_w 25th-Jan-2013 03:33 pm (UTC)
omg stop it with haylor jesus
smolderhotter 25th-Jan-2013 03:43 pm (UTC)
that gif is adorable
katyperry 25th-Jan-2013 03:45 pm (UTC)
lol.
goldengal1193 25th-Jan-2013 03:46 pm (UTC)
Wow, I actually agree with her here. That back and forth shit is so annoying, once we break up I'm done. And we have to go our separate ways.


I hate it when mother fuckers break up, and then next thing you know it's as if nothing happened. Like, don't fucking complain to me and waste my time talking about this guy when you know next week you guys will get back together. It's the most annoying cycle, more annoying than a menstrual cycle.
calinewarkwc69 25th-Jan-2013 05:17 pm (UTC)
"I hate it when mother fuckers break up, and then next thing you know it's as if nothing happened."

x100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000

deltabean 25th-Jan-2013 06:34 pm (UTC)
Ugh, so true.
slaughtermatic 25th-Jan-2013 08:07 pm (UTC)
You sound like a great friend.
goldengal1193 25th-Jan-2013 08:42 pm (UTC)
Hey, people love that about me.
for_serious13 25th-Jan-2013 08:32 pm (UTC)
so true
in_styles 25th-Jan-2013 10:28 pm (UTC)
Ia, I hate it too. But ngl, I have done it before and have friends who do it, as well.
kidrobot85 26th-Jan-2013 06:22 am (UTC)
omG, so much. i'm not really good with people when they cry, but I did so much effort with one of my good friend who broke up with his girlfriend. it was the 7th time they broke up! I said to him: "look man, I tink you need to not think about her or/and talk to her for at least 2 weeks" and three days laters, they're back together! recently, 3 days ago, she broke up with him. he's still so annoying like, I told you to stop seeing her if she makes you so miserable. I invite him to eat something, talk to me, etc, but I just know they'll be back together... like I don't know why I'm so involve. But he really is miserable when they break up...
like, I still have so much feeling about it as you can see.
goldengal1193 26th-Jan-2013 07:10 pm (UTC)
Omg. I feel for you, I really do. Shit like that kills me.
iamalreadyinuse 25th-Jan-2013 03:49 pm (UTC)
I love her post-relationship interviews. She always gives you a hint as to why it didnt work out.
xanvalleys 25th-Jan-2013 11:21 pm (UTC)
what was the hint here?
iamalreadyinuse 27th-Jan-2013 12:36 am (UTC)
a guy who keeps changing his mind. And loyalty, apparently.
beatlesluv 25th-Jan-2013 03:51 pm (UTC)
I don't think everyone is ready for the same things at the same time. You're in your twenties for a decade and what's good for you is not what's good for me too.

The off and on thing can be problematic, but I guess it's just one of those things that are hard to really go on about. :/
kurtvonnegut 25th-Jan-2013 03:56 pm (UTC)
lol idg why people take her flings so seriously. she's obviously just dating around. people make it a big deal because she hangs out with a guy a few times and they project it into an actual working relationship.
makahakat 25th-Jan-2013 03:58 pm (UTC)
with haylor at least it was prob less about things like them being seen together in the park and more like them staging a billion camera ops going into and walk of shaming from the same hotel lmao
kurtvonnegut 25th-Jan-2013 04:01 pm (UTC)
i'm sure it probably was tbh. but now people are mocking HER as the ~pathetic one~ in that fauxlationship. uh there was a guy willingly involved too. she is not invested in the majority of these guys as people want to believe imo.
makahakat 25th-Jan-2013 04:03 pm (UTC)
oh yeah, agreed haha. that whole thing was a mess, i hope some pr people got fired over it
evawhimsy 25th-Jan-2013 05:32 pm (UTC)
honestly i'm not sure about her lack of investment, i think she really is a die-hard romantic with terrible taste in men (like john mayer wtf).

but as a fan i'm just as convinced her team signs her up for pr relationships left and right. maybe they'll cut that shit out now that the backlash/slutshaming is starting.
for_serious13 25th-Jan-2013 08:34 pm (UTC)
because this is not the first time she's done this?

her whole career is focused on her relationships, lbr
wownow 26th-Jan-2013 09:16 am (UTC)
harry has had more publicised hook-ups in the last 12 months than taylor. caroline flack, the radio station girl, cara, emily o. and yet taylor gets all the shit for it.

Edited at 2013-01-26 09:17 am (UTC)
deltabean 25th-Jan-2013 06:34 pm (UTC)
mte
merenwen17 25th-Jan-2013 03:58 pm (UTC)
we are never ever ever getting back together...like ever. this is exhausting.

but there is one ex I would get back together with because I still love him. but all the ones before him, no way. In fact my ex from 3 years ago keeps asking me out now, and sending me good morning beautiful texts, and gave me his HD tv, and I keep saying that we're just friends, but I don't think he gets it... I should cut off contact cause it's starting to annoy me.

