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Maddy Verst's Padded Bra On 'Toddlers & Tiaras' Might Cause Her Mother To Lose Custody



Remember little Maddy Verst from "Toddler's & Tiaras"? No? Well, let us refresh your memory.

The now 6-year-old's mother dressed her as Dolly Parton, complete with figure-enhancing padded bra and sculpting underwear, on a now-infamous episode of the show. If that sounds outrageous to you, you're not alone -- the stunt sparked plenty of controversy back in September of last year. And now it looks like it could cause Maddy's mother Lindsay Jackson to lose custody.

Jackson's estranged husband Bill Verst is seeking full custody of Maddy after claiming that his ex-wife sexually exploited their daughter by dressing her in the scandalous outfit and allowing her to participate in beauty pageants. According to reports, Kentucky court proceedings on Saturday got a little heated when the judge closed the hearing, throwing reporters out of the room and placing a gag order on Jackson.

The judge also made sure to ban Jackson from signing up her daughter for any pageants until the proceedings are finished. Just before the gag order, Jackson told "Fox News" that she hasn't done anything "illegal" to warrant losing custody and expressed concern for the future of beauty pageants:

We could really open up Pandora’s Box to set a precedent all over the world. What if years ago Gabby Douglas’ father said, ‘She’s not going to be a gymnast. She’s not going to move away from home and practice gymnastics because I won’t allow it,’ and he and Gabby’s mother got into a fight? We wouldn’t have gold medal winners, we wouldn’t have Miss America, we wouldn’t have Miss USA.


Hm, we doubt Gabby Douglas' parents would throw a padded bra on their child for national television, but that's just us. To make matters worse, Maddy's father is a convicted felon currently on probation for a DUI and child endangerment. While we were certainly a little... shocked after seeing a young child in a significantly padded bra, Jackson isn't the only pageant mom outfitting her child in racy clothes. People were equally as incensed after "Toddlers & Tiaras" featured a 3-year-old dressed like Julia Roberts' prostitute character in "Pretty Woman" just one week later.

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mellarks 20th-Aug-2012 11:21 pm (UTC)
What in the fresh hell is this Gabby Douglas argument...

Poor Maddy. :(
memoirsofaduck 20th-Aug-2012 11:34 pm (UTC)
Tomaaas ♥
one_hoopy_frood 20th-Aug-2012 11:27 pm (UTC)
Yeah as far as I know there are no child pageant olympics...
hangthemj 20th-Aug-2012 11:27 pm (UTC)
iawtc wtf is that about
mercystars 21st-Aug-2012 12:07 am (UTC)
came here to say this
sky3205 21st-Aug-2012 01:21 am (UTC)
ikr? so random
fleuriee 20th-Aug-2012 11:22 pm (UTC)
I swear I wore worse stuff when playing dress up, difference is I wasn't on tv, blimey.
poehleroid 20th-Aug-2012 11:24 pm (UTC)
i think there's a difference between you deciding to dress up like that when you're playing with friends, and your mom dressing you up like that for you to parade on stage and be judged in.
pixiegerms 20th-Aug-2012 11:39 pm (UTC)
and on national television for christ's sake
poehleroid 20th-Aug-2012 11:23 pm (UTC)
wait
did she make those kid boobs herself, or did she buy them?

like
are there people that SELL that?
juel1979 20th-Aug-2012 11:29 pm (UTC)
It was a costume made for the mom when she was little in pageants and she passed it down to her kid.
vehiclesshockme 20th-Aug-2012 11:35 pm (UTC)
If I remember correctly it was an old costume of her mom's from when she did pageants.
treegrowth 21st-Aug-2012 12:03 am (UTC)
oh my god :(
flaca 20th-Aug-2012 11:25 pm (UTC)
disgusting.

child beauty pageants should be illegal, idec.
josiefier 21st-Aug-2012 12:07 am (UTC)
Agreed.
sapphybelle 20th-Aug-2012 11:25 pm (UTC)
This whole thing is going to end badly for the kid no matter what :/
jaejoongtsu 20th-Aug-2012 11:30 pm (UTC)
I agree, dear sister.
childish 20th-Aug-2012 11:35 pm (UTC)
Yep.
jigglemypuff 20th-Aug-2012 11:25 pm (UTC)
Lol @ her thinking her kid is Gabby Douglas.

Gabby has talent.
maitressefleche 20th-Aug-2012 11:28 pm (UTC)
her kid is only 6 years old, how do you know she's not talented?
ifuckingluvya 20th-Aug-2012 11:49 pm (UTC)
the children is not who we should be laughing at
esoteriq 20th-Aug-2012 11:26 pm (UTC)
I feel like the moms who actually expose their daughters' bodies are more worrisome than this. This seems more campy/cartoonish than the bikinis and shit some of those kids are wearing.
simon_alexander 20th-Aug-2012 11:27 pm (UTC)
I've seen the ep. The mom thought it was more funny than sexy, and Maddy loved doing it. I've also seen an ep about another kid, but Maddy cameoed in the background in the same costume. I don't think this is going to ruin her.
moliphino 21st-Aug-2012 12:33 am (UTC)
This. The costume had fake boobs, but the kid was completely covered up.

