5:29 pm - 11/16/2012

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Alicia Keys Speaks Out On Being Labeled A Homewrecker

Alicia Keys rocks her short curls for the November 26th issue of JET magazine. Inside, she talks about being labeled a homewrecker after rumors of an alleged affair with husband, Swizz Beatz, during his marriage to then wife, Mashonda. The girl on fire singer has already denied engaging in a relationship with Swizz during his first marriage, but decided to touch on the subject again…

[They] were apart for some time before we ever got together. That doesn’t matter to those who take pleasure in trying to knock others down, there’s no need to fight what’s not true.

On her powerful relationship with Swizz Beatz:

I’d never met a person where I could be fully myself. Swizz and I live in each other’s shadow. So we can occupy the same space and there is nothing but equality. There’s something really powerful about that.

chocobeans 16th-Nov-2012 11:35 pm (UTC)
I got BS for something similar. I tried to work things out with my ex and he said that he was in the same boat, not talking to/messing around with anyone else. Got my evidence to prove the contrary, got sick of the lying and other BS and kinda rebounded with someone else. Now his friend(s) are pretty much labeling me a "smut" and "slore." Like, these thirsty bitches don't even know an iota of the situation. But hey, he's a guy so he can go around and fuck whoever, even when he's with me.


I'm sorry you had that problem. People are the worse. I'm glad you found that special person. Timing is weird like that but at least you know you were faithful.
vonlisbon 16th-Nov-2012 11:46 pm (UTC)
Ugh well luckily most of my flack was along the lines of OMG YOU HAVE NO EMOTIONS HDU ENJOY SOMETHING LESS THAN LIKE TWO YEARS AFTER A BREAK-UP instead of calling me a whore, but yeah, it's so fucking ridiculous. Just people all distraught that you aren't basically clutching your ovaries and contemplating the ways you could have better satisfied your man.

IF YOU CAN BELIEVE IT, the ex didn't experience basically any of that. We talk now (hell it's been 4 years since we broke up - still with the same "rebound" dude) and he's just like "yeah everyone said they felt bad but then they all bought me drinks lol" Surpriiiiise.
chocobeans 17th-Nov-2012 12:17 am (UTC)
Just the worse, isn't it? I'm glad to hear you two are still together. I wish people would either mind their own business or stop expecting women to fall apart when the relationship does. I mean, guys get to move on for a number of reasons at any old pace.

It's times like this that I try not to hate on society and the BS expectations they place on ladies.
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