I just want to be 40 with kids and stay at home and take care of them and the house and do lots of sewing and gardening and be a 60s housewife instead of being a 20 year old student what is wrong with me. i'm a feminist and feel like i should want to do more with my life and i get that feminism is about choice and if i want to stay at home that's my prerogative but i still feel like i'm letting my gender down. I just really want the next 10 years to be over now :/
your life is your life, regardless of your gender. if staying at home is what makes your heart the happiest and leaves you with the most satisfaction, that's what you should do. It sounds like you're letting other people's perception affect your desires.
i want that rn. i keep saying i want to marry a rich guy so i can just stay home tidy the house and cook. i love cooking and i clean all the time anyway plus im tired of school and idk what career im gonna have with either just my bio bs or my masters of public health
bb you shouldn't do anything other than make yourself happy and if it's be a housewife then so be it. feminism is about choice, whatever the choice is ♥
i'm a feminist and what you described is what i want out of my life b/c i don't see myself finding fulfillment in a "job". i love thinking and academia and even working sometimes (internships i've done) but i've never been 'career oriented' and can't see myself wanting to commit long term to something. my mom was a stay at home mom when we were little and i want that flexibility, and i'm happier with things around home and family (not that i'm into martha stewart type shit). that said i think it's important to have SOME things outside the home, to give you an identity that isn't wrapped up in serving your family.
wtf sorry that's so long, i have a lot of feelings about this.
merenwen17match.com — 17th-Nov-2012 01:04 am (UTC)
anyone have any success on it? My friend gave me his paid account because he found someone, and so far...guys instantly start talking about sex and ask things like if I'm good in bed. on the first day.
im scared of dating sites, specifically match.com...because the shooter from Aurora had an active account up until the day of the shooting. he was talking to a few girls that DAY I believe...
but then again, I have 2 friends who met through match and okcupid and one couple I know met on EHarmony and is married now. but...im just not comfortable.
Any natural ladies use grapeseed oil as a heat protectant when straighten their hair? I'm thinking of doing it this weekend. I've read that people use and have had lovely results. Saw NikkiMae on YouTube use it and recommend it also.
If not, would anyone recommend the Chi or Redken line? If I'm going to do this I want to take all the precaution necessary.
Thanks! Would you recommend the Redken Smooth Lock Heat Glide Protective Smoother? I need to help my curls out a bit. They're so tight that they wrap around each other and make for nasty tangles. They've been doing that since I cut it all off and it started growing back.
I'm not as up on the latest sf/f (although I did read The Rook, by Daniel O'Malley, which came out this year and was pretty good), buuuut:
Kindred, Octavia Butler Sunshine, Robin McKinley American Gods, Neil Gaiman His Dark Material trilogy, Philip Pullman The Handmaid's Tale, Margaret Atwood
I'm not even ashamed to admit this so COME AT ME BROS
But I just got back from Breaking Dawn Part 2 and I thought it was kind of awesome lol. I liked the twist and I liked how they did the credit type thing at the end.
Really? I absolutely hated it and I enjoyed the other films (mostly new moon and breaking dawn pt 1). I think the RIDICULOUS cgi is what killed it for me
I'm inviting this bitch to hang out and she doesn't want to do ANYTHING, she says no to every suggestion and everytime I tell her to say something she's like "nah you choose" and says no again
i have a friend who constantly makes plans with me "oh yeah that sounds great i'm totally down for that!" and then never shows up. happens every time. she won't show up, she won't answer my calls, and then a week later she'll text me like nothing happened about something random.
ok full disclosure, first of all - i am ivana in the following pics... - i am a democrat - i dont much care for republicans, but i am tolerant to a certain degree - i call people out on their shitty grammar, most of the time for fun, sometimes condescendingly
BUT this was wayyyyyyyyyyyy the fuck outta hand a friend of mine posted something political making fun on reps, and i usually dont comment on shit like that... but a friend of HIS commented and i couldnt help responding...
enjoy the following shit storm!
i mean SERIOUSLY? cunt?! take it the fuck EASY, lunatic!
i will sometimes use that word jokingly with my FRIENDS. but this chick does not know me from adam, and clearly didnt use it like "bitch" or whatever. she went for the throat here.
tigtogiba34Re: SO...... — 17th-Nov-2012 01:15 am (UTC)
I would never call someone I didn't actually know the "c" word. I only reserve that for those I know well enough to actually deserve to be called it Ha!
wtf sorry that's so long, i have a lot of feelings about this.
Thoughts?
I'm just like....seriously?
but then again, I have 2 friends who met through match and okcupid and one couple I know met on EHarmony and is married now. but...im just not comfortable.
If not, would anyone recommend the Chi or Redken line? If I'm going to do this I want to take all the precaution necessary.
Kindred, Octavia Butler
Sunshine, Robin McKinley
American Gods, Neil Gaiman
His Dark Material trilogy, Philip Pullman
The Handmaid's Tale, Margaret Atwood
But I just got back from Breaking Dawn Part 2 and I thought it was kind of awesome lol. I liked the twist and I liked how they did the credit type thing at the end.
I'm too lazy to look up how to do a spoiler.
wtf bitch
- i am ivana in the following pics...
- i am a democrat
- i dont much care for republicans, but i am tolerant to a certain degree
- i call people out on their shitty grammar, most of the time for fun, sometimes condescendingly
BUT this was wayyyyyyyyyyyy the fuck outta hand
a friend of mine posted something political making fun on reps, and i usually dont comment on shit like that...
but a friend of HIS commented and i couldnt help responding...
enjoy the following shit storm!
i mean SERIOUSLY? cunt?!
take it the fuck EASY, lunatic!
but this chick does not know me from adam, and clearly didnt use it like "bitch" or whatever. she went for the throat here.
All reps seem to be doing this. They have no ammo so they go for the proverbial jugular.