ONTD

Right? In what world does shoving a human being the size of a watermelon out of an orifice the size of a pea NOT change the form/shape/size of that orifice...? idgi

Alright, again, not only speaking from personal experience, but having learned much about it in college, a woman's body changes IMMENSELY after child birth. Your vagina may not have. Awesome, congrats. Sincerely. But no one ever claimed having a baby automatically made your vagina 'loose' or 'ruined'. Far from it. But it DOES change, and to say it doesn't just because yours didn't, is what is ignorant and insulting.

Honestly, if you think it's the norm for someone's vagina to not change after shoving a child out of it, then you should've read What to Expect When You're Expecting a little closer.

http://www.babycenter.com/body-changes-after-childbirth

If you give birth vaginally, your vagina will probably remain a little larger than it was before.

http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/vagina-health/Pages/vagina-after-childbirth.aspx

Your vagina will probably not return completely to its pre-birth shape

I typically wouldn't put this much effort into a comment on ONTD but, being you've had two children yourself, maybe you're the one that needs to be educated on that YOUR body doesn't set the standard for what is TYPICAL.

I am very late to this, but fwiw, my vag didn't change either. Maybe you and I are the exceptions rather than the norm? idk