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3:18 pm - 08/30/2012

Dax Shepard, Kristen Bell: We'll get married when our gay friends can



The starring couple of this week's "Hit and Run," Dax Shepard and Kristen Bell, have yet to say "I do" after a two-year engagement. But the pair recently told CNN that they do want to get married - it's just that they're intent on waiting to tie the knot when their gay friends have that right, too.

“I don't believe in standing in the way of love, and I want to stand up for that right," Bell, 32, said. "And that's what it is. If someone wants to commit their life to another person, why would I not bolster that argument?”

Plus, her fiancé added, throwing a wedding before then "would just be tacky."


Shepard, 37, told CNN that taking a stance on gay marriage is by no means a way to put off a wedding.

"Do you know what this thing costs?" Shepard asked, holding up Bell's engagement ring. "This is more commitment than getting a tattoo! Like ... we own this thing!"

So no, he went on, it's not that they're "punishing America by not getting married. We're not going to have a party when half of our friends ... can't do that thing we're doing. We're not going to ask them to come celebrate a right they don't have. That's just tacky! Forget like anything else, it's like really tacky for us.”

And when they do say their vows, there's a chance they might try and coerce "Savages" star Taylor Kitsch to join them at the altar. Watch the video below to find out why.






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Slightly old, but I didn't see it posted. They're pretty cute in the videos, bordering on obnoxious. Still, I love Veronica Mars forever.
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swanqween 30th-Aug-2012 10:26 pm (UTC)
idk why but it always feels so phony when celebs do this
blahblahcakes64 30th-Aug-2012 10:28 pm (UTC)
Perfect first comment. Also, I may be speaking out of turn, being a straight person, but does any later gay person actually get offended when a straight friend marries? And beyond that, includes them in the celebration?
blahblahcakes64 30th-Aug-2012 10:29 pm (UTC)
(Not sure how that 'later' snuck in--autocorrect!)
tigermilk 30th-Aug-2012 10:38 pm (UTC)
I dated and was engaged to a woman a few years ago and I was angry at the law and the people who voted to ban it, but never at the people who were getting married.
screwhim 30th-Aug-2012 10:47 pm (UTC)
they didn't vote for the bans, they wholeheartedly support gay marriage so idk far be it from me to deny someone tax breaks on principle
girl, it's a recession save money where you can
owl_get_you 30th-Aug-2012 11:27 pm (UTC)
Yeah, actually. the other day one of my gay friends was talking about how cheated and angry he feels when he sees his friends get married.

He's obviously not the appointed spokesman for all gays everywhere, but he finds it upsetting.
hannahstarr 30th-Aug-2012 11:35 pm (UTC)
I can't speak for all gay people but I have a gay friend who gets angry/upset whenever he's out in public with heterosexual couples who are SUPER into each other (i.e. kissing all the time, cuddling at the table, etc). He explained to me that it's because he would never feel comfortable being that affectionate in public as a gay man, so to him it's like straight couples are rubbing their privilege in his face.

tl;dr, it's not MARRIAGE that upsets him so much as it is overtly affectionate straight couples.
vivisexion 30th-Aug-2012 10:29 pm (UTC)
ita
ohkimosabe 30th-Aug-2012 10:33 pm (UTC)
they could be, but i'd rather believe they aren't lol.
lillylilacs 30th-Aug-2012 10:35 pm (UTC)
mte
cherrynorth 30th-Aug-2012 10:37 pm (UTC)
that's always my gut reaction too, but at least they seem earnest in the video
openmyminibar 30th-Aug-2012 10:39 pm (UTC)
yup
bollyhood 30th-Aug-2012 10:43 pm (UTC)
Its self serving PR at best.
goofusgallant 30th-Aug-2012 10:46 pm (UTC)
mte
duckyduck92 30th-Aug-2012 10:47 pm (UTC)
this.
handsdowntoo 30th-Aug-2012 10:54 pm (UTC)
ITA. It always seems like an excuse for not wanting to get married.
sapphire908 30th-Aug-2012 11:03 pm (UTC)
That's my first reaction as well.
chihaya19 30th-Aug-2012 11:07 pm (UTC)
ia, sassy mr. darcy
hannahgrace456 30th-Aug-2012 11:07 pm (UTC)
IA
bathstone 30th-Aug-2012 11:10 pm (UTC)
It does. I always assume they're full of it and will get married anyway, lol.
xgirldc 30th-Aug-2012 11:32 pm (UTC)
my boyfriend and i are doing this. i feel like its the right thing. some of my best friends are gay and have been for most of my life - i want to stick up for their rights to be treated as everyone should.
ellelelle 31st-Aug-2012 12:32 am (UTC)
thank you
lightwillguide 31st-Aug-2012 01:53 am (UTC)
yeah, especially since they all end up getting married like a year later.
toilandblood 31st-Aug-2012 01:29 pm (UTC)
exactly. I don't think it makes a person any less pro-gay rights if they want to something for themselves and what they feel is right. like, putting your own future/desires on hold isn't necessarily going to help other people even though it sounds like a good cause.
nicholasdee 30th-Aug-2012 10:26 pm (UTC)
maybe they will stay true to their word unlike brangelina
bollyhood 30th-Aug-2012 10:30 pm (UTC)
Considering they have already adopted (albeit not from America) it would be hypocritical of them to do something like that.
nicholasdee 30th-Aug-2012 10:31 pm (UTC)
what does adoption have to do with it? they said they wouldn't marry until there was marriage equality and backtracked.
anna_bea2 30th-Aug-2012 10:31 pm (UTC)
brangelina got married?!
luvthatdrtywata 30th-Aug-2012 10:41 pm (UTC)
tbf they did always say that if their kids came to them and wanted them to do it, they would.
metrictons 30th-Aug-2012 11:17 pm (UTC)
*unlike Brad
toaerythinness 30th-Aug-2012 11:34 pm (UTC)
I love your icon.
emptyobsidian 30th-Aug-2012 11:41 pm (UTC)
I feel like everything they do is self-serving PR even though everyone will defend them.
bellwetherr 30th-Aug-2012 10:27 pm (UTC)
i would have any kind of some with taylor kitsch. lbr.

