The Dr. Hees!
Its not always painfully awful. I've got a solid group if friends in WoW and while they are occasionally insensitive, 95% of the time, they're beyond awesome. And honestly most of the random people I come across that find out I'm of the lady variety, don't care and go on just the same.

Sadly it doesn't make the neckbeards any quieter. (Lol - my phone recognizes neckbeards as a word...)