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7:48 pm - 05/22/2012

Olympian Lolo Jones: Being a Virgin Hinders Finding a Boyfriend



She's got looks, strength, and a ticket to London to run in the Olympics. So what is track & field star Lori "Lolo" Jones missing? A steady boyfriend.

She's been looking online – with every online dating service out there, reports HBO's Real Sports with Bryant Gumbel – and has had the most luck on Twitter, she says. Although not that much luck.

Holding back the 29-year-old in her quest, possibly, is the fact that she recently Tweeted that she is a virgin. "It's something, a gift I want to give my husband," she says on an episode of the pay-cable program to air May 22.

"This journey has been hard," she continues. "It's the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. Harder than training for the Olympics. Harder than studying for college has been staying a virgin before marriage."

She admits, "I've been tempted. I've had guys tell me … 'Hey, you know, if you have sex, it'll help you run faster.' "


Only Jones didn't buy that suggestion, despite how much she wants the gold medal. "If you marry me," she quips on the show, "then yeah."

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ugly_jacket 23rd-May-2012 12:49 am (UTC)
good for her, but i was not gonna wait that long god damn
chrislola 23rd-May-2012 01:22 am (UTC)
mte. Waiting wasn't really anything I ever considered, but I still respect those who do. I can't imagine being 29 and still a virgin, but I lost mine pretty early.
joliebelle 23rd-May-2012 02:11 am (UTC)
I was watching an episode of say yes to the dress atl, and the bride was 47 and a virgin.
passions_voice 23rd-May-2012 02:26 am (UTC)
I remember that episode. I thought that was kind of sweet.
heart_iswild 23rd-May-2012 03:50 am (UTC)
gonna be me
grande_latte 23rd-May-2012 12:50 am (UTC)
good for her tho
partyonyourhead 23rd-May-2012 12:50 am (UTC)
She's from my town, so this is a bit awkward to read. Good for her for sticking to her morals though.
sourblowpop19 23rd-May-2012 04:53 am (UTC)
mine too! i find it more awkward that the paper and news reported on it. i didn't realize it was newspaper worthy.
clubland 23rd-May-2012 09:19 pm (UTC)
It's awkward that somebody from your town is waiting until marriage to have sex? lol
partyonyourhead 24th-May-2012 02:17 am (UTC)
Well, it was in the paper and on the news.
genbu_no_miko24 23rd-May-2012 12:50 am (UTC)
whatever makes you happy :)
enid_keaner 23rd-May-2012 12:50 am (UTC)
I think it sucks that people give those who want to wait a hard time about it.
backupblood 23rd-May-2012 12:52 am (UTC)
IA. I mean, I would never wait that long (as a fellow virgin), but if they feel like it's something very serious and cherished more power to them.
enid_keaner 23rd-May-2012 12:53 am (UTC)
I'll just never understand why so many people think they the right to comment on someone's sex life or lack there of.

I was a virgin well into my 20s and, when I was younger, people gave me so much grief about it.
genbu_no_miko24 23rd-May-2012 12:54 am (UTC)
Ia. I think shaming people for losing, or keeping it is annoying.

Edited at 2012-05-23 12:54 am (UTC)
skeletwin 23rd-May-2012 12:56 am (UTC)
i always was made fun or people would just tell me to just get it over with
supernature_971 23rd-May-2012 12:57 am (UTC)
ia

Mind your own business dammit.
roxas39 23rd-May-2012 12:58 am (UTC)
mte
thelovehater 23rd-May-2012 12:59 am (UTC)
IA, people forget that everyone views sex differently and if those are their feelings on it you've got to respect that, whether or not you agree with it.
celtic_thistle 23rd-May-2012 01:03 am (UTC)
I think it's up to each person to make that choice for themselves, free of pressure, but the rationale around "saving yourself" has always bothered me and seemed really archaic and oppressive. Just my opinion.
livingsign 23rd-May-2012 01:10 am (UTC)
i totally agree
in situations like that it should be purely "to each their own"
teaaet 23rd-May-2012 01:35 am (UTC)
i don't understand how this comes up in conversation so frequently for her. and all guys aren't this shitty
pandoras_boxset 23rd-May-2012 01:42 am (UTC)
i don't think anyone has the right to judge anyone else's sex life (or lack thereof), however, i would hope that those who choose to wait do so simply because they want to, and not because they've been inundated with ridiculous, slut-shaming, anti-woman, sex-negative messages.
orlybb 23rd-May-2012 01:45 am (UTC)
ita
iamglory 23rd-May-2012 02:17 am (UTC)
ME TOO!
jearsforqueers 23rd-May-2012 02:26 am (UTC)
IA.

