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Cesar Millan Reveals Suicide Attempt Following Dog's Death and Divorce

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Cesar Millan has a new show and is feeling like a top dog again—but two years ago he had given up on life.

An upcoming Nat Geo Wild documentary reveals that the Dog Whisperer star attempted suicide in 2010 following the death of his beloved pit bull, Daddy, and the breakup of his 16-year marriage.

"It was hard, because I wasn't expecting it," he says of the divorce from wife Ilusion, with whom he has two sons. "I went into a big depression. I lost a lot of weight. And I felt that I lost the most important thing, which was my family."

After surviving an overdose later that year, Millan says in the special, airing Nov. 25, that he eschewed medication and regained control of his life through exercise and work.

He also has a new love in his life, Jahira Dar, and is thinking about proposing—but he has to ask her parents first.

"I know they are going to say yes, but I like the whole Cinderella story," he says.

"I think my life has everything, you know, it has comedy has drama has action," Millan says. "I don't know about the ending yet. I'm just glad I can tell the story. Hopefully people get inspired, they get motivated. It doesn't matter where you come from. Really what I would like for people to get out of this is just to not lose hope, no matter what happens. You should never lose hope."

Next up, Leader of the Pack, which filmed in Spain, premieres on Nat Geo Wild in January.

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chikntetrazzini 16th-Nov-2012 02:58 am (UTC)
Cesar Millan is a dog abusing fraud. RME.
harborafternoon 16th-Nov-2012 02:59 am (UTC)
how so??
chikntetrazzini 16th-Nov-2012 03:01 am (UTC)
Google "cesar millan dog abuser" and you'll see. His techniques are just really disgusting.
hearthecity 16th-Nov-2012 03:00 am (UTC)
what
actxappalledx 16th-Nov-2012 03:01 am (UTC)
Yeah, IA, I don't approve of his training methods at all

I worked in a doggie day care for a significant amount of time, and they also did dog training classes on Sunday's. Cesar Millan and his methods were not welcomed anywhere near the dogs in our care/training classes. I feel like people don't do enough research on him b/c he's really not as wonderful as people think

Edited at 2012-11-16 03:04 am (UTC)
sweet_honesty 16th-Nov-2012 03:01 am (UTC)
And you came to this conclusion how?
d00ditsemily 16th-Nov-2012 03:06 am (UTC)
jlb88 16th-Nov-2012 03:17 am (UTC)
Meh, I understand the certain times he does it so the dog will get in the habit of knowing it is wrong. When they're in their "moments", yelling at them isn't going to do much.
adalmin 16th-Nov-2012 03:15 am (UTC)
Most of his methods have been disproved by and disapproved of by most major veterinary societies/groups/etc. and most animal behaviorists.
jadehunter 16th-Nov-2012 04:03 am (UTC)
Considering the dogs in his pack seem healthy and happy, I think that's going a little too far. Some of his techniques make me side-eye him, but a lot of what he says about dogs on his show is also really good.

For example, I really love how he emphasizes that dogs aren't there for your convenience, a dog has needs that must be met as well. He always tells people they need to exercise their dogs more, which is so true, and that they need to put the dogs on a consistent schedule (again, true) and that this will, in many cases, solve minor behavioral issues. So many dog owners don't know this, so I really have to give him credit for addressing these things.

The tapping he does with his foot, I don't like. The slight tugs on the leash is fine, but sometimes he jerks really hard with larger dogs, and I don't like that. But I also have to take into consideration what would be better for the dog? Obviously, it would be best if the dog could be taken to a specialist who doesn't do these questionable things. But if I had to pick between the dog being put down and Cesar Millan, I would choose Cesar Millan. If I had to pick between the dog's throat being stabbed by a prong collar while the owners pull on the leash to try and control it every time they go out...I would rather have Cesar Millan.

In the end, it really comes down to shades of grey. Some of what he says is really good. Others...not so much. But in many cases, the dogs that he has on his show have been to several different trainers and those same trainers have failed to rehabilitate the dogs. Are there some amazing trainers out there who can succeed without using Cesar Millan's methods? Absolutely. Do these average people have any chance of getting their dogs to these amazing trainers? I doubt it.
mementox 16th-Nov-2012 04:16 am (UTC)
THIS!

His training methods aren't for every dog, and some of them can be a bit harsh IMO... but there are some dogs who are so far gone that some of these methods are necessary to rehabilitate them.
grilled_cheese 16th-Nov-2012 07:30 am (UTC)
I actually don't hate Cesar Milan's techniques BUT I think the problem with him showing what he does is the number of people that attempt to emulate what he does. The reason it appears to work so well for Cesar is because he has impeccable timing and appears to read dogs pretty well. I don't have the same faith in many dog owners. That's why in my opinion it's better to use more positive reinforcement training; it's something that any person can do. The bigger tougher stuff that he works on is something a person should not attempt to do without the assistance of an actual behaviorist.
toilandblood 16th-Nov-2012 07:09 am (UTC)
what?
chikntetrazzini 16th-Nov-2012 09:48 am (UTC)
Was clicking the expand button too difficult for you?
bluekrinkle 16th-Nov-2012 08:46 pm (UTC)
Yep.
I give no fucks about him, sorry to say.
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