SERIOUSLY. That "you are my life now" obsessive stuff is not healthy, totally regardless of the genders. But obviously there's gonna be criticism of a woman giving up her entire life for her man, since that was basically the norm IRL from, you know, THE BEGINNING OF TIME until like 1966. And even since then it's out there, a lot. If Bella's the only one "keeping the bus going," it's not equal at all. She basically has to beg him to stay with her...and to sleep with her. AUGH.