I had one friend- who slept with a lot of people during our first year in college- tell me that I should just "DO it already and get over it!"

Sorry, I have respect for myself and my body. I am NOT going to just sleep with someone to say that I had sex. That's not how I roll.
cherryreefer 23rd-May-2012 04:01 am (UTC)
same.
secretivexhero 23rd-May-2012 05:19 am (UTC)
ia, it's admirable imo and i lost mine as a teen
jasmina12345 23rd-May-2012 12:50 am (UTC)
LOL sis is a runner? her hymen prob snapped ages ago lbr

enid_keaner 23rd-May-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
but that's not the point
jasmina12345 23rd-May-2012 12:54 am (UTC)
lmao I know it's not

I was just jokin gorl
_xxtom 23rd-May-2012 12:55 am (UTC)
lmao
nervous 23rd-May-2012 12:57 am (UTC)
lol irl
harborafternoon 23rd-May-2012 12:58 am (UTC)
lol virginity isn't just about the state of your hymen

and besides, your hymen can recover your vaginal opening after losing your virginity but you're not a virgin again, really
judgmental 23rd-May-2012 01:19 am (UTC)
lmao ilu
ginormouspotato 23rd-May-2012 01:50 am (UTC)
cackling irl i hope someone has mentioned that to her tbh

if she doesn't know already
shantayustay 23rd-May-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
Twerk it, Lolo.
nimago 23rd-May-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
I was 25 when I lost my virginity. I'm glad I waited. But I'm also glad I didn't plan on waiting until I was married. I don't see the point in it.
razzy03 23rd-May-2012 12:56 am (UTC)
Agreed. I get and am totally supportive of wanting to wait til you feel ready and all that, but you don't need a church approved relationship for meaningful sex.

Unless you're really religious I don't get what a person is trying to achieve by waiting til marriage and marriage only til they have sex
sequined_bones 23rd-May-2012 01:05 am (UTC)
idk for me, as an atheist waiting to have sex until i'm married, it's just about a level of commitment with that person that would make me feel a lot more emotionally prepared.

not that i'd advocate it for everyone. everyone should stick it/get stuck/etc whenever they feel like it.

Edited at 2012-05-23 01:07 am (UTC)
another_grl 23rd-May-2012 01:09 am (UTC)
I lost mine a week before my 25th birthday. I'm glad I waited, but after it was all said-and-done, I realized how insignificant it really is.

Edited at 2012-05-23 01:09 am (UTC)
blessedbell 23rd-May-2012 01:40 am (UTC)
Same. I was 20.
I'm glad I waited, but after it was all said-and-done, I realized how insignificant it really is.

Same. My ex gave me some grief about how soon I "gave it up" (three weeks) and while I am glad I was in a relationship at the time, I was just so ready to be done with virginity!
orlybb 23rd-May-2012 01:46 am (UTC)
same...except i was 27
secretly 23rd-May-2012 04:33 am (UTC)
im 19 but same
polaroidmoment 23rd-May-2012 10:50 am (UTC)
lol right? I lost mine at 16 (or 17? I can't really remember) but it was weird because all my girlfriends were still virgins and were freaking out... whereas I just kind of felt like it wasn't even a big deal anymore.
stormer1_1 23rd-May-2012 01:38 am (UTC)
I waited too, for someone who gave a damn about me and my needs. Didn't work out in the end but I'm glad I did it my way.
squishinator 23rd-May-2012 01:44 am (UTC)
IF I WAITED TIL I GOT MARRIED I'D BE FUCKING SUSAN BOYLE ALL LIKE 50 AND ALONE MAKING OUT WITH MY PILLOW OR SOME SHIT.
_malapropism 23rd-May-2012 02:05 am (UTC)
25 and a virgin, could have lost it this weekend but i said no...i dunno i want to be in a real relationship first
blacklicorice99 23rd-May-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
hey, you know, if you have sex, it'll help you run faster

Men will say anything to get some i swear

thelovehater 23rd-May-2012 12:53 am (UTC)
Lol IKR
oceanhue 23rd-May-2012 12:54 am (UTC)
LMFAO. "Wanna come over and cuddle?"
surfin_the_sun 23rd-May-2012 01:02 am (UTC)
lmaoo so true.
msloserrific 23rd-May-2012 01:04 am (UTC)
lmao i love that one.
numbedtoe 23rd-May-2012 01:10 am (UTC)
we'll just sleep together, sometimes it's just nice to be held. -heard repeatedly

wtf has that ever worked? I mean it can happen, but it's rare. lmao
we_eat_coldcuts 23rd-May-2012 01:18 am (UTC)
What about "just the tip". I remember someone on here admitted that she did a "just the tip" with some dude, and it didn't turn into full blown sex and they really stuck to the guidelines. I always thought that shit was an urban legend.

