Yeah, Jon had lots of other issues other than Cat.

I do think she was - if you look at it from how we see how relationships are supposed to work here - not in game of thrones land - i do think she was unfair to him. But that is looking at it in the eyes of 'modern' life here in 2012. The books are based on middle age life (not that that makes everything in them okay) and that is totally what would have happened.

But do I think she is to blame to everything bad that happened in his life? No. Do I think that makes her an evil character? No.