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The Skinny on ‘Modern Family’ Cast’s Hollywood Weight Makeover

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Sofia Vergara (left) playing 'Gloria Delgado-Pritchett' and Julie Bowen playing 'Claire Dunphy' in ABC's 'Modern Family' Season 4 episode 'Yard Sale.' (Peter "Hopper" Stone / ABC via Getty Images)

We have seen this story play out before: actresses succumbing to the pressures of a Hollywood standard of beauty that sometimes becomes unhealthy to live up to. In the ’90s, the set of Ally McBeal was the poster child for the problem, but actresses on Melrose Place and Friends also struggled with the images they were supposed to project. More recently, the bone-thin physiques of the young stars of 90210 got more attention than their roles on the CW reboot. Lea Michele also shed a noticeable amount of weight after she became a superstar during the first season of Glee, and Kat Dennings has slimmed down in the second season of 2 Broke Girls.



Producer 20th Century Fox Television declined to address the Modern Family weight issue. On that show, Bowen, an avid runner, gets the most attention for her skinny build. Hyland, who underwent a kidney transplant in April and has always had a petite frame, is thinner than ever. Vergara, known her whole career for her va-va-voom body, used to rebel against efforts to make her curves more subtle. But now she’s done just that. One of the men, Eric Stonestreet, also is losing weight, and the writers have incorporated it into his storyline.

“I have been watching in dismay and saying things to people who think I am overly sensitive to these issues as an eating disorder therapist,” said Carolyn Costin, founder of Monte Nido Treatment Center in Malibu, Calif., and Eugene, Ore. “People have a right to lose weight. But somehow we have to find a way to make who people are—their talents and everything—more important than their size. And we don’t always give that message, especially to kids. They grow up watching shows like this and often get the message that the thinner people have the higher status. It’s so sad in that way.”

Even more disappointing is that 2012 appeared to be the year of self-acceptance. On her HBO series Girls—and let’s not forget the Emmys telecast in the fall—Lena Dunham refused to wear clothes and regularly exposed viewers to her extra pounds and fleshy thighs. On The Voice, Christina Aguilera shows off her ample curves in whatever tight, tiny outfit she pleases. After a decade of battling bulimia and anorexia, and months of being called out on her 25-pound weight gain, Lady Gaga went public with her body image problems and joined the body revolution, “To inspire bravery. And breed some motherf--king compassion.”

But the revolution clearly needs more soldiers like Jennifer Lawrence, who recently told Elle magazine that she will never starve herself for a role. “In Hollywood, I’m obese,” she said. “I’m considered a fat actress. I’m Val Kilmer in that one picture on the beach.” Fifteen years after Ally McBeal exposed the pressures TV actresses can feel to look the same week after week, Hollywood hasn’t budged in its expectations of them. Neither have the tabloids and celebrity-oriented magazines, which relentlessly track cellulite, flab, and weight fluctuations as if it were the stock market.

“All of us feel scrutinized by our peers or we feel scrutinized when we see photographs and things like that, but these people have to live up to a photograph in a magazine where a little was taken from their side or a line was erased,” said Costin, who has treated many actresses for eating disorders and is the author of 8 Keys to Recovery From an Eating Disorder. “Then they go out in public and feel they have to match that. It’s hard for me to imagine, if I had to be in the public eye like that, having had an eating disorder myself. I don’t know if I could get well. I have so much empathy for people working in the limelight.”

Portia de Rossi, who became famous when she joined Ally McBeal in 1998, wrote a best-selling memoir in which she revealed that she had almost died when her organs began shutting down after years of battling anorexia and bulimia. In de Rossi’s poignant 2010 book, Unbearable Lightness, she described the internal pressure she felt to be as thin as the other actresses on the show, allowing herself a mere 300 calories a day. Courtney Thorne-Smith and Calista Flockhart also have publicly discussed the “extreme dieting” they all engaged in.

“It was very difficult on many levels because there were all these people on the show who would get into competition with each other and give each other dieting tips,” said Costin, who helped de Rossi recover. “There was always that thing about the camera adding 10 pounds and the enormous pressure not only to look good but to look the same. And then there were the dressing room people. Portia said they’re bring all these clothes that were so small and she couldn’t fit into them and she’d feel guilty.”

Although Vergara has said she’s never felt self-conscious about her looks and figure, she has been open about the changes she had to make to transition from Spanish-language broadcasting to English. For one thing, she had to darken her naturally blond hair “to look more Latina,” and at one point, she even considered a breast reduction. For years, her management team recommended that she lose weight, she said during a 2009 Los Angeles Times interview.

