She's enabled or ignored things like Lindsay's drug use and probably forced or encouraged her to work when she really wasn't in a healthy mindset, imo Lindsay is an adult now so the decisions she makes are all on her but you can't deny she's fucked up because of her parents. We really don't know what all she has put her kids through but a decent parent would have intervened and made sure her kids were OK instead of running to the media every 5 minutes and talking about it. All I was insinuating was that they're both shitty moms but I won't deny that imo enabling can be a form of abuse.