I don't understand it either. I'm in my 20s and I feel like I'm just too busy for a relationship. I work, go to school, volunteer, and try to have a social life. When I had a boyfriend it was just annoying because i always had to figure out a way to make him a part of my daily routine. Now that I'm single I feel like I can focus more on getting my life the way I want it and setting the foundation for my future because when it comes to all my friends they're either settling down and trying to start a family in squalor or still dealing with the same relationship drama from high school.