Paisley's mother does way worse (the Pretty Woman and Slave Leia costumes).
dum_dum_pops 20th-Aug-2012 11:44 pm (UTC)
I totally agree. The little girl was completely clothed and covered and it wasn't as if her momma put the padded bra on to make her look sexy in daily life. It was for a costume.
secretivexhero 20th-Aug-2012 11:46 pm (UTC)
IA. my brother works in psychology and from what hes said about child predators, I will NEVER FUCKING dress my kid in anything slightly showy, even bathing suits will have to be very covered tbh. I wore the skimpiest ones growing up tbh I wouldnt do that for my kid because of that and because it gives them this belief that they need to dress skimpy to be validated
soavantgarde 21st-Aug-2012 12:26 am (UTC)
mte, idg why everyone is losing their shit over this. the mom was trying to be cute and funny, not sexualizing her child
redleigh86 21st-Aug-2012 12:42 am (UTC)
Yeah. I remember being more outraged when I first saw the episode but then I realized I've seen far worse on this show and this little girl's costume/performance was very much a cartoony parody and not at all sexually titillating or anything. I think what made it a big issue was the fact it aired on national tv, otherwise no one would've cared at all.
simon_alexander 20th-Aug-2012 11:26 pm (UTC)
Express concern for the future of pageants, but not for your child who may be lost to a man with a history of child endangerment?

I don't know, this doesn't seem like the best time to white knight for pageants tbh
laurasue 21st-Aug-2012 06:03 am (UTC)
Took the words right out of my mouth. (Fingers?)
sexyvegeta 20th-Aug-2012 11:26 pm (UTC)
disgusting.
one_hoopy_frood 20th-Aug-2012 11:27 pm (UTC)
No side is the winning side here.
simon_alexander 20th-Aug-2012 11:28 pm (UTC)
ia :/
nanachic 20th-Aug-2012 11:33 pm (UTC)
Truth
tigersnap 20th-Aug-2012 11:28 pm (UTC)
I can't see the video, but just based on reading some of this it doesn't seem like that big of a deal. She's just playing dress up... Aside from that child beauty pageants are lame.
brucelynn 20th-Aug-2012 11:28 pm (UTC)
The hell?

mandramoddle 20th-Aug-2012 11:29 pm (UTC)
Even though it's bloody hot out I don't let my 7-year-old wear short shorts, short dresses, or short skirts. IDisc and Dateline have made me paranoid. :/
unclecraig 20th-Aug-2012 11:45 pm (UTC)
I don't get this line of thinking at all. Maybe I'm off base here but it seems victim blamey to me, like why would we have to worry about children dressing in ways that are perfectly innocent and not sexual to a majority of the population just bc there's sickos out there? Like how ppl freak out about little girls wearing two piece bathing suits...idgi

secretivexhero 20th-Aug-2012 11:49 pm (UTC)
It's not victim blaming at all, and I'm so fucking tired of that argument.

No one's excusing the disgusting predators. People are saying that because of the nature of the world out there, they wouldn't want their kids dressed in sexualized ways. Your body is YOURS, but children don't know any better and can't make those decisions for themselves. You're supposed to protect your kids.

I'm sure every parent or good person in the world would want to rid the world of people that make this a problem in the first place, but they can't, and therefore have to protect their kids however they can.
mandramoddle 21st-Aug-2012 12:36 am (UTC)
A lot of the clothes designed today for little girls are starting to get more and more risqué. And don't get me started on the Halloween costumes. I wasn't much older than she is when I already started getting attention from men in their 40s and it made me feel very uncomfortable.. The majority of the population probably won't care, you're right. Still, I'm going to make sure she's dressing her age until she's older.
d00ditsemily 21st-Aug-2012 01:16 am (UTC)
ia. My daughter wears age appropriate clothes that include shorts, sun dresses, etc. She doesn't wear bikinis because i'm just nhft on my 2 year old.
pink_dog 21st-Aug-2012 01:27 am (UTC)
the world is dangerous.

should we HAVE to try to pre-emptively protect our children from assault, by any ridiculous means necessary? No. But the world is messed up. You never know. I'll do anything reasonable to try to prevent the potential pedo at the community pool from noticing my daughter.
antoinettemarie 21st-Aug-2012 02:20 pm (UTC)
Two pieces aren't an issue. It is when they are triangle, string bikinis when it gets worrisome. Or fishnet. How in the fuck do you even find fishnet for a three years old? Or garters? They also sell thongs for little girls too.

The problem isn't so much that ohhh everyone will sexualize them, it is that those garments have sexual connotations and being worn in a *beauty* pageant. Frankly, there's no age where wearing a corseted top is hunky dory and not noticed. And there is no need to expose your child in those garments. Talking about sex and respecting/loving your body is one thing. The fact is these clothes are used for merely sexual purposes. If she was 15/16, honestly I would find it more exploratory and playing with sex, but as a 4 year old? Hell no. Half of the four year olds I watch can't even tie shoes.
iceynickles 21st-Aug-2012 03:16 am (UTC)
Dress your kid the way you want to. There's no reason they HAVE to wear short shorts anyway. You're trying to keep your child safe in a way that makes sense to you and makes you feel better so... *high five* I never wore that stuff when I was a kid but I don't think it made me really hot. That was just the way I dressed.

The next time my niece visits I'll be buying her some longer dresses and stuff to go under. I might sew her some longer shorts too since I did not feel comfortable taking her out in what looked like booty shorts and stuff so tight that I couldn't imagine being comfortable. On top of that, she was cold most of the time last time she visited but her father hadn't packed long pants or sleeves for instances where it was a bit cooler or she was going to be in AC like we have in our house.
angelakinsey 20th-Aug-2012 11:30 pm (UTC)
Obviously this mom was doing something terrible, but to lose custody completely over beauty pageants? She should be court ordered to family counseling or something first, especially if the father has be known to place the child in danger of serious physical harm.
rlmoonyk 20th-Aug-2012 11:31 pm (UTC)
"What if years ago Gabby Douglas’ father said, ‘She’s not going to be a gymnast. She’s not going to move away from home and practice gymnastics because I won’t allow it,’

what kind of argument is this? dressing your child in sexual outfits is not the same thing as gymnastics
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