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Ariel Winter staying with sister for now

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Ariel Winter, 14, will remain in the care of her adult sister, Shanelle Gray, for now, a judge ruled Tuesday in the family's bitter fight over the Modern Family actress.

A Department of Children and Family Services report to the court found evidence of emotional abuse by Ariel's mother, Chrisoula Workman, but that Ariel's allegations of physical abuse were "unsubstantiated."

The report also recommended that Gray be awarded permanent guardianship. A trial date will be set to settle that question.

Anita Gumm, an attorney for Chrisoula, had argued that Gray, 34, was an unfit guardian because she's "too young" and "has her own family to deal with," and raised speculation that Gray and her husband were only interested in caring for Ariel for their own personal gain.

"We implore the court to send the kid to her dad," Gumm stated. "Being a controlling mother doesn't mean [my client] is unfit."

But Los Angeles Superior Court Judge Michael Levanas stated that Gray had said "eloquent things" at a prior hearing about the family needing to heal. "I don't think she has ulterior motives," he said.

Earlier in the hearing, an attorney for Ariel's father, Glenn Workman, suggested that the father could move into the family home and have Ariel's mother move out.

But the judge ruled against it: "I have questions about the nature and strength of the relationship with her father," Levanas said. (Ariel's parents have been separated for some time, with the father living elsewhere, according to his attorney.)

Asked for comment following the hearing, Chrisoula said, "I love my daughter and I just want our family to be back together."

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fionaapple 21st-Nov-2012 12:38 am (UTC)
Poor girl. It must suck having all your family drama aired out in the media, I would be so embarrassed if people were reading about what's going on in my family. I hope her sister can give her the attention and care she needs.
klutzy_girl 21st-Nov-2012 12:39 am (UTC)
The sister seems to be the only one looking out for Ariel, and I really hope she is made permanent guardian.
lloydsgurl 21st-Nov-2012 12:39 am (UTC)
giving my mom a hug tbh, for not being a raging bitch
yurasama_love 21st-Nov-2012 12:41 am (UTC)
A 34 year old is too young to take care of her half-grown sister? IDTS
I wish they'd stop putting this in the news.
ourferocity 21st-Nov-2012 12:44 am (UTC)
ikr

that's a 20 year difference. she could be her mother.
bob80 21st-Nov-2012 12:47 am (UTC)
yeah, 34 is not too young to raise a kid.
venetianglass 21st-Nov-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
agreed. i'm 30 and looking at the possibility of taking on several of my nieces/nephews in the next year.
winonaforever 21st-Nov-2012 12:52 am (UTC)
Ikr! That's basically the age difference between me and my parents lol.
deadendqueen16 21st-Nov-2012 01:21 am (UTC)
IKR
beatlesluv 21st-Nov-2012 01:37 am (UTC)
MFTE
frenchverbs 21st-Nov-2012 01:52 am (UTC)
IDTS either. One of my friends is 27 and has custody of three of her siblings, ranging from 9-15. She's wonderful to those kids.
rareouldtimes 21st-Nov-2012 12:43 am (UTC)
"We implore the court to send the kid to her dad," Gumm stated.

the kid? really?
loganx2 21st-Nov-2012 12:44 am (UTC)
right it's like she is just an object. she isnt a fucking lamp.
bob80 21st-Nov-2012 12:48 am (UTC)
I thought the same thing when I read that. Seriously, a lawyer would say that in court
saltireflower 21st-Nov-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
Seriously wtf.
beatlesluv 21st-Nov-2012 01:38 am (UTC)
Seriously disgusting.
frenchverbs 21st-Nov-2012 01:51 am (UTC)
I thought the same thing. That's so unprofessional.
loganx2 21st-Nov-2012 12:43 am (UTC)
"We implore the court to send the kid to her dad," Gumm stated. "Being a controlling mother doesn't mean [my client] is unfit."