Edited at 2012-08-30 10:27 pm (UTC)
clarelove 30th-Aug-2012 10:28 pm (UTC)
what?
whitegirlthin 30th-Aug-2012 10:55 pm (UTC)
like a threesome or foursome or fivesome, etc...
bellwetherr 30th-Aug-2012 11:47 pm (UTC)
twosome, threesome, foursome, etc.
makahakat 30th-Aug-2012 10:52 pm (UTC)
ia
christophwaltz 30th-Aug-2012 10:57 pm (UTC)
ofc
clarelove 30th-Aug-2012 10:27 pm (UTC)
Thank God all these straight white people can make such a sacrifice tbh.
ohkimosabe 30th-Aug-2012 10:31 pm (UTC)
Omg seriously give me a break. A white and/or single person can't do anything anymore without getting crap for it. God forbid they feel empathy and are willing to do something to try and bring attention to inequality even if they don't deal with it.
clarelove 30th-Aug-2012 10:33 pm (UTC)
lol
ohkimosabe 30th-Aug-2012 10:35 pm (UTC)
and by single I mean straight* woops.
mellarks 30th-Aug-2012 10:45 pm (UTC)
Poor white people. (╯︵╰,)
the_pinkdress 30th-Aug-2012 10:46 pm (UTC)
but straight people are the ones who created and perpetuate these circumstances, and continue to benefit from privilege. these things are complex and we have to understand when we mess up.
vampireweekend 30th-Aug-2012 10:51 pm (UTC)
lol god i cry for them poor straight white people, they deal with so much everyday. they have their rights intact, they don't have to worry about anyone infringing in their lives.

wah wah wah
the_pinkdress 30th-Aug-2012 10:42 pm (UTC)
yeah this is dumb. i know it's meant as a nice gesture but it's kind of like appropriating the queer struggle, while denying the privilege straight people do have to marry.
trikc 30th-Aug-2012 11:32 pm (UTC)
well if they don't who will?
xgirldc 30th-Aug-2012 11:37 pm (UTC)
its a chance to keep the discussion moving forward. that's why i'm doing it. its not about sacrifice, its about keeping the dialogue open and doing the right thing to support those who have been such supports for me.
williammiller 30th-Aug-2012 10:27 pm (UTC)
I really like them together.
littlebones 30th-Aug-2012 10:30 pm (UTC)
i was just talking about how much i hate statements like this. i'm sure your gay friends don't care about YOUR wedding, guys, they care about the possibility of their own.
vivisexion 30th-Aug-2012 10:30 pm (UTC)
as a queer person i gotta say it always comes across as fake and self-serving to me when celebs say that
kalie_m 30th-Aug-2012 10:35 pm (UTC)
Kind of like passive activism?
scarletfbl 30th-Aug-2012 10:45 pm (UTC)
ia. They never follow through, and how will this change the fact that their gay friends can't get married? I'm always like Ok, that's nice, now back to reality... That should just have their wedding, at which ALL their friends will have a bangin time, and keep fighting the good fight. Win/win.

