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1:49 am - 01/18/2013

Selena Gomez: It's hard to trust girls


Selena Gomez has said that she discusses relationship issues with Taylor Swift.

The Disney actress admitted that her friendship with the country singer isn't based on the showbiz world; instead, the pair like to talk about normal things such as love and family.

She told NYLON magazine: "We both experienced the same things at the same time. But we've never once talked about our industry.

"She just became the person I'd go to for an issue with my family or boyfriend. It's so hard to trust girls, so I'm lucky to have her."

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dreamsofengland 18th-Jan-2013 02:25 am (UTC)
I grew with mostly guy friends but as i get older I really value my friends that are girls.

Edited at 2013-01-18 02:26 am (UTC)
mirandagirll 18th-Jan-2013 02:39 am (UTC)
basically me when I got to college
x_brittacular 18th-Jan-2013 03:12 am (UTC)
me
hershelwalker 18th-Jan-2013 02:27 am (UTC)
dis the best nite ever
laurie_springs 18th-Jan-2013 02:29 am (UTC)
I preferred Tuesday tbh
laceandskin 18th-Jan-2013 02:27 am (UTC)
I had more guy friends during college, only because my personality didn't click with any of the girls in my class. I really missed having girl friends because you can't talk about some things with male friends...like guy and period problems.

Edited at 2013-01-18 02:28 am (UTC)
silentxmovies 18th-Jan-2013 02:29 am (UTC)
idk i agree with ppl here side-eyeing this kinda thing but tbh idgi when people are really really staunchly one way or the other with the gender of their friends. like just be friends with both is that actually hard?? idk
lysblack 18th-Jan-2013 02:29 am (UTC)
~special snowflake~
hierarchia 18th-Jan-2013 02:30 am (UTC)
well. ok.

personally, i'm more inclined to trust women more than men.
anus 18th-Jan-2013 02:32 am (UTC)
I would think anyone, female or male, around her would be hard to trust. She's in Hollywood where people will do literally anything to get somewhere.
hypnology 18th-Jan-2013 03:04 am (UTC)
This so much.
Like I love my friends but they still do stuff stupid and I'll talk/rant/bitch to my other friends about it, but I always end up telling the friend my feels but in a nicer manner.
superhetoric 18th-Jan-2013 04:02 am (UTC)
venting is normal. it's healthy to recognize things that are bothering you and express them rather than bottling it up and letting it fester. the key is to not cross the line of what's appropriate, and to own it and apologize if you do cross that line.
hateistoodark 18th-Jan-2013 02:32 am (UTC)
ugh this shit
honestly men can be just as catty and obnoxious
adorante 18th-Jan-2013 02:32 am (UTC)
1. i'm in the minority by saying this but girls are BRUTAL. the way my high school was is the plot of mean girls.
2. and in college some of the girls i've met are some of the weakest people i've ever met in my entire life.
3. while i get along better with guys, i am thankful for the handful of girls that i am friends/get along with
flumes 18th-Jan-2013 02:34 am (UTC)
yea girls cane be horrible but so can like everyone else on the planet. it's not some shit in our dna ppl just suck
laurie_springs 18th-Jan-2013 02:39 am (UTC)
because we're all insecure and terrified of it imo
laurie_springs 18th-Jan-2013 02:38 am (UTC)
High school for me was like that and then college was basically this weird competition to be the ultimate guys' girl but after that, in other situations I generally find that nobody has time for that stuff thankfully.
hershelwalker 18th-Jan-2013 03:02 am (UTC)
lol
soho 19th-Jan-2013 01:13 am (UTC)
You clearly need to meet better people. You're generalizing an entire gender because of your own small experience.
stephantasm 18th-Jan-2013 02:32 am (UTC)
girls rule tho.
flumes 18th-Jan-2013 02:33 am (UTC)
how would u no u effin sexist
stephantasm 18th-Jan-2013 02:35 am (UTC)
pls don't almost curse around me I'm sonesitive
maysins 18th-Jan-2013 02:36 am (UTC)
I'm sorry if I'm interrupting, but I like your icon. Fei's awesome.

Edited at 2013-01-18 02:36 am (UTC)
lachica2000 18th-Jan-2013 02:33 am (UTC)
I tend to distrust people who say things like this.

Wait, didn't she make some passive aggressive video of herself and some friends dancing to some Taylor Swift song? Those girls must love knowing they're not trustworthy.
_quietriot_ 18th-Jan-2013 02:34 am (UTC)
My very closest friends are a mixed group, guys and girls. I spend more time hanging out with girls but I have a few guys that I'm very close to who are awesome. I trust both TBH. I think it depends on the individual.

If you have a great set of friends, you're lucky, not everyone has that. If somebody isn't lucky enough to have amazing girlfriends, that's not a reason to make them feel even more shit about themselves by telling them there must be something wrong with them.
fingers4teef 18th-Jan-2013 02:53 am (UTC)
exactly this tbh
deja_vu822 18th-Jan-2013 02:34 am (UTC)
Women who say things like this have no forethought. You're saying you're hard to trust, or catty, or bitchy, or unlikeable, or whatever it is that they say. I know the implication is that you're the exception, but trust me, you aren't. If you're hanging out with a group of guys who say things like "you're not like other girls!" rest assured the moment you have any sort of emotional reaction they don't like, they'll retract that.
between_lights 18th-Jan-2013 03:57 am (UTC)
fucking exactly.
kwikimart 18th-Jan-2013 04:47 am (UTC)
YES!
Why would you make a statement about your own gender like that? You're just trapping yourself and also you sound like an asshole.
sandvich 18th-Jan-2013 02:34 am (UTC)
I'm the opposite way tbh. I have a really, really hard time getting along with or trusting men, and I've only had one notably close relationship with a dude, ever.
x_brittacular 18th-Jan-2013 03:13 am (UTC)
same
between_lights 18th-Jan-2013 04:00 am (UTC)
I've literally never had a straight cis male friend, and it's not because I've avoided them. they just have consistently exposed themselves to be either Nice Guys or totally blatant and disgusting assholes.
scullies 18th-Jan-2013 05:47 am (UTC)
2nd, not here for that bullshit
soramai 18th-Jan-2013 05:32 pm (UTC)
me too
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