<lj-user="noveria"> wanda pp
I love being in a relationship too but I hate the first steps.
I like being a year into the relationship. I have been with the same man for 8 years now, married for three and I'm just very comfortable in it. I still have lovey dovey feelings but the best part is feeling safe and understood.
Our relationship is a safe space where we can both grow and evolve.
This is why I find what she does so exhausting. It took a lot of time and effort to get to the good place and to do that twice a year just sounds like something I couldn't do.

I'm sorry you got your heart broken, it's terrible.
It took ages to recover from my first heartbreak but now that time has passed I kind of miss it. It's a kind of intense pain that you can experience without big consequences. It's not like the bad pain of losing a relative to death or something like that, it's a bad pain but you know you'll get over it.