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Rihanna tells Oprah 'I still love' Chris Brown on 'Oprah's Next Chapter'



Rihanna has not only forgiven Chris Brown, the "Talk That Talk" singer has admitted to still being in love with him.

"I'm single but we have maintained a very close friendship since the restraining order has been dropped," Rihanna said in an interview Sunday. "It's not easy."


As previously reported, the Grammy Award winning singer and actress joined Oprah Winfrey for a no-holds-barred interview in Barbados. Open and honest, she also confirmed rumors that she and Brown reconnected in St. Tropez earlier this year.

"We went to a mutual friend's party on a yacht. It's awkward because I still love him," Rihanna said while admitting that her "stomach drops" when she's around him. "I have to maintain this poker face."

While they have reconnected, not just in person but via music on the remixes to their songs "Birthday Cake" and "Turn Up The Music," Rihanna has moved forward but still cares about Brown's well being.

Calling him the "first love" of her life, Rihanna says "I'm not at peace if he is unhappy."

"I truly love him and the main thing for me is that he is at peace," says Rihanna. "I'm not at peace if he is unhappy or he is still lonely. I care. It actually matters that he finds that peace."


While appearing "Oprah's Next Chapter" Rihanna also had a few special moments, including giving her mother a house and visiting her childhood home.

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xoxotalli 20th-Aug-2012 05:05 am (UTC)
She has at the very least been blowing him.
dottiehinkle 20th-Aug-2012 05:06 am (UTC)
lol gurl
ride_the_jitney 20th-Aug-2012 05:15 am (UTC)
ia tbh
ibelieveinsa 20th-Aug-2012 05:20 am (UTC)
eigengrau 20th-Aug-2012 05:23 am (UTC)
this gif lmao
esoteriq 20th-Aug-2012 05:29 am (UTC)
loool
steph_monster 20th-Aug-2012 05:38 am (UTC)
OMG

ily best frand <3
saikaro_x 20th-Aug-2012 05:47 am (UTC)
lolll
bee_xx3 20th-Aug-2012 06:33 am (UTC)
lmao
misscrystal 20th-Aug-2012 05:47 am (UTC)
I bet it's like chewing a pencil.
zipster 20th-Aug-2012 12:14 pm (UTC)
dead
odeeryme 20th-Aug-2012 12:16 pm (UTC)
lmao
viva_espanyol 20th-Aug-2012 01:55 pm (UTC)
IA. How fucking sad tbh :/
demented_21 20th-Aug-2012 04:29 pm (UTC)
This post could not have a better (or more accurate) first comment.
scarybuttshaka 20th-Aug-2012 05:06 am (UTC)
what she needs to do is to go see a therapist.
shahoney 20th-Aug-2012 05:15 am (UTC)
mte. idk what the syndrome is called, but i've heard of this before--being in love with the person who hurts you and ultimately only cares about the feelings of the person who hurt you over yourself. SHE REALLY NEEDS HELP.
scarybuttshaka 20th-Aug-2012 05:18 am (UTC)
yeah. I know someone who went through that and we got her through it. It was rough but she finally saw what he did to her wasn't okay and there is no need to be worried about him. she needed to worry about herself.
muddyroad 20th-Aug-2012 06:10 am (UTC)
Stockholm syndrome and battered woman syndrome/ learned helplessness. :( And if she had ANY real friends or anyone who cared for her at all they'd talk her into seeing a headshrinker STAT.

Edited at 2012-08-20 06:10 am (UTC)
silentxstrom 20th-Aug-2012 01:22 pm (UTC)
It's obviously she's still being affected by the abuse. I don't understand why she continues to hang out with him if he clearly makes her so uneasy. it's really sad; she needs talk to a therapist b/c she looked so upset while discussing that w/ Oprah.
foureyedgirl 20th-Aug-2012 05:15 am (UTC)
true
emesieremonde 20th-Aug-2012 05:22 am (UTC)
yup yup
and Oprah as well tbqh
magwildwood 20th-Aug-2012 05:35 am (UTC)
And to cease contact with him. When she was going on about how he was villafied and needed someone to help him, it was obvious that he still has control over her. Bad news.
evelyn_94 20th-Aug-2012 11:16 am (UTC)
this
where are her so called 'friends'?
derrobitch 20th-Aug-2012 12:40 pm (UTC)
IA.

