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1:49 am - 01/18/2013

Selena Gomez: It's hard to trust girls


Selena Gomez has said that she discusses relationship issues with Taylor Swift.

The Disney actress admitted that her friendship with the country singer isn't based on the showbiz world; instead, the pair like to talk about normal things such as love and family.

She told NYLON magazine: "We both experienced the same things at the same time. But we've never once talked about our industry.

"She just became the person I'd go to for an issue with my family or boyfriend. It's so hard to trust girls, so I'm lucky to have her."
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hahahey 18th-Jan-2013 02:04 am (UTC)
idk why she singles out girls. it'd make more sense if she said it's hard to trust people in general, especially in the industry.

Edited at 2013-01-18 02:04 am (UTC)
chantemarissa 18th-Jan-2013 02:06 am (UTC)
i think this is a dig @ demi honestly.
uglybunnie 19th-Jan-2013 03:52 am (UTC)
she's got a ton of gf's too, I didnt expect this nonsense from her.
jude108 18th-Jan-2013 02:05 am (UTC)
Fuck this, it's hard to trust anyone.
sadisticsidhe 18th-Jan-2013 02:05 am (UTC)
I don't trust anyone


Though seriously when people say I can't trust girls or something like that, I tend to think that that person is the problem, not 'girls.'

I'm going to go watch some more My Little Pony instead!
one_song_for_me 18th-Jan-2013 02:06 am (UTC)
Perfect comment.
wheresandrae 18th-Jan-2013 02:05 am (UTC)
idk being a celebrity i wouldn't trust NEone
those r shoes we of ontd cannot put ourselves in
one_song_for_me 18th-Jan-2013 02:05 am (UTC)
It's so stupid to say you can't be friends with girls, I've had trust issues with both genders. A guy can be even more dramatic and shady than a female, it depends on the individual. My girlfriends are amazing and certainly not untrustworthy.
guadalcanal 18th-Jan-2013 02:05 am (UTC)
should be amended to: it's hard to trust shitty people
lovealwaysliana 18th-Jan-2013 02:06 am (UTC)
I've only really been a girlfriend person. I've never had a problem being friends with girls
daydream11 18th-Jan-2013 02:07 am (UTC)
Men are by a wide margin the more untrustworthy, emotional, and manipulative sex, if we're gonna go there. I love my girl friends and all of my top choices for college were women's colleges because I wanted to be around women. I have a handful of guy friends, but I can take or leave them. There's nothing better than a girlfriend.
ellenelles 18th-Jan-2013 02:10 am (UTC)
"Men are by a wide margin the more untrustworthy, emotional, and manipulative sex"

ita. it really sucks that girls are socialized to be competitive and view each other this way.
mistyraven 18th-Jan-2013 02:18 am (UTC)
Honestly IA, if only because (on average) they're so stubborn in their denial of being untrustworthy, emotional, or manipulative.
sergeantquakers 18th-Jan-2013 02:19 am (UTC)
Truth. Going to a women's college is the best decision I've ever made.
khlassique 18th-Jan-2013 02:31 am (UTC)
same
athwartship 18th-Jan-2013 04:18 am (UTC)
right? some of the stuff i hear from friends at coed colleges i'm so glad i never had to deal w/
sumdisaster 18th-Jan-2013 07:00 am (UTC)
Ooo ooo which one !!
daydream11 18th-Jan-2013 07:15 am (UTC)
Jealous! I couldn't afford to go to any I got into, and I still get pangs of sadness about it.
solsty 18th-Jan-2013 02:31 am (UTC)
Men are by a wide margin the more untrustworthy, emotional, and manipulative sex

Couldn't agree more, and all the men I know are incredibly bitchy to each other to the point where I wonder why they're even "friends".
illuminaris 18th-Jan-2013 02:54 am (UTC)
+ it is hard to be 'just friends' with men bc they hate being friendzone

well guess what fuckers, we hate being fuckzoned
manaconda 18th-Jan-2013 02:55 am (UTC)
mte
lanavis 18th-Jan-2013 03:10 am (UTC)
"Men are by a wide margin the more untrustworthy, emotional, and manipulative sex"

sources for this nonsense b/c I can make an argument for the opposite. I don't believe that argument since I find both sexes to be equally vile.
sevenbeat 18th-Jan-2013 04:04 am (UTC)
truth.