The best part about the person who said it on here was that they said that they had sex with "_.5" people and the just the tip was the half.
d00ditsemily 23rd-May-2012 01:19 am (UTC)
OMG aint this the truth
genbu_no_miko24 23rd-May-2012 12:55 am (UTC)
lol yep
recenthistory 23rd-May-2012 12:55 am (UTC)
I know seriously, how on EARTH would it make you run faster??
dropdeadpirate 23rd-May-2012 12:55 am (UTC)
Oh boy. Can I turn this into a "ridiculous things guy have said to get it" thread? Cause I have a looooongg list.

Starting with "It'll make me bigger, so it will be even better next time."
uma 23rd-May-2012 01:06 am (UTC)
That is some foolishness.
suburb_fabulous 23rd-May-2012 01:07 am (UTC)
LOL.
jearsforqueers 23rd-May-2012 02:31 am (UTC)
lol i had a guy ask me last night if i wanted to "come over, smoke some hookah and watch a movie"

NO THANKS
hollis1975 23rd-May-2012 07:59 pm (UTC)
they trot out the most ridiculous lines
sleepofplagues 23rd-May-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
"it will help you run faster." yall some shady mfers but yall get a cookie for that one.
sleepofplagues 23rd-May-2012 12:55 am (UTC)
i do think it's all a bit overrated. after having sex at 21, i realized it wasn't that a big of a deal and there shouldn't be a rush. take your time and don't let anyone dictate how you feel about yoself ~my $.02~
shantayustay 23rd-May-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
IMO, Marriage is a bunch of bullshit.
dropdeadpirate 23rd-May-2012 12:53 am (UTC)
ia

kind of ruins the relationship imo, with financial things especially
oceanhue 23rd-May-2012 12:55 am (UTC)
IA
sleepofplagues 23rd-May-2012 12:55 am (UTC)
yes tbh
with_club_sauce 23rd-May-2012 12:57 am (UTC)
yup
ugly_jacket 23rd-May-2012 12:57 am (UTC)
i think it can work but that's probably cause i come from a long line of long term marrieds idk
xtinkerbellax 23rd-May-2012 12:58 am (UTC)
IA, it's only necessary when it comes to like, health insurance and taxes lol.
nervous 23rd-May-2012 12:59 am (UTC)
ia, i've been leaning towards this lately
roxas39 23rd-May-2012 12:59 am (UTC)
Truth
abyss_skyward 23rd-May-2012 01:00 am (UTC)
IA.
Hopefully she values commitment more than marriage itself.
Wait, in your opinion, is commitment bullshit?
celtic_thistle 23rd-May-2012 01:05 am (UTC)
I'm getting married in August and I'm really only doing it for the party, to get on fiance's excellent health insurance, and to ensure my conservative family doesn't flip shit when we have a kid. We're both super liberal and have lived together for 3 1/2 years already so it's more a formality. I feel like I've already BEEN married to him for ages.
treegrowth 23rd-May-2012 02:25 am (UTC)
this is me. my partner and i have been together for 4 years and lived together for 3, and we've felt married to each other for awhile. our families are very traditional, so we're basically doing it as a formality and eloping, because having a full blown wedding sounds like our version of hell, for our families and to throw a lovely little party celebrating our love :)
also yeah, definitely when we get married i will have hella amazing health insurance through him lol
scaredsquee 23rd-May-2012 05:58 am (UTC)
i can't wait to see pics, girl :')
freeze_i_say 25th-May-2012 07:57 am (UTC)
congrats bb :)
suburb_fabulous 23rd-May-2012 01:07 am (UTC)
Oh Jana.
in_styles 23rd-May-2012 01:08 am (UTC)
ia I don't think I want to get married tbh
modern_toilet 23rd-May-2012 01:12 am (UTC)
i'm only into it for the legal benefits. if it was just a churchy thing then i would be like "gtfo, marriage" because i'm just about the least religious person of all time. but it does come with secular legal benefits and shit, so i'll probably be partaking in it at some point.
sandstorm 23rd-May-2012 01:19 am (UTC)
IA
adri278 23rd-May-2012 01:24 am (UTC)
Health insurance, tax breaks and kids (that you decide to have together on purpose) are good reasons to be married. For me, anyway.
judgmental 23rd-May-2012 01:28 am (UTC)
it is
hershelwalker 23rd-May-2012 01:38 am (UTC)
yep
orlybb 23rd-May-2012 01:47 am (UTC)
i understand that, i'm starting to see it as a dying institution tbh, don't know if i ever want it
invisible_cunt 23rd-May-2012 01:52 am (UTC)
this

