I hate OkCupid. I don't know why people like that site. It's douche/bro central. Someone spelled "state" wrong in their profile and I ignored their IMs. My mom says I have high standards, but I think that's a red flag.

Anyone used JDate, I'm worried it's just as pathetic?

Has anyone actually paid for those monthly membership websites? Good/bad? I'm considering just doing it for a short period to see if it's an improvement.