This. I used to obsess way too much about my weight. Then I just stopped, I still don't know how. I gained weight but I don't feel terrible about my weight anymore. I look in the mirror and 9 out of 10 times I'll think I'm beautiful. So even though I'm kinda fat now, I'd really rather just be like this than be miserable again.

Of course I still have days where I feel bad about myself, but these are far and few in between and I guess everybody feels shitty once in a while. It can't be compared to waking up every morning and the first thought being your damn weight.