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12:08 pm - 12/04/2012

Chiefs tried to help Jovan Belcher, Kasandra Perkins with domestic problems



Seconds after fatally shooting his longtime girlfriend, Kansas City Chiefs linebacker Jovan Belcher leaned over her in their master bathroom, said he was sorry and kissed her on the forehead.

His mother, who heard gunfire as she stood in the kitchen, rushed to her son’s bedroom and watched his remorseful goodbye.

Belcher apologized to his mother, kissed his 3-month-old daughter and fled his rented home in the 5400 block of Crysler Avenue in his Bentley.


The Star learned those details and others from multiple police sources Monday as officers continued their investigation into why Belcher, 25, killed his live-in girlfriend, Kasandra Perkins, 22, on Saturday morning. Arguments over relationship and financial issues had simmered for months between them, according to the sources.

Belcher’s mother, who came from New York to live with her son so the couple could work through their issues, didn’t hear much of the argument. But just before 8 a.m., she heard her son say something to the effect of: “You can’t talk to me like that!”

Then she heard gunfire.


Afterward, Belcher drove to the only place he felt safe — to his other family at Arrowhead Stadium, police said.

As he covered the five miles from his home to the stadium, his violent act weighed on him, police believe.

“He probably realized he had done something and he couldn’t go back,” said Police Sgt. Richard Sharp.

In the parking lot of the practice facility at 1 Arrowhead Drive, Belcher encountered Chiefs General Manager Scott Pioli. Belcher stepped out of his Bentley with a gun pointed at his own head, police said.

“I did it,” he said, according to police. “I killed her.”

Club officials knew about the couple’s problems. The Chiefs had provided counseling and “were bending over backward” to help, Sharp said.


But Belcher told Pioli that the assistance wasn’t enough to fix their problems and now, “It was too late.”

When another Chiefs employee arrived, Pioli told him to stay back. Meanwhile Pioli tried to persuade Belcher to lay down the weapon, Sharp said.

Belcher thanked Pioli for everything he had done for him. He asked if he and Clark Hunt would take care of his daughter.

Chiefs Head Coach Romeo Crennel and linebackers coach Gary Gibbs arrived in the parking lot and Belcher reportedly announced, “Guys, I have to do this.”

Crennel tried to dissuade him.

“I was trying to get him to understand that life is not over,” Crennel told The Star. “He still has a chance and let’s get this worked out.’’

As Pioli and Crennel tried to reason with Belcher, the men heard police sirens closing in. Belcher then walked a few steps away with the gun still pointed at his head.

“I got to go,” Belcher reportedly said. “I can’t be here.”

Belcher knelt behind a vehicle and made the sign of the cross across his chest before firing a single bullet into his head.


Kansas City police believe Belcher killed himself because he was distraught over what he had done to Perkins.

“He cared about her,” Sharp said. “I don’t think he could live with himself.”

The night before the killings, Perkins had attended a concert downtown with friends, and Belcher had “partied” at the Power and Light District, police said. It was unclear when they arrived home, where Belcher’s mother was watching their baby. A woman who answered Belcher’s mother’s cell phone Monday declined to comment.

Detectives don’t know what specifically sparked the argument between the couple at home, but a friend of Perkins told The Star that the couple argued around 1 a.m. Saturday when Perkins returned home from the Trey Songz concert and drinks with friends afterward. Belcher was mad she had stayed out so late, the friend said.

Sometime later, Kansas City police talked with Belcher after finding him asleep in his Bentley on Armour Boulevard. Officers determined he was able to drive himself home. Police believe he arrived home about 7 a.m., well before a 9:30 team meeting. That’s when the yelling began.

Police said youth, immaturity and financial pressures served as a backdrop. During his college years, Belcher allegedly punched a dormitory window because he was upset over a woman.

Autopsies with toxicology tests were performed on both bodies, but results will take weeks, police said. Investigators believe alcohol may have played a role in the argument’s escalation.

Police recovered several legally owned guns from Belcher’s home. Investigators were testing each one, and the gun found with Belcher’s body, against shell casings and bullets they recovered.


Police spokesman Darin Snapp said Monday that Belcher’s mother, who had been staying with the couple, was given temporary custody of the couple’s daughter. But he said it was unclear if the grandmother and baby were still in the Kansas City area.

