My cousin graduated from the Marines today AND he'll be home for Thanksgiving! I'm so excited, now I have someone to discreetly mock my aunt with again!
So ive been scared to check my bank account for a long time and today i finally did..and im not completely broke!
Ive been getting calls where they say i owe a debt, they know my full name and number and i have no idea what it is. Im thinking it might be something from the doctors but i have no idea and im kinda worried.
can you get a free credit report? some debt collectors will use shady practices to get you to talk to them, I would demand something in writing the next time they call before you pay.
Yeah its just shady because i have no idea what its from. I wanna call them back to check but i'd think i wouldve had some kind of warning before it was sent to a debt collector ya know?
What are good, healthy reasons to actually start a relationship? I feel like for so many people it's either loneliness or social pressure but then it usually ends badly.
tbh I don't think there are any. If you want a relationship, it's because you need fulfillment in that arena. If you're not lonely for that kind of companion, you wouldn't want to date someone. I don't think it's a bad thing.
You genuinely like the person, and enjoy being the one to share new feelings with. You have things in common with each other, it might not be a lot of things but you have similar likes. You both have good attraction to each other, whether that be sexual, romantic, and/or intellectual in a sense.
attraction + actually enjoying them and their company at least that's what it is for me. i get lonely but i'm not about to date someone if i don't have those aspects down.
i don't think loneliness is a bad reason for starting a relationship, but i do think it's bad if you date someone you wouldn't otherwise be interested in just b/c you're lonely.
imo the best reason to start a relationship is b/c you want to be in one and like the person, but you also love yourself and don't NEED the relationship to be fulfilled as a person. like i don't think codependency or relying on relationships to be happy are good things.
I think I just got rehired at Disney World! Fucking finally! I find out for sure on Monday. I've been unemployed since July. Been going bat shit crazy,
Huh someone just came to my door to serve me with a summons. I didn't see that coming.
"You are hereby required to appear and defend the complaint filed against you in the above entitled action within thirty days from the date of service of this summons upon you and, in case of your failure to do so, for want thereof, plantiff will apply to the court for the relief demanded in the complaint"
it's dated October 25th. ... guess target really wants their 5000 dollars that i can't pay them
my boss is currently avoiding a summons. they only address they have for him is his work one, so they come in all the time while we're running lab experiments with participants and it's realllllly awkward.
Yikes. But you do have 30 days from today to reply, so you might want to look into getting a response filed. If you ignore this, it'll get even worse. I'm sorry Target is being stupid tho.
I am still battling paypal over 370$ they THINK I owe them. I keep getting letts from creditors, and each time I send them back a legal letter demanding they provide me a list of information regarding my account and why I owe them. I never hear back, and then 3 months later I get another letter from a different collections agency and I send them the same letter.
I just finished watching Queer as Folk (the US ver) for the first time. So sad, so jealous, so happy. Hal Sparks/Micheal is so freaking adorable. Now I have the sudden urge to go to The Fly and Woody's, but alas no one to go with.
OMG Are you me? This is my entire life right now lol. I'm obsessed with this show atm and I totally feel you on the Hal Sparks love. Michael is seriously the most adorkable television character ever! :)
We're super mature, obviously.
Ive been getting calls where they say i owe a debt, they know my full name and number and i have no idea what it is. Im thinking it might be something from the doctors but i have no idea and im kinda worried.
some debt collectors will use shady practices to get you to talk to them, I would demand something in writing the next time they call before you pay.
And the call is from some weird area code too.
I am ruthless at musical chairs
those are the only perks. oh and being paid for on all dates. ha
at least that's what it is for me. i get lonely but i'm not about to date someone if i don't have those aspects down.
imo the best reason to start a relationship is b/c you want to be in one and like the person, but you also love yourself and don't NEED the relationship to be fulfilled as a person. like i don't think codependency or relying on relationships to be happy are good things.
"You are hereby required to appear and defend the complaint filed against you in the above entitled action within thirty days from the date of service of this summons upon you and, in case of your failure to do so, for want thereof, plantiff will apply to the court for the relief demanded in the complaint"
it's dated October 25th.
... guess target really wants their 5000 dollars that i can't pay them
my boss is currently avoiding a summons. they only address they have for him is his work one, so they come in all the time while we're running lab experiments with participants and it's realllllly awkward.
this has been going on about a year.
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