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Paris Jackson blasts longtime friend on twitter. Fans proceed to bully 14yr-old friend

Paris Jackson with friend, Spencer Malnik (spencernicolee), during happier times
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frenchverbs 10th-Aug-2012 02:14 am (UTC)
Uh, TJ...you fought so hard for temp guardianship and should really get on your job right now.

Paris should have her twitter account cancelled. She seems like a good kid, very bright and all, but some of her tweets are inappropriate, and her life should not be this open to everyone.
leitao 10th-Aug-2012 07:37 am (UTC)
This. =_=
so_chic_doll 10th-Aug-2012 03:11 am (UTC)
she's acting like a lot of 14 year olds out there rn... but the problem is, most 14 year olds don't have millions of people seeing everything they say.
mckenziejr2002 10th-Aug-2012 03:25 am (UTC)
Oh God I am so scared to have kid in this information age. How do you keep them away from this stuff?

Edit: I know you need to parent them, but if they are anything like I was, they find a way around it. I am worried I will be too stupid to see it!!

Edited at 2012-08-10 03:27 am (UTC)
x_brittacular 10th-Aug-2012 03:56 am (UTC)
Lawd. Twitter caused me so much unnecessary drama a few years back. It's just easier for me to make it private so I can talk shit about people.
no_x_doubts 10th-Aug-2012 04:31 am (UTC)
ONCE AGAIN why children should not be allowed on social networking sites
ladypolitik 10th-Aug-2012 12:50 pm (UTC)
This is seriously the only point worth making on the topic.
jeru02 10th-Aug-2012 04:46 am (UTC)
Over the magnified teen angst.
Give me some fabulous BLANKET!
kstew 10th-Aug-2012 04:49 am (UTC)
Paris does not need to be on twitter.
mjspice 10th-Aug-2012 06:24 am (UTC)
Damn....Paris girl what you doin??
luetta 10th-Aug-2012 06:33 am (UTC)
While I don't think this situation was handled well, I've got to make a case for Paris here:

In an effort to gain more fans/followers for herself, Spencer decided to use her "friend" by spreading around a false phone number claiming it was Paris'. Paris tweeted this information, not because "fame has gone to her head", but because she needed to let her followers know that the number was not hers, that Spencer was lying, and that she no longer trusts Spencer. When Paris' followers crossed the line in their messages to Spencer, Paris rightfully spoke up for them to leave Spencer alone (which is more than most "real" celebrities, who are much older, do when their followers go berserk on Twitter).

This isn't an isolated incident of trust being broken, the Malnik family apparently has a previous history of using both Michael Jackson and his children. previously ties had been cut with the Malnik's (for good reason), and it was only relatively recently that Spencer and Paris reconnected, seemingly due to some involvement from Brett Ratner.

At the mere age of 14 Paris has to deal with both family and friends publicly using her, public interest/obsession over her, the loss of the only parent she ever knew and dearly loved, and routine harassment (including people sending her autopsy photos of aforementioned dearly loved parent). Given all of that, not to mention her relatives being more concerned with money and week long Uno championships at Spa's rather than guidance, I think she's handling herself as good as one could expect. Perhaps grown folks can stop making snap judgments, and instead take time to learn more about a situation so they can understand why she's behaving the way she is.
cyrusgomezlove 10th-Aug-2012 07:26 am (UTC)
iawtc. idt a lot of people know the background history between the Malnik family and the Jacksons, or even what really happened in this situation because Paris deleted the tweets.

Edited at 2012-08-10 07:27 am (UTC)
luetta 10th-Aug-2012 09:22 am (UTC)
Definitely. Agreed 100%.
leitao 10th-Aug-2012 07:58 am (UTC)
I agree, especially with your last paragraph. There's a lot of messed up stuff happening in Paris' life right now, and it seems like she's lacking strong parental involvement and guidance in her life. What she did was wrong, of course, but fourteen-year-olds can't raise themselves . . . and Paris' mistakes/drama with friends online is only amplified by her faaaar too public platform, and the media interest she draws. =/

I mean, this Twitter drama ain't new. It's being going on for two/three years now (with Prince and Paris being horribly bullied themselves) . . . and none of the adult Jacksons have stepped in.

I understand that the kids have multiple nannies . . . so if one of the Jacksons can't/won't get involved in this, why not give authority to a nanny to monitor online activity? Shut this stuff down. Seriously, it's not that hard. My own nieces (around Paris' age) got into a lot of trouble online a while ago . . . luckily, they have involved parents who deleted their accounts, took away their phones, and limited internet access. Voila! lol
ladypolitik 10th-Aug-2012 01:10 pm (UTC)
Wasnt aware that there was a family-friend link/history; interesting, I assumed a pretty basic perception of this whole situation, which I think still ultimately informs why things have spun outta control, but the context is edifying.
maroontalic 10th-Aug-2012 09:48 am (UTC)
She's such a little twat.
curse_of_avalon 10th-Aug-2012 12:17 pm (UTC)
There's things you just don't do and if you still do them it says a lot about yourself.

So Either she's dumb and didn#t see this coming
Or she wanted to show her ex friend how much more power she had

Either makes her a brat.
pansylove 10th-Aug-2012 12:54 pm (UTC)
Teenagers acting like silly immature teenagers...

When I listen to my younger cousins talk, it's like they're another species tbh. I don't understand.
ladypolitik 10th-Aug-2012 01:18 pm (UTC)
There are basically three remarks that offer remotely relevant assessments of the story; everything else is just people projecting misguided notions of ~celebrity PWR~ way too hard onto the characters involved simply because of incidental celebrity associations and because, natch, this is a celeb gossip forum.

Edited at 2012-08-10 01:20 pm (UTC)
kyosh 10th-Aug-2012 01:33 pm (UTC)
I'm so glad there was no social networking when I was a teen. My 14 year old cousin's Twitter/Facebook accounts make me CRINGE. The stuff she puts up there is like oh honey, NO, do not put that out in public please (on top of that the inane drivel she spews all day long clogs up my feed >:| )

I do have to bite my tongue sometimes and remind myself we are not that different. I thought/wrote/said all the same stupid shit when I was her age as well. The only difference was it was confined to locked diaries or conversations between friends. It freaks me out. Especially when she posts all this stuff about say, being home on her own to her 280+ followers. Even 14 year old me knew better than that!
novacek001 10th-Aug-2012 03:42 pm (UTC)
wow talk about your 'immature + power/influence' mishaps
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