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I feel like when some people get married, they and their spouse aren't really partners, just like best friends/lovers so when they actually have to make decisions and act like partners, they have fights and can't get along. :/ I notice that with my gf's parents; they love each other a lot but they can never make decisions together as a couple until after they've argued about it for a good two weeks at a time. I couldn't live like that.