Look, I don't know shit about their relationship, but I totally feel the flack women (lbr it's always women) get when they don't act in a socially ascribed manner in matters of relationships. I dumped my ex of 5 years and found a fantastic man 2 weeks later - been together ever since and no, we did not fool around at all before the break-up. I can't tell you how much shit I got for not ~mourning appropriately~ after the break-up. Like fuck y'all, sorry I didn't whine and writhe as much as you wanted me to... ?