“When they told me to lose weight, I was like, ‘Are they playing a joke on me?’” Vergara said then. “I’ve always been known for my body! How can you tell me I’m fat? But, yeah, next to the other ladies I’m a whale.”


Not anymore. This season, the 40-year-old actress has been sporting a trimmer shape, which she has attributed to her new exercise regimen.

“She’s supposed to be the voluptuous one, so why would she want to be like the rest of them?” Costin said. “That doesn’t make any sense. She looked great and no one should make her feel otherwise.”

Jessica Simpson has been lambasted this year for gaining too much weight during pregnancy and not losing it fast enough. The singer, who has signed on as a Weight Watchers spokeswoman, told USA Today in September: “My body is not bouncing back like a supermodel. I’m just your everyday woman who is trying to feel good and be healthy for her daughter, her fiancé, and herself.”

But that’s not how it usually goes in Hollywood, noted Dr. Robyn Silverman, a body image expert and author of Good Girls Don’t Get Fat: How Weight Obsession Is Messing Up Our Girls & How We Can Help Them Thrive Despite It.

“Beauty first, health is secondary,” she said. “ If health doesn’t happen because you’re adhering to the standard of beauty, so be it. You’re in Hollywood and it’s your job. We’ve given ourselves license as TV consumers that we’re allowed to make incredibly rude and snarky comments about other people because they’re supposed to embody the fantasy no matter what the circumstance is—puberty, pregnancy, getting older. God forbid we do any of that! That is the biggest challenge when it comes to the Hollywood actress.”



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renegadecat 19th-Nov-2012 03:56 pm (UTC)
I always used to be that person who refused to look at a scale when i was weighed in the doctor's office because I did not want that number to make me think any less of myself, then I changed doctors, and my doctor would look at my stomach and go "oh, so you're not really trying very hard to lose weight, huh?" And I started to actually worry about myself. Last week I broke down in my doctor's office because she told me that I gained ten pounds and was nearly "obese".

I'm 5'2", and I don't know how much I weigh. For years I thought that I was just some curvy girl with wide hips and maybe a little lack of definition... but now I can't look into the mirror without hating what I see.


i'm sorry, I don't know why I just rambled so hard.
thishollywood 19th-Nov-2012 04:06 pm (UTC)
maybe try losing weight & see if u like it? if u dont, u culd always gain the weight back :) :) :)
renegadecat 19th-Nov-2012 04:07 pm (UTC)
I'm totally trying to do that! I work out every day, and I've always watched what I ate so that didn't really change.

But I sort of wish that it wasn't fueled by so much self loathing.
snoozeen 19th-Nov-2012 04:09 pm (UTC)
Sometimes, the best thing you can do for yourself IS to look at the number, face it, and deal with it. You never know, maybe the number in your head is much larger than the one on the scale? But avoiding it and letting it eat at you isn't good! You gotta just at least know.

And, also, your doctor sounds like kind of a dick.
asarin 19th-Nov-2012 04:12 pm (UTC)
That doctor is a dick, honeybee.
tadashee 19th-Nov-2012 04:13 pm (UTC)
I look at the scale but never the mirror. its hard i understand. did you talk to your doctor about a diet/exercise plan? I know i saw a nutritionist and i lost 15 pounds in 2 months. I went back to my dorm though, so i didnt really cook for myself, but i was able to maintain the weight loss. my nutritionist was even covered on my insurance.
w0rds0fl0ve 19th-Nov-2012 04:15 pm (UTC)
I would change doctors tbh. I'm 5'2, and my doctor wants me to lose 20/30 lbs "because your BMI is high, but otherwise you're healthy", and as much as I would like to lose 20 lbs and be a size 0/2/4, it's not going to happen, and I don't mind being an 8. I've weighed relatively the same since I was 13 (I'm 23 now), and I'm happy with me.

