judgmentalsilly question — 17th-Nov-2012 12:10 am (UTC)
have you ever been constantly hanging out with two people that are friends with benefits? like, I'm afraid things start to get awkward eventually because we go out to drink all the time now and it's fun but they go to fuck after they drop me home lol
sodenoshirayukiRe: silly question — 17th-Nov-2012 12:17 am (UTC)
my best friend and her bf are kinda like that. i recently was visiting her and we ended up at a bar in chinatown where they started getting all touchy-feely while i was slowly turning more and more into the third wheel. it was super awkward when they were trying to figure out logistically how to like bang or w/e since he lives in brooklyn and they were talking about making me sleep on the couch etc. i was like ummm idk if you were gonna be so horny you shouldn't have told me to stay another day/friday night
yeah. so having any other person there would have helped a lot with the awkwardness
calinewarkwc69Re: silly question — 17th-Nov-2012 12:38 am (UTC)
I always tend to hang out with couples, and instead of getting 3rd wheeled, I get 3some offers... that's waaaayyyy more awkward. I have a boyfriend now, so it doesn't get put on the table as much anymore, but fuck- I use to go out with couples and be pray they didn't try to get me in bed with them once they had a few...
hoodooRe: silly question — 17th-Nov-2012 03:19 am (UTC)
my best friend and my best guy friend were fwb for awhile and yeah it was awkward as shit. i guess you can always tell them (separately) how you feel. also i think as long as they do all the fucking after you leave is fine. but once in awhile they shouldn't just drop you off early! theyre your friends after all.
I love me some cactus coolers. Delicious; but, you have to be careful because you don't necessarily taste the booze so you can get trashed without realizing it.
aw I've seen them play a lot. Earlier all of them were sleeping, then one of them woke up at started stirring shit and hilarity ensued (obvs I've been watching this too closely)
I have such a high school crush on this beautiful perfect guy who is of course in a relationship. But he's flirtatious with me I KNOW IT but i know it's useless. Eff my life. Plus it doesn't help that I act like a total obvious moron around him. Lawwddd why can't dating and liking people just be easy.
i'm married. i met with a property manager yesterday and got a crush on him. i hate that i get a crush on every semi-attractive man i meet now. i feel like a bad person
Idk gorl, there's a difference between looking and touching. Imo it spices up the relationship when you're horny and you see someone hot and then you go home and have someone to fuck :D
I am the worst with that. I always look. And sometimes even flirt. I'm not married, but when I'm in relationships.
As long as it doesn't go too far I see nothing wrong with looking, or occasionally flirting(like when you're talking with someone in public or s/t). But my flirting is probably a lot cleaner than some others, so idk how you take that
i know there aren't many bollywood fans here but can we just talk about how beautiful Pakeezah is? i have it on dvd and i watch it twice a week. it just blows me away.
Because I LOVED it, but it has such a limited release and isn't getting any Oscar buzz (even though I think that there should be some acting nominations, but whatever).
BOOO
Also I'm considering going to go see Lincoln tonight, but idk. I don't want to miss Fringe.
I am taking this opportunity to whine. I have been out of school for ages and not only am I unable to find work in my field but I can't even get a fucking retail/service job. I mean, seriously, I don't think it would be that hard for me to serve people coffee or sell them clothes. I am so sick of the rejection, I just want to work!
It took me two years since graduating college before I landed a job. It sounds cliche, I know, but you just gotta keep trying. Someone is willing to give you a break somewhere!
I'm writing a paper on mass deception in the culture industry, and I have to use a movie (no originality, cliches, giving us false expectations about relationships etc) as an example. Any examples of shitty movies I can use?
haven't seen it myself but maybe catfish? it would be kinda meta since the movie is about fake relationships and at the same time it was marketed as a horror movie
I need to get me a fwb soon
yeah. so having any other person there would have helped a lot with the awkwardness
also i think as long as they do all the fucking after you leave is fine. but once in awhile they shouldn't just drop you off early! theyre your friends after all.
and lol fwb are bad news in the long run.
but like, NOT the Jack with honey flavor. Just jack with actual honey.
Try a purple haze, if you find a bartender that can make it.
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As long as it doesn't go too far I see nothing wrong with looking, or occasionally flirting(like when you're talking with someone in public or s/t). But my flirting is probably a lot cleaner than some others, so idk how you take that
can we just talk about how beautiful Pakeezah is? i have it on dvd and i watch it twice a week. it just blows me away.
Because I LOVED it, but it has such a limited release and isn't getting any Oscar buzz (even though I think that there should be some acting nominations, but whatever).
BOOO
Also I'm considering going to go see Lincoln tonight, but idk. I don't want to miss Fringe.
Good luck <3
any plans hotties?
Leap Year?
Haven't been in a FFAF in a long fucking time.