Edited at 2012-08-30 10:46 pm (UTC)
trikc 30th-Aug-2012 11:34 pm (UTC)
lol exactly. Like the govt would make a change based on their hollow promise.
withoutyoursmil 30th-Aug-2012 10:57 pm (UTC)
absolutely. i find it so irritating and seems like the celebs who say that have such a sense of self-importance. like oh wow, brad and angelina aren't getting married? well we'd better pass that marriage equality bill right away then!

and other than this "sacrifice" or w/e, what exactly are you doing to help the cause? are you petitioning? are you protesting?
theantipoet 30th-Aug-2012 10:31 pm (UTC)
as a gay man... I don't really give a shit.

by all means, get married. let me take advantage of the open bar and an excuse to look dapper in a suit while I can't get a relationship to last longer than 6 months.
okay_awesome 30th-Aug-2012 10:32 pm (UTC)
She's been kind of annoying me lately. I think I need to have a VMars marathon this weekend to fix that...
mcwicca 30th-Aug-2012 10:48 pm (UTC)
same tbh
christophwaltz 30th-Aug-2012 10:59 pm (UTC)
she's always been annoying to me tbh
haverchuck_bill 30th-Aug-2012 11:29 pm (UTC)
I love VM but I don't think I like Kristen Bell.
trikc 30th-Aug-2012 11:35 pm (UTC)
omg he's even worse. I listened to him on Stern last week and all he did was kiss ass. He's so desperate. I could never be with someone so lame.
lovefifteen 31st-Aug-2012 12:23 am (UTC)
she is intolerable imo

i love vmars but it felt like kristen's real personality snuck in towards the end there, making veronica insufferable and self righteous...i always get the feeling she thinks she's the wittiest, cutest girl in the room and everyone else needs to know it too
gabriella 31st-Aug-2012 02:38 am (UTC)
bless you for this comment

that is exactly how i feel
gabriella 31st-Aug-2012 02:39 am (UTC)
she is annoying as fuck

just don't watch s2 or s3 otherwise you'll just hate her
ohkimosabe 30th-Aug-2012 10:32 pm (UTC)
All gay people should come to Massachusetts and get married. Then party with Menino since he banned Chick-fil-a.
luvthatdrtywata 30th-Aug-2012 10:39 pm (UTC)
ia. and i'll crash all of yo weddings and drunkenly recite lines from good will hunting.
rinanina101 30th-Aug-2012 10:58 pm (UTC)
shit, i'd be so down for that, we'd party all day and night. it'd be the funnest place on earth
aka_plynn 31st-Aug-2012 01:51 am (UTC)
That's what I did last year. :) We can't wait to go back, too - fucking loved MA. But we'll come back and I'll die, because I'll eat nothing but whole belly clams the entire trip.
sanditar 30th-Aug-2012 10:32 pm (UTC)
I saw a post/ pics on tumblr about a couple that invited all their gay friends to dance their first dance at their wedding, i thought that was cute.
ohkimosabe 30th-Aug-2012 10:33 pm (UTC)
That is cute.
luvthatdrtywata 30th-Aug-2012 10:39 pm (UTC)
it's sorta cute and sorta condescending. i'm torn. </3
screwhim 30th-Aug-2012 10:55 pm (UTC)
yeah it feels patronizing
brosling 30th-Aug-2012 10:40 pm (UTC)
ya i saw that too! v cute
bollyhood 30th-Aug-2012 10:42 pm (UTC)
Did they throw a black guy in too?
flaca 30th-Aug-2012 11:37 pm (UTC)
that was so gross to me, since the song they picked was "wouldn't it be nice"

ugh
teacup_humans 30th-Aug-2012 10:34 pm (UTC)
lmao i knew people would be shitting on them for saying this, get over yourself ontd
williammiller 1st-Sep-2012 06:54 am (UTC)
Right? Especially because this was probably taken from their interview on The View weeks ago when they were asked about it specifically. And of course people are going to have a problem with it mostly because they hate Kristen Bell and act like she killed their dog or something.
tigermilk 30th-Aug-2012 10:35 pm (UTC)
No one in the world should be able to get married until I get married. Seriously. Someone find me a husband or you're all forever engaged.
ugotnothinonme 30th-Aug-2012 10:36 pm (UTC)
idk i appreciate the sentiment, as long as they mean it when they say it.
openmyminibar 30th-Aug-2012 10:36 pm (UTC)
ok cause u waiting to get married is gonna change anything
withoutyoursmil 30th-Aug-2012 10:58 pm (UTC)
mte
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