As much as I sometimes miss being 19, because I was at my peak of physical hotness..
I remember how riduculous I was. I hate Dr. Phil.. but what he says is true. You brain isn't fully mature (aka realizing the consequences of your actions..) until your like 25. I don't care if your techically an adult.
I was so ridiculously immature at Selena's age. I was super obsessed with a guy who treated me like shit.. I cried for years and years over him and literally every "AIM away message" and move I did was calculated to make him jealous.
I was super promiscuous not because I liked it.. but because it validated me that night.
I sucks to be famous and your stupid "response" to a breakup make news. Thanks god I was 19 before facebook became popular (it was just "thefacebook.com" in 2005 when I was still young-ish)
I married an awesome guy in 2009 who I can totally be my completely dorky insane self and dance around like a crazy maniac in pajamas and no longer have to worry about shitty "away messages" and "statuses" on sites because he just loves me for me.
In fact, I deleted myspace before we got married before I never wanted to deal with it again.
If were honest, there are a few times a month I still think about that ex and where he is in his life. I think everyone always has "that one person." But, as I get older and more mature I realize how ridiculous it is to care so much about a person who doesn't feel the same and put in the same effort. It's just silly.
Thanks for this comment. You at 19 is me at 19 right now. I'm going crazy for my ex/best friend and I don't know what to do. I'm taking a break from talking/texting/seeing him for about a month. your comment rocks!
a lot of this was me when I was 19! except I legit love sex and orgasms never rly needed the male attention to validate me, so in that sense I was lucky
i was more immature in the sense that I desperately wanted to be away from my family and do all the stupid silly things my mom taught me would make me damned to a pathetic life (drinking, smoking weed, sucking dick)
i got out of it by the time I was 21 though with very minimal damage. I look back and shake my head, but I also had a shit tone of fun and made memories, learned a lot, met a great guy I'm still with 3 years later... so being a foolish 19 year old wasn't all for nothing :)
same here.. i am turning 21 next month and am so glad i was able to make the mistakes that i did when i did. from 16 until about 19 i was so overly obsessed with a boy who treated me like shit and i just went along with it and spent days of my life crying over him that i will never get back. but i'm also glad i was able to go through those experiences because in the end, that's what makes you mature over time. now i appreciate having fun and making different mistakes with my friends - boys can wait.
i just can't get over this dancing. in hs girls used to post vids to fb of them trying to be sexy but they wound up looking ridiculous. this brings back those memories
I remember how riduculous I was. I hate Dr. Phil.. but what he says is true. You brain isn't fully mature (aka realizing the consequences of your actions..) until your like 25. I don't care if your techically an adult.
I was so ridiculously immature at Selena's age. I was super obsessed with a guy who treated me like shit.. I cried for years and years over him and literally every "AIM away message" and move I did was calculated to make him jealous.
I was super promiscuous not because I liked it.. but because it validated me that night.
I sucks to be famous and your stupid "response" to a breakup make news. Thanks god I was 19 before facebook became popular (it was just "thefacebook.com" in 2005 when I was still young-ish)
Your comment is sad =(, but this made me lol.
I married an awesome guy in 2009 who I can totally be my completely dorky insane self and dance around like a crazy maniac in pajamas and no longer have to worry about shitty "away messages" and "statuses" on sites because he just loves me for me.
In fact, I deleted myspace before we got married before I never wanted to deal with it again.
If were honest, there are a few times a month I still think about that ex and where he is in his life. I think everyone always has "that one person." But, as I get older and more mature I realize how ridiculous it is to care so much about a person who doesn't feel the same and put in the same effort. It's just silly.
your comment rocks!
it's science that your brain doesnt fully mature until then.
i was more immature in the sense that I desperately wanted to be away from my family and do all the stupid silly things my mom taught me would make me damned to a pathetic life (drinking, smoking weed, sucking dick)
i got out of it by the time I was 21 though with very minimal damage. I look back and shake my head, but I also had a shit tone of fun and made memories, learned a lot, met a great guy I'm still with 3 years later... so being a foolish 19 year old wasn't all for nothing :)