I love having girlfriends. I would be lost without the women in my life.
galagooo 18th-Jan-2013 02:07 am (UTC)
I've never had a problem trusting my close female friends. I don't get people that say things like that, or that all girls are catty, or they all choose their friends based on their looks, blahblahblah. Way to buy into stereotypes out of a high school coming-of-age movie.
x_noisekisses 18th-Jan-2013 02:07 am (UTC)
so disappointing. she's always talking about her friends and being a girl's girl. can't believe she said this :(
judgmental 18th-Jan-2013 02:09 am (UTC)
clearly Taylor's influence

she's trying to isolate her from her other friends imo tbqh

Edited at 2013-01-18 02:10 am (UTC)
wonderwomanhero 18th-Jan-2013 02:11 am (UTC)
Taylor Swift shouldn't have an option to influence anyone tbh
laurie_springs 18th-Jan-2013 02:16 am (UTC)
mte
manaconda 18th-Jan-2013 02:56 am (UTC)
insidious! taylor really is an evil genius tbh
crashh_world 18th-Jan-2013 03:23 pm (UTC)
Her and Taylor were much closer pre Bieber
dnttllhrry 18th-Jan-2013 07:41 pm (UTC)
Taylor is creepy like that so i wouldnt be surprised.
rhapsodeeinblue 18th-Jan-2013 02:08 am (UTC)
S
M
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I'll never get it when people say things like this. If anything, in my experience, guys can be way "cattier," more gossip-y, more drama-prone, etc. etc. whereas my female friends can be way more chill.
brucelynn 18th-Jan-2013 02:09 am (UTC)
Photobucket

Lol irl
executivehpfan 18th-Jan-2013 02:16 am (UTC)
"Steph, I finally see you for what you truly are...a NO GOOD LYING BITCH"

And so much life was given unto meeeeeeeee.
brucelynn 18th-Jan-2013 02:16 am (UTC)
Photobucket
brokenbeauty08 18th-Jan-2013 02:46 am (UTC)
The million-dollar princess <3
cloudynitemare 18th-Jan-2013 02:47 am (UTC)
ugh queen. <3
laurie_springs 18th-Jan-2013 02:09 am (UTC)
The only thing I currently know about her is that endlessly reblogged photoset of Demi saying "ask Taylor" when asked how Selena is.

That said lol not surprised @ this.
groundcrown 18th-Jan-2013 02:14 am (UTC)
classic quote tbh
hateistoodark 18th-Jan-2013 02:29 am (UTC)
That was so fucking hilarious back in the day~
mcwicca 18th-Jan-2013 02:09 am (UTC)
She is hanging out with the wrong girls then. Or perhaps she herself is the wrong girl.

Idk stuff like this always baffles me because it's always been way easier for me to be friends with girls. If a guy ever tried to mess with someone in my group they would have gotten their ass handed to them.
katiexxpie 18th-Jan-2013 02:11 am (UTC)
well if her bff is taylor swift...
_quietriot_ 18th-Jan-2013 02:09 am (UTC)
I'm definitely a "girl's girl~" and I love having girl friends, but IDK.. I don't see why people hate people who say they find it hard to trust girls? Usually it's because they had a bad experience or something, it doesn't necessarily mean they're an awful person. Maybe they're just in need of proper friendship, or something.
vehiclesshockme 18th-Jan-2013 02:13 am (UTC)
Yeah it makes me think that someone must have really hurt them is all.
chantemarissa 18th-Jan-2013 02:16 am (UTC)
Ia
crystalzelda 18th-Jan-2013 02:17 am (UTC)
By saying this she makes it sound like women and girls and untrustworthy by nature, that we're just inherently duplicitous. Like why say girls? Why? Just say people. It's dumb of her anyways to equate her own experiences with some crappy girls to the whole entire gender. There are what, 3-4 billion women in the world? No, it's not hard to trust girls, just the ones around you, apparently. Smells like internalized misogyny tbh!!!
cossard 18th-Jan-2013 02:18 am (UTC)
but they're taking that bad experience and buying into the misogynistic bs our society teaches us to speak badly of and judge the female gender in its entirety. that is fucked up and if someone doesn't realize why it's fucked up i probably would not get along w them honestly.
crystalzelda 18th-Jan-2013 02:21 am (UTC)
yup, especially this is an old ass trope too

Hello, story of the garden of Eden! :D
_quietriot_ 18th-Jan-2013 02:43 am (UTC)
But when she said it's hard to trust girls, maybe she wasn't implying that it's easier to trust guys. it could have just been the way she worded it. She's a woman herself. IDK see why she'd think badly of all women and see us all as enemies, considering she herself is a woman. IDK, I give her the benefit of the doubt. I think it's more likely that she meant that Taylor is her best girlfriend and it's not easy to find someone you can trust that much. And that she said "girls" because she wasn't even talking in terms of guys.
brucelynn 18th-Jan-2013 02:20 am (UTC)
sis this ontd , fuck logic
alanadelrey 18th-Jan-2013 02:36 am (UTC)
I mean idt it excuses her generalization but I do think that's the case here. Hopefully she has a better group of friends now and will realize girls aren't the problem, it's the shitty friend(s) she had before.
endingonfire 18th-Jan-2013 04:21 am (UTC)
I can speak for that. I had a really terrible falling out with a group of female friends in high school that completely fucked me up. I've tried to form close friendships with girls since then, but my trust issues are insane, I've never really recovered from that fear. I know I'm the problem, but it's really disheartening to see so many people bashing girls who don't have girlfriends. I want them, I'm just at a loss as to how to get them :(
rolt_me 18th-Jan-2013 04:43 am (UTC)
lol this is ontd, gotta be ~internalized misogyny~ if you don't agree w/ their viewpoint
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