I feel like she's going to get a lot of hate and judgement for this, when it's actually a very common thing amongst DV victims... feeling like you have to "protect" the person YOU need protection FROM. She needs therapy to help her see sense again
leopard_legs 20th-Aug-2012 12:47 pm (UTC)
yeah
I can't judge her, I just feel bad for her because she's in a real messed up place. It'll be a long road, but she'll get through it if she wants to.
sweet_honesty 20th-Aug-2012 01:18 pm (UTC)
I agree, she doesn't need hate or judgement, she needs help
lachica2000 20th-Aug-2012 01:54 pm (UTC)
Seriously. She needs a standing appointment for probably a long time.
16_bit_goddess 20th-Aug-2012 03:58 pm (UTC)
yessssss ffs. if I were in her position and had her money I'd have a team of therapists by now.
tinydevastation 20th-Aug-2012 05:06 am (UTC)
Ugh. I can't.
shh_im_a_ninja 20th-Aug-2012 05:07 am (UTC)

Honey...
litenbritemanay 20th-Aug-2012 05:49 am (UTC)
LMAO!!!
superelle07 20th-Aug-2012 10:36 am (UTC)
haha perfect
nathanandbarry 20th-Aug-2012 03:32 pm (UTC)
There are some awesome gifs in this post.
theflyingbeet 20th-Aug-2012 08:30 pm (UTC)
pretty much this
hot143chocolate 20th-Aug-2012 05:07 am (UTC)
I really hope she get's the help she needs to find closure.

I feel so much compassion for her & for men and woman who are in similar situations.
scarybuttshaka 20th-Aug-2012 05:08 am (UTC)
same. They should've put her in therapy after the whole thing happened.
slutzilla 20th-Aug-2012 05:11 am (UTC)
the only person who can fix you is you though
hot143chocolate 20th-Aug-2012 05:13 am (UTC)
unless she is a danger to herself or others, then the decision to get help is hers to make or not make for herself

hopefully seeing this interview will prompt her to get help or at the very least cause those who care about her to successfully encourage her to do so
dinkydo 20th-Aug-2012 05:14 am (UTC)
How do you know "they" haven't?
goodassjob 20th-Aug-2012 05:25 am (UTC)
Rihanna refused if I recall correctly.
cossard 20th-Aug-2012 07:12 am (UTC)
me too it makes my heart ache
shh_im_a_ninja 20th-Aug-2012 05:09 am (UTC)
seriously
bcain1992 20th-Aug-2012 05:14 am (UTC)
She said that they both know they still love each other and always will.
metatrix 20th-Aug-2012 01:07 pm (UTC)
awkward for his new gf.
nicolesnitchie 20th-Aug-2012 04:55 pm (UTC)
lmao chris doesn't love her
dnttllhrry 20th-Aug-2012 09:19 pm (UTC)
Let me guess, he's said that to her behind closed doors to make her feel restitution, but shades her publicly, or doesnt acknowledge her at all. All while HAVING A GIRLFRIEND.
seraphitta 20th-Aug-2012 05:26 am (UTC)
I loled
rhapsodeeinblue 20th-Aug-2012 05:40 am (UTC)
mte
vehiclesshockme 20th-Aug-2012 05:45 am (UTC)
Legitimately my first thought.
saikaro_x 20th-Aug-2012 05:48 am (UTC)
mte
deja_vu822 20th-Aug-2012 06:20 am (UTC)
lol mte
solsty 20th-Aug-2012 08:59 am (UTC)
First thought.
ukbedeviled 20th-Aug-2012 01:08 pm (UTC)
she was trying to hard to come off deep, & all she did was not make sense. Oprah really failed with this interview.
xdecadentx 20th-Aug-2012 01:14 pm (UTC)
IKR?
trikc 20th-Aug-2012 01:29 pm (UTC)
exactly. Though I don't know that she was "maintaining" it to begin with.
nathanandbarry 20th-Aug-2012 03:40 pm (UTC)
I thought this too.
secretly secre21st-Aug-2012 08:21 pm (UTC)
lol
grande_latte 20th-Aug-2012 05:08 am (UTC)
I feel bad for her she needs help
genbu_no_miko24 20th-Aug-2012 05:08 am (UTC)
ugh >:|
jessicastamina 20th-Aug-2012 05:09 am (UTC)
i'm happy she's moved on and is at peace, but I still want to throw bricks @ his mouth until his teeth fall out. i also sobbed while listening to her talk about her grandma </3
verystefunny 20th-Aug-2012 05:37 am (UTC)
"happy she's moved on and is at peace"