Perkins, who grew up in Texas, met Belcher, who grew up in New York, through a cousin, Whitney Golden Charles, the wife of Chiefs running back Jamaal Charles. Perkins moved to Kansas City in 2010 to be with Belcher. Her relatives learned of her death from the news, police said. A woman who answered the phone at a relative’s home Monday declined to comment.

Monday afternoon, the family issued a statement that spelled Perkins’ first name with a double s, though she spelled it with one on her Facebook page: rly guys

“On behalf of the Perkins Family, we appreciate the outpouring of love and concern for our Kassandra ‘Kasi’ Perkins. Our hearts are truly broken for Kasi was a beloved daughter, granddaughter, sister, mother, cousin and friend.…

“Please keep us in your hearts and prayers as well as the Belcher family for two lives were loss. Again we thank you for your support, our wish is for Kasi to be remembered for the love she shared with us all. Kasi will be truly missed!”

Jamaal Charles also released a statement: “Our family has suffered a personal tragic loss.… As this is a very tough time for our family, I ask that we are respected as we grieve. Kassandra was not only family, but a friend and a loving mother. As my actual family and my Kansas City Chiefs family have been altered forever, we ask that you keep us and most importantly their child in prayer. Thank you all for your continued support.”

Later Monday, Belcher’s somber relatives provided statements outside of Belcher’s boyhood home in New York. Yamiesse Lawrence, a cousin of Belcher’s, said the weekend’s events were an “inconceivable tragedy.”

“As a family, no words can express the sorrow we feel over the loss of Jovan and Kasandra,” Lawrence read aloud.

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powerbottom 4th-Dec-2012 06:03 pm (UTC)
What the fuck.
soapboxrhetoric 4th-Dec-2012 06:05 pm (UTC)
senseless violence. everyone involved loses.
quinnthevixen Re: domestic violence prosecution is nothing more than homicide prevention.4th-Dec-2012 06:15 pm (UTC)
This. It's ridiculous, the amount of women who go missing or are found murdered around the time they are having relationship problems with or are in the midst of splitting up with/divorcing their (often openly) abusive male partners. So many lives could be saved if people would recognize the severity of all DV situations and offer support and safety to the families at risk of being abused and terrorized.
soapboxrhetoric Re: domestic violence prosecution is nothing more than homicide prevention.4th-Dec-2012 06:45 pm (UTC)
this. i'm pretty sure the only reason my family is still alive because police finally took action when my much younger brother and sister physically ran to the police station one night.
bent_ley Re: domestic violence prosecution is nothing more than homicide prevention.4th-Dec-2012 07:16 pm (UTC)
it is more likely for someone to be killed once they leave their abuser
alicel Re: domestic violence prosecution is nothing more than homicide prevention.4th-Dec-2012 10:16 pm (UTC)
well said and inspiring. thank you.
silentsymphonie Re: domestic violence prosecution is nothing more than homicide prevention.4th-Dec-2012 06:22 pm (UTC)
Even with the interventions victims die. So many times all the abuser gets is a restraining order and that's just a piece of paper. My teacher was told by police that since she'd already started a paper trail, if her ex ever showed up at her door to just shoot him because there was no way the police would be able to respond in time to save her.
lastshotringing Re: domestic violence prosecution is nothing more than homicide prevention.4th-Dec-2012 08:28 pm (UTC)
Agreed. As someone who was in an abusive relationship, I look back at it now & wonder how people were able to just stand around & watch. I'm really glad I got out, even though none of the people who knew what was actually going on tried to help.
tomiko Re: domestic violence prosecution is nothing more than homicide prevention.5th-Dec-2012 02:30 am (UTC)
I agree. As a victim of domestic violence I always felt the whole time my family/friends knew but they turned a blind eye to everything my ex did. Even when I called the police to try and get help (I lived with him and did not have a car) they turned a blind eye too and said "Well he's on the lease so he's allowed to come back" didn't even offer to relocate me or give me information on what to do :/
anna_bea2 4th-Dec-2012 06:10 pm (UTC)
ugh this whole thing is so sad.

Her relatives learned of her death from the news, police said

jfc
steph313 4th-Dec-2012 06:21 pm (UTC)
I remember when I first heard of it (the Bucs made a comment offering the Chiefs condolences on their official facebook page), I went to google more about who the player was. So many official sources, like ESPN, Yahoo, Google, all were claiming the player an his girlfriend's name hadn't been released due to their families having not been notified.

