Bray : Jersey
My best friend's dad died yesterday, this shit never gets less traumatizing.

She was with him and I was able to get to the hospital beforehand so I could be there for her. Everything just fucking sucks. Between being sad, I knew him well as well, I'm now completely worried about the lasting effects she'll suffer from. Just so overwhelmingly sad.

Her extended family doesn't want to have a service but she really wanted to do something special. Does anyone have any ideas that I can do to help her out with this? Maybe it won't be her family but between the two of us and a few assorted friends, we could pull together a tribute and hopefully it'll help her out because I know when I was little, we never had a funeral for my grandpa and that really fucked my world up.