you need to re-read the article, skyler.
odeeryme 20th-Aug-2012 12:19 pm (UTC)
lol
nicolesnitchie 20th-Aug-2012 04:56 pm (UTC)
lolll mte
beoweasel 20th-Aug-2012 05:42 am (UTC)
Yeah, she hasn't really moved on, if she's still in love with her abuser. :/
goodassjob 20th-Aug-2012 06:48 am (UTC)
Lmao. Did you not see any of the interview? She basically admitted she was still in love with him, said he was absolutely the love of her life and that they just recently hung out in France....
calcified 20th-Aug-2012 05:09 am (UTC)
I feel like out of context, this seems worse than it was. It seemed less about Chris and more about her dad and finding peace with people who do her wrong. Don't agree with all her thoughts about it, but forgiveness is always a work in progress.
starcrossedkiss 20th-Aug-2012 02:39 pm (UTC)
exactly.. she said she had to make peace with her dad and forgive him before she could forgive chris
isntdaveone 20th-Aug-2012 05:09 am (UTC)
hunty 20th-Aug-2012 05:18 am (UTC)
mte raven
yououghtaknow 20th-Aug-2012 05:09 am (UTC)
gurl
one_hoopy_frood 20th-Aug-2012 05:09 am (UTC)
I just want her to be happy and healthy :(
lazmy 20th-Aug-2012 05:10 am (UTC)
iawtc i wanted to say this but i cant form coherent sentences when this subject comes up
one_hoopy_frood 20th-Aug-2012 05:17 am (UTC)
It's hard, because there's a lot more I want to say but I can't really articulate any of that. It all boils down to this one thing though.
candycheeks 20th-Aug-2012 05:14 am (UTC)
same
flunkifer 20th-Aug-2012 05:54 am (UTC)
for real, this whole thing just breaks my heart

idk how people can get pissed off at her or ridicule her or make fun of her over this when it's so obvious she just needs help.
antoinettemarie 20th-Aug-2012 10:32 am (UTC)
With all of her daddy issues, was she ever really? Not many people had perfectly alright home lives then end up in an abusive relationship; it is much more likely she already experienced prior trauma and does not have a good support system that she trusts seriously.
ijkliza 20th-Aug-2012 05:09 am (UTC)
we have maintained a very close friendship since the restraining order has been dropped

if you find yourself actually able to use this sentence... damn.
foureyedgirl 20th-Aug-2012 05:17 am (UTC)
fucking this..i mean seriously :/
empirebird 20th-Aug-2012 05:22 am (UTC)
ikr? poor girl.
harrypotterlvr3 20th-Aug-2012 05:24 am (UTC)
ikr jesus
silentxstrom 20th-Aug-2012 01:25 pm (UTC)
reading that makes me feel so uneasy.
nathanandbarry 20th-Aug-2012 03:41 pm (UTC)
ikr?
paarycia 20th-Aug-2012 05:36 pm (UTC)
mte
secretly 21st-Aug-2012 08:25 pm (UTC)
ikr :/
lazmy 20th-Aug-2012 05:10 am (UTC)
i have so many feelings about this situation and it reminds me of my mother and what she went through :|
shahoney 20th-Aug-2012 05:17 am (UTC)
it reminds me of my mom's abusive relationship with my dad too :(
scarybuttshaka 20th-Aug-2012 05:22 am (UTC)
same here.
ekrelly 20th-Aug-2012 05:22 am (UTC)
same.
ronweezy 20th-Aug-2012 05:35 am (UTC)
same :/
firetears_x 20th-Aug-2012 06:40 am (UTC)
Me too. Well, not my mother but my sister and the abusive relationship she had with her first love and how it fucked her up royally.
cossard 20th-Aug-2012 07:13 am (UTC)
me too. i take it really personally when people insult or blame her for this situation.
solsty 20th-Aug-2012 09:02 am (UTC)
Same.
hello_samm 20th-Aug-2012 01:30 pm (UTC)
Me too. Especially since my mom got a kid out of it.
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