legit only want a wedding for the dress, party, & gifts
traversant 23rd-May-2012 02:24 am (UTC)
Agreed so hard, outdated ritual tbh
dirtyknife 23rd-May-2012 02:55 am (UTC)
Gonna have to agree with you. I don't get the appeal and never have.
nicolesnitchie 23rd-May-2012 05:58 am (UTC)
nope.
blenderhead 23rd-May-2012 01:16 pm (UTC)
Ia
pushpoplove 23rd-May-2012 12:52 am (UTC)
good for her but i'm glad i sampled the bouquet of dicks before i got married
hawaii_bombay 23rd-May-2012 12:55 am (UTC)
LOL
styrofoamcastle 23rd-May-2012 01:01 am (UTC)
A+ comment, plus icon love!
celtic_thistle 23rd-May-2012 01:06 am (UTC)
Sing it, girl.
_xxtom 23rd-May-2012 01:07 am (UTC)
lol gurl you know.
sequined_bones 23rd-May-2012 01:09 am (UTC)
lol clint you would
cautionbomb 23rd-May-2012 01:18 am (UTC)
not married, but ita
sergeantquakers 23rd-May-2012 01:24 am (UTC)
Where can I order myself a bouquet of dicks? There has to be a way. That would explain the baffling success of Edible Arrangements...
fancypotatoes 23rd-May-2012 01:32 am (UTC)
mildly terrifying idea.

a bunch of dicks on sticks arranged in a bouquet.

leatherandjeans 24th-May-2012 02:15 am (UTC)
Lmao all I can think is this

blessedbell 23rd-May-2012 01:42 am (UTC)
A+ would LOL again

the imagery is horrifying tho
bienenkiste 23rd-May-2012 01:53 am (UTC)
LMAAO
rydee 23rd-May-2012 01:54 am (UTC)
loooooooool
nene718 23rd-May-2012 01:55 am (UTC)
lol irl
michelleantonia 23rd-May-2012 05:50 am (UTC)
LMFAOOOOO
ladytia 24th-May-2012 05:04 am (UTC)
lol, omg

Same.
razzy03 23rd-May-2012 12:52 am (UTC)
Damn. That is a long time to wait. I could not and would not. Good for her, if that's what she wants, I guess?


This post has a lot of potential and I'm excited for it. *settles in*
dropdeadpirate 23rd-May-2012 12:52 am (UTC)
Losing my virginity was a huge weight off my chest tbh... so I don't really understand people who want to keep it, but that's up to them. I was all worried about being terrible in bed lol.
oceanhue 23rd-May-2012 12:55 am (UTC)
As long as you don't just lay there and are an active participant (and he is too) it shouldn't be bad TBH
with_club_sauce 23rd-May-2012 12:56 am (UTC)
me too, and the more sex I have the easier it gets to enjoy it. when I was younger and first started having sex I was so concerned about being good at it and so self conscious that I never actually had fun doing it. So I'm glad I got all that crap out of the way back then and with practice can actually have decent sex.

I feel bad for women who wait until marriage because they are usually really disappointed and unable to enjoy themselves as they don't know what positions work for them and plus the first time can hurt like a motherfucker.
bluepassiflora 23rd-May-2012 12:57 am (UTC)
Sex in marriage isn't a one-time thing. The same practice you had before marriage, a woman can after marriage.
lil_creamsoda 23rd-May-2012 01:02 am (UTC)
not for me. afterwards, I was just kind of like, "so that was sex, huh?"
anolinde 23rd-May-2012 01:28 am (UTC)
Still worried about that... I've had a crush on this one guy forever and I would not want to date him until I'd already had sex/gotten experience, lol.
hope_remains 23rd-May-2012 03:47 am (UTC)
Omg yes. It sucks, but sometimes "virgin" is SUUUUUCH a heavy label to bear. Things seem so much simpler after you get over that hurdle, it totally takes the pressure off.
marielaurie 23rd-May-2012 05:34 am (UTC)
lol this is me rn
desirehis_heart 23rd-May-2012 12:53 am (UTC)
If I was 29 and a virgin, my hand would have fallen off from all the fapping. Good for her to sticking to her beliefs though, that can't be easy.
simplychristina 23rd-May-2012 01:29 am (UTC)
lol mte. I have a high sex drive so it would've been nuts.
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