/rant
vervain 25th-Jan-2013 04:47 pm (UTC)
this guy dumped me for some other girl last may, got pissed off at me for not talking to him since christmas and and hitting it off with a guy at new years, acting like i was still with him, and like i owed it to him to keep in touch and be single. because 'u are moving on too fast'.

i wasn't bothering because it was always me starting the conversations so i stopped. men have some entitlement issues tbh.
evawhimsy 25th-Jan-2013 05:33 pm (UTC)
i would lol in that guy's face and then block him from my phone. what a tool.
bbbitchface 25th-Jan-2013 05:03 pm (UTC)
i'm going to have to agree with her. i hate couples that are always fighting and splitting up, they're clearly not realising that if you fight that much, then maybe you weren't meant to be together.

i was with my ex for 4 years and we not once took a break or anything, but when he split up with me, that was it, it was a full stop. i think he even did it thinking i'd chase after him and was super pissed off at me when he tried to get back together and i said no.
x_unitydivides 25th-Jan-2013 05:24 pm (UTC)
isnt she in Cannes right now....? literally the same day the boys got there too lmao
delicious_pocky 25th-Jan-2013 11:03 pm (UTC)
they're going to the exact same award show
calinewarkwc69 25th-Jan-2013 05:24 pm (UTC)
Here for that .gif. I wish there was a way to put them on Facebook because I have a few Taylor-haters who post the one picture where you google her and it comes up with "Taylor Swift and [insert one of many here]" and try to talk shit. The other day, I got into an ONTD-esque war with some girl I don't even know because she was doing the usual Taylor-hater thing (she's annoying, she dates everyone, her songs suck) and since I was feeling bitchy that day, I got into it with her. Once she admitted she has never heard any songs other than the ones on the radio I was just like "Oh, so you're just talking out your ass... nevermind this convo, bye."

/coolstorybro

Work is so boring today.
slaughtermatic 25th-Jan-2013 08:06 pm (UTC)
I don't understand why you wouldn't be able to judge an artist by the songs on the radio without listening to their entire back catalog. I have heard every Taylor song there is and the opinion I formed after the first times listening to Love Story, YBWM and the rest of her hits hasn't changed a bit.
calinewarkwc69 25th-Jan-2013 08:39 pm (UTC)
It's not that you can't- I think in the shit I was talking about, it was more of a contextual thing. I mean, it was like the same thing that happens here. This girl was like "all she does is whine about guys that break her heart, why doesn't she blah blah blah" and I had to do the typical response of "OH, she only whines about guys? What about these songs? Blah blah blah." Then she had to admit she had no idea what songs I was talking about because she's never heard anything Swift does that wasn't on the radio and I'm like "Okay, cool. Attack her because of your own personal annoyances, that's cool, we all have people we just don't like; but why insult her music if you haven't heard a majority of it?"

It just makes people look ill informed to me. I much prefer when people just don't like her because something doesn't mesh with them, ya know? And they can say "her squinty eyes bother me," "her voice makes my stomach churn," etc...
daffneygillifin 26th-Jan-2013 01:44 am (UTC)
I think the bigger issue is that she has these amazing songs in her back catalog but she and her management allow her image to be determined by the...less than stellar songs. I hope she can start releasing the more substantial material from the album but I don't think it'll influence public perception much. Society is lazy and people don't buy albums these days. Public perception is determined by whats the most accessible. 23 million people saw her perform on NYE, 3 million people bought her album. There's a huge difference. IDK I used to get upset when people judged her based on her singles but then I just started getting upset with her management that doesn't let her mature/well written songs reach a mass audience because they want mega radio hits. Blah.
viva_espanyol 25th-Jan-2013 05:51 pm (UTC)
no1curr
bloolikejazz 25th-Jan-2013 05:54 pm (UTC)
her face is not ok
christoph 25th-Jan-2013 06:59 pm (UTC)
sort of ot but I saw one of her interviews on ellen a couple weeks ago. it was the first time i've ever watched a video interview of her and I was surprised by how little personality she had. I didn't expect her to be so stiff and awkward.
hypermuseic9 25th-Jan-2013 09:03 pm (UTC)
omggg ur icon! i need a vid now
kajsa87 25th-Jan-2013 07:08 pm (UTC)
I wish I could be like this. My first ex and I got back together twice for a couple of months and I had a one night stand thing with my second ex.
ppeak 25th-Jan-2013 07:17 pm (UTC)
Yes, I bet she makes sure that's written in pure black ink.
epona 25th-Jan-2013 08:12 pm (UTC)
didn't she already write us a song about this?
a_wa 25th-Jan-2013 10:40 pm (UTC)
I'm miss bad media karma. Another day another drama Haylor post.
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