So if you're happy with who you are, and it's not affecting your health, your weight shouldn't matter. <3
tadashee 19th-Nov-2012 04:15 pm (UTC)
Also, maybe you should get a different doctor again. Also, check with your insurance about a nutritionist- they will work with you- and probably be much more understanding of your struggles than your doctor.
my_moloko 19th-Nov-2012 04:19 pm (UTC)
Even if you are nearly obese, your doctor sure has an asshole way of saying it. Try going to someone more understanding and sympathetic.
roguezombie 19th-Nov-2012 04:31 pm (UTC)
Instead of using a scale, you should just buy a tape measure. It's a better indicator of weight loss.
chilli_cheese 19th-Nov-2012 04:36 pm (UTC)
Change doctors. You can't say shit like that without suggesting ways to help you (maybe talk diet/nutrition/exercise) or you know, act like a doctor and tell you how it affects your health.
forevergold217 19th-Nov-2012 04:39 pm (UTC)
Don't worry about it bb, while the dr didn't put her concerns in a diplomatic way, a high BMI can be a signal to possible future health problems especially if you have family history of diabetes. I know exactly what ur going through because I've been on a quest to lose weight ever since I found out that I'm one point away from being obese.

But it's been 3 months and I only have 2 more points until I fall into the healthy category again! Just make sure you concentrate on healthy eating and implementing lifestyle changes instead of just dieting
fluorescentx 19th-Nov-2012 04:45 pm (UTC)
doctors can be such cunts. try eating healthy and working out, everything in moderation etc. If you see you lose weight then you probably did need to adjust your diet/exercise. if you don't then fuck em.
paranoiattaque 19th-Nov-2012 05:24 pm (UTC)
jeez, i'm so sorry your doctor talked to you like that. :( just try incorporating healthier things into your everyday diet like more green veg and fruits, eat less starchy carbs, and find an exercise you enjoy! i love walking and try to do it almost every day in some capacity. i also lift weights 2-3x a week, or do yoga. it's all about finding something you enjoy doing; discover what your body can do and re-find your confidence. it's not just about a number, it's how you feel.
tundrabeast 19th-Nov-2012 05:47 pm (UTC)
Do it for yourself, fuel your workouts with a delusional ego. Feeling shitty about yourself will make the process hella painful. You're a superstar so treat your body and your health appropriately. Love love xxx
sunktheglow 19th-Nov-2012 06:08 pm (UTC)
I hate doctors. I'm five nine and I'm told that a healthy weight for me would be 150. I'm extremely healthy - I eat whole foods at meals, very little meat, lots of meat, few carbs, and I work out for 30 mins a day. I can't get to 150. And if I did, I would look like skeletor. So I'm considered 'obese'. Tell that doctor to suck it, tbh.
bellichka 19th-Nov-2012 06:10 pm (UTC)
bbgurl, you're beautiful how you are ♥ just focus on eating healthy, and exercising regularly. your weight will be where it's supposed to be, which is no specific number and varies from person to person. fuck any doctor that makes shit comments like that - if you're healthy, THAT's what counts. Here to chat if you need me. xo
berrylicious877 19th-Nov-2012 09:05 pm (UTC)
I agree with the others--you need to get a new doctor.

I'm the same height as you and struggle with my weight. The BMI scale is outdated and inaccurate, if you ask me. It doesn't account for things like bone density. I got down to the largest recommended BMI weight for our height and was miserable. I hardly went out with friends because I could never eat or drink at most restaurants. I finally decided I'd rather hang out in the overweight portion of the chart and have a social life.

I did Weight Watchers, and it worked really well for me. While they do have suggested weight ranges for your goal weight, that number is something that you can choose. When I restarted again, I set my goal at about 20 pounds more than they suggested. But if I am eating healthy and exercising and like what I see in the mirror, that is all that really matters. Oh, and not getting winded walking up stairs. That's always a plus.

But seriously, no matter what you choose, you need to look into getting a different doctor.
justpeachythnks 19th-Nov-2012 11:05 pm (UTC)
I think you have the right idea and your dr sounds like an asshole. The number on the scale doesn't even mean a whole lots, fluctuates massively depending on how much you have eaten and can lead to obsession so quickly. I haven't weighed myself in years as part of my anorexia recovery. I bet you look gorgeous bb.
imsweetgetsome 20th-Nov-2012 06:27 pm (UTC)
First thing you need to do is get a doctor with much better bedside manners. It's clear your doctor doesn't know how to say things nicely. I don't know what you look like, so I can't say, nor am I a doctor, but NO doctor should be telling you that you're overweight in that way. You deserve better, bb.

Edited at 2012-11-20 06:28 pm (UTC)
lordfoldemort 20th-Nov-2012 11:32 pm (UTC)
I remember when I was 8, I was a little chunky. I went to the doctor and she was like shocked by my weight even though I really was not that much overweight. And that's when I first started worrying about my body. Because of a doctor commenting on my weight at eight years old. I feel like if it was that big of a deal (which it wasn't, I slimmed out as I went through puberty), she should've just told my mom confidentially and not like screamed it at my face.
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