Honestly, certain bloggers are part of the reason why I'm not a feminist anymore. My ideals are what they are, but I have detached myself from the movement because the people with relative amounts of influence are not asking the right questions or sparking the right discussions. If they're what feminism currently is, I'm out until it becomes something that has anything to do with me.

That's what I hate about these nuance-free statements that every woman SHOULD be a feminist. No. The movement actually has failed some of us. We're allowed to say that we tried it and it didn't work out and now we're living our lives in ways that make us happy.