idts? I think this is the first "serious" ONTD convo I've ever been a part of so ... lmao.
Yeah, I know. I honestly shouldn't sound so snotty & like I'm "above" people who think like that, because just last year there was this horrible dude I wished some awful things on. I get that it's so frustrating when you can't do anything about your situation, and my situation with this man was even a mild one, not a life-changing one like rape.
And yes ia, as long as you don't act on those violent thoughts, it's okay. I just think that in some cases thinking about and hating someone so much instead of focusing on other things can actually lead to people acting on those thoughts in different ways. I know that's rare, though.
Yeah, I know. I honestly shouldn't sound so snotty & like I'm "above" people who think like that, because just last year there was this horrible dude I wished some awful things on. I get that it's so frustrating when you can't do anything about your situation, and my situation with this man was even a mild one, not a life-changing one like rape.
And yes ia, as long as you don't act on those violent thoughts, it's okay. I just think that in some cases thinking about and hating someone so much instead of focusing on other things can actually lead to people acting on those thoughts in different ways. I know that's rare, though.