I cant with this whole thing.
starrika 21st-Nov-2012 12:44 am (UTC)
This really shouldn't be broadcast to the public. Poor girl.
executivehpfan 21st-Nov-2012 12:45 am (UTC)
That dress is a fucking abomination to my eyes.
nichtsmuss 21st-Nov-2012 12:49 am (UTC)
well, it's on what seems to be an abominable person, so it's a good match.
swim_thedepths 21st-Nov-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
I work part time at a maternity store and that dress looks exactly like something they'd sell.
stellar_ball 21st-Nov-2012 12:48 am (UTC)
"has her own family to deal with"

Um...Ariel is her family.

Edited at 2012-11-21 12:49 am (UTC)
khlassique 21st-Nov-2012 01:00 am (UTC)
Her sister has a young kid, too, but, yeah, it's not like Ariel needs her sister to baby her.
waxandstrings 21st-Nov-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
Good, she seems to be the only one involved in this mess that is looking out for Ariel. Anytime the mother/anyone on her side claims the sister/brother in law are just doing it for the fame/money... yet she's refusing to comment on any of this, while they seem to be seeking out any news outlet that will listen.
ch33rylips 21st-Nov-2012 12:55 am (UTC)
Bewp mommy is about to lose custody of another one.
khlassique 21st-Nov-2012 12:59 am (UTC)
I've met her sister a few times. She and her husband seemed genuinely nice, so I hope it works out for Ariel.
anna_bea2 21st-Nov-2012 01:02 am (UTC)
hopefully they let her stay with her sister. It's gotta be awful that all of this is so public. Hopefully her friends/good family members are taking care of her.
beetlebums 21st-Nov-2012 01:10 am (UTC)
HmmmmmmmmmmT Mr. Lawyer, what about the fact that the sister was taken away from your client 20 fucking years ago??
greencancer 21st-Nov-2012 01:12 am (UTC)
She's 14 years old, wtf is she wearing?
klutzy_girl 21st-Nov-2012 01:13 am (UTC)
One of the accusations against the mother was that she was trying to sexualize Ariel.
duchello 21st-Nov-2012 01:18 am (UTC)
that dress looks fine on her though? a tad short but that seems just about what most 14 year olds wear for like a semi formal or something
xylocarp 22nd-Nov-2012 04:38 am (UTC)
I feel like the length of the dress and the high heels is a little too mature looking for a 13/14 year old girl. You're not even in high school yet in a lot of cases.
baileysmama01 24th-Nov-2012 05:45 am (UTC)
That dress is tame compared to some other dresses and outfits she's worn to events and I'm talking when she was 12/13.
baby_phat_honne 21st-Nov-2012 01:15 am (UTC)
Good, and I hope Shanelle seriously gets guardianship over her.... love that she isn't talking to the press too. Always loved Shanelle since OLTL & B&B.
ichdontthinksoo 21st-Nov-2012 01:27 am (UTC)
Ever since this story came out I wonder if all the episodes Ariel wasn't in had anything to do with her mom and all these issues. I know she probably wasn't featured in just 6 or 7 eps total but still, all the other kids have been around pretty much every ep except her.
isntdaveone 21st-Nov-2012 01:41 am (UTC)
i knew her sister looked familiar. She was on The Bold & the Beautiful!!!!

chantalzola 21st-Nov-2012 01:58 am (UTC)
This is so sad.
littlepunkryo 21st-Nov-2012 03:36 am (UTC)
So where are all the people who were in the last posts saying all of this was just her trying to get out of the house because she wanted to be with her boyfriend?

"Being a controlling mother doesn't mean [my client] is unfit."

Wow you know it's bad when even the lawyer admits it.

Edited at 2012-11-21 03:37 am (UTC)
mothflavour 21st-Nov-2012 04:07 am (UTC)
I don't understand, does it not matter where Ariel wants to end up? As far as I know custody here depends a lot on what the child wants, especially one that age.
prophecypro 21st-Nov-2012 05:29 am (UTC)
I dont trust anyone in this story.
Mother could be terrible but at the same this is a child actor and we've seen the play out before.
xylocarp 22nd-Nov-2012 04:36 am (UTC)
"Being a controlling mother doesn't mean [my client] is unfit."


Actually, Kato, that's exactly what it means.
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