I then googled, "Chiefs, murder" and all these random sites came up with all the information involved. Only one of those sites had the decency to not release the girlfriend's name with the quote "Yes, we know who she is, but we're not at liberty to say at the moment."
vee_bot 4th-Dec-2012 06:28 pm (UTC)
that is so terrible
zephyrkist 4th-Dec-2012 06:14 pm (UTC)
I know people who played at college with him, so this has been all that's on my mind for days. It's just a really, really sad and messed up situation. I'm surprised this article doesn't mention anything about football and head trauma. That poor baby.
doleo 4th-Dec-2012 06:14 pm (UTC)
this is horrible
whutness 4th-Dec-2012 06:14 pm (UTC)
This is all so sad
evett 4th-Dec-2012 06:15 pm (UTC)
I wonder if he went to the stadium so that the coaches could talk him out of killing himself or if he always planned to shoot himself no matter what they said. It sucks that they were exposed to that if he never doubted what he would end up doing to himself.
bent_ley 4th-Dec-2012 07:18 pm (UTC)
i wonder if he was hoping for a suicide by cop situation at first.
hammersxstrings 4th-Dec-2012 07:48 pm (UTC)
those coaches, man....i think something like that would fuck me up so bad for life....
tebtosca 4th-Dec-2012 06:17 pm (UTC)
Wonder what would have happened if he didn't have a gun on the ready
bostongirl2003 4th-Dec-2012 06:18 pm (UTC)
mte.
theblackwidow 4th-Dec-2012 06:36 pm (UTC)
MTE
lisse_pitch13 4th-Dec-2012 06:38 pm (UTC)
Ask Bob Costas
crash31 4th-Dec-2012 07:07 pm (UTC)
For once when Bob Costas spoke, I actually was interested in what he had to say and agreed, he took a chance to speak out the way he did though.
saintssin 4th-Dec-2012 06:46 pm (UTC)
The guy may have ended up killing her anyway.

I'm not in favor of guns. But I'm not going to suggest that nothing would have happened had he not had access to a gun.
orangeandblack 4th-Dec-2012 06:52 pm (UTC)
Exactly.
arielcharming 4th-Dec-2012 07:26 pm (UTC)
I hate guns.
freeze_i_say 5th-Dec-2012 10:12 am (UTC)
this
lovedforaday 4th-Dec-2012 06:18 pm (UTC)
Club officials knew about the couple’s problems. The Chiefs had provided counseling and “were bending over backward” to help, Sharp said.

I hope the local stations here in the KC viewing area hold the organizations feet to the fire over this. Why didn't the ever call the authorities? What exactly was "bending over backward?"
getbacknow 4th-Dec-2012 06:36 pm (UTC)
call the authorities about what? a couple having "problems" doesn't necessarily mean it's something to notify the police about. obviously it turned into something horrific but based on the news reports there's no indication that the chiefs were trying to cover for belcher.
lovedforaday 4th-Dec-2012 06:45 pm (UTC)
true. this whole thing has just made me angry and upset. :/
teenageriot16 4th-Dec-2012 06:42 pm (UTC)
idk about America, but in my country when the police are involved they very rarely seem to take domestic violence seriously.
orangeandblack 4th-Dec-2012 06:57 pm (UTC)
I think that they're probably already trying to figure out what they could have done differently. This will haunt the organization forever, especially those poor guys who witnessed him at the stadium that day and tried to talk him down, only to witness his death basically in front of them.

I know you're angry, I don't blame you but please don't try to place the blame of this mans actions on his employer, who did in reality try to help in every way they possibly could. Unless they saw him physically harm her and if she won't press charges, there is little to nothing the authorities could do about it.
bent_ley 4th-Dec-2012 07:19 pm (UTC)
it is possible she asked the authorities to not be involved.
cheeseasauras 4th-Dec-2012 09:40 pm (UTC)
As awful as the circumstances are, it's kind of cool to see how many other ONTDers are in the KC metro area.
bourbonnapoleon 4th-Dec-2012 06:20 pm (UTC)
That poor, poor child. I can't even imagine growing up and finding out my dad committed a murder/suicide and left me with no parents.
steph313 4th-Dec-2012 06:24 pm (UTC)
This is so damn sad. I can't stop thinking about that poor little girl.
aprilfunk 4th-Dec-2012 06:28 pm (UTC)
gaddamn :(
baglady25 4th-Dec-2012 06:37 pm (UTC)
That poor baby :( This whole thing is so fucking sad :(
theblackwidow 4th-Dec-2012 06:38 pm (UTC)
